So an old high school friend of mine has agreed to meet me sometime to catch up.
Thing is, she and I had a thing going on in high school, about 5 years ago. And we stopped talking on bad terms.
Anyway, she already has a boyfriend so obviously I can’t do anything, but what I DO want to do is get her to want to hang out again after our initial meet up. And along with that, I don’t want to be in the friend zone, in case her and her boyfriend go downhill I want to be an option.
My arsenal consists of:
A314
Instant Shine Instant Openness
Turn Up The Heat
and Instant Honesty
Now I was thinking of using:
2 drops A314
Equal amount of IS and IO? perhaps 2 sprays each?
And half a spray of TUTH under the shirt on the upper chest/lower neck area.
Remember, I want her to want to see me again.
And also I’m open to obtaining any other sprays, To Go size of course if you think it would have a better affect.
Thanks guys.
EDIT: I’m also open to obtaining any Putatives, or MX series. Just let me know =)
Personally I’d go for the respect vibe. Using ~none might make her feel a little giddy and shy away. Gaining her respect will help establish a friendly relationship. This way if she ever breaks up w/ her boyfriend you’ll be someone to lean on. Try your sweet spot of A314 and maybe pair it up w/ IO/IH or some IS.
I think what you’ve chosen is a good, attractive, masculine mix and you haven’t overdone the A’None factor which is good.
Now you have to live up to it Be fun. Don’t let her talk about problems, boyfriend issues, etc… surefire way to end up LJBF’d.
If she starts to talk about negative stuff, simply tell her you’re sure she’ll be able to handle it and change the subject. If she starts complaining about her BF, as great as that might sound, don’t sympathise or encourage her to keep talking about his bad points. Another sure fire way to the friend zone. Laugh it off and say “Hey you choose him, hun”. And again, change the subject back to something more fun.
You’re a fun, classy MAN!! And she has to live up to you!
You probably already knew this - I just came over all Tony Robbins for some reason… Happens on my phero-free days
If you want to see her again and be viewed as potential replacement material then a long term strategy is in order.
Most of this will depend on behavior rather then pheros. You do have a leg up in this respect since you two have a history. Try to remember what buttons to push but don’t forget to scale it back a little.
The key is to subconsciously remind her of the good times you shared in high school while avoiding being blatant.
I agree with Blade about trying to keep it fun by steering all conversions away from the boyfriend subject. What I would add is don’t forget to be jokingly fresh. That way the likelyhood of LJBF will decrease.
Since this is a long term goal of yours, you shouldn’t feel any pressure to find the gilroy.
To start out with I’d go for a comfort plus value mix like A314 1-2 drops + IO 3x.
This will keep the conversation flowing hopefully without the deep side appearing that might bring out the bf.
Only after comfort has been established would I start to decrease the IO and add some IS 4x.
A314+ IS: Value+ excitement and closeness.
Then if/when you think its time to strike remove almost all the A314 and add some p83 (10-20mcg) to IS. P83+ IS: Excitement and closeness + plus impulsivity/ tension.
Lastly if you know it is a done deal then add a little TUTH to a IS/p83 mix.
(speaks for itself)
All this of course will depend on you and the sweet spots you’ve found for her.
Peregrine, you are right, i do want to establish a friendly relationship and A314 will do just that =)
BLADE, great advice! I will def not allow her to try to bring her problems to me, I should keep it in a fun exciting atmosphere, make her laugh etc…
LaPew, I completely agree, when I think about it, it does come down more towards my behavior then the pheros. And I actually like your different mix ideas from start to finish =)
P83 I suppose I should obtain? What is its initial affects?
Guess I will just research that =)
Thanks alot guys, if anyone else has any advice/opinions, let me know!
Be fun. Don’t let her talk about problems, boyfriend issues, etc… surefire way to end up LJBF’d.