Hi everyone! I’m a bit new, so I’m not sure what kinds of pheros I should be purchasing when I make my way over to smartmones.
I’m looking specifically for something that will help my bf feel a bit dazzled when around me, as well as helping him want to feel really close to me. We’ve been together for a year-and-a-half, and because he’s got a rather obscene amount of emotional damage from the past, he’s having some trouble really grasping onto me. (Things have been getting slowly better - otherwise I wouldn’t still be sticking around, but me thinks it’s time to get a bit of help in Operation-Help-Boyfriend-Get-Closer-and-Learn-to-Love. (I don’t believe pheros, from what I’ve been told, will obviously get him to fall in love with me, but they have to at least help him feel a bit more loving and eager to be open and close with me, right?)
So far, I’ve noticed some nice results after borrowing my friend’s isB, though I haven’t tried it around him, just in public. Do you guys think I should get some for myself and try around him? What else should I consider getting?
Suggestions welcome, gents and ladies alike! =)
Also…would it be alright to pour said pheros into my normal perfumes?
Since you’re new, as am I, I would recommend going with some instants and experimenting. Maybe some communication pheros like Instant Honesty or Instant Openness can get him talking more and letting you in. Once he starts getting more comfortable with you try some more provocative pheros, Instant Sexiness B if you want a more kittenish feel and him to become more protective. OR instant sexiness A if you want him to give you a lot of respect. Depending on his personality type you should pick your Instant Sexiness carefully because A could drive him away if he is shy. If you want him to be dazzled go with instant shine. Instant shine gives you an aura of happiness that others pick up on. If you’re trying to turn him on and get things moving in a sexual direction try some copulins. Unfortunately androtics isn’t currently selling them, as they are trying to perfect their formula. Although Essence of Woman is one popular among everyone on the site for the time being. Be careful though because its strong and has a distinctive smell.
You mentioned perfumes but the pheromones androtics sells are already sented a pleasant smell. You shouldn’t need to mix them with any perfumes. EOW on the other hand definitely needs some sort of cover sent.
If you want you should check out my journal. I just started my pheromone journey and I think we could probably help each other out a little bit. I ordered EOW, Instant Shine, Instant Openness, and Instant Sexiness B to start me out
I can definitely understand your situation! Take a look at the thread “Crush” Effect or Love feeling that I posted a few threads down… Tisha gave some awesome recommendations-
Primarily EST, Instant Honesty, and maybe some P83 to disinhibit him. It sounds like the issue isn’t sexual in nature, so while IS/b and IS/a and Eow can be very fun, your goal is more bonding, communication, and disinhibiting the barriers that might exist from past issues.
Once those are down and you are feeling close, the sexual/attraction mones can spice everything back up and enhance your connection, but I think that JUST the spice isn’t enough to fix fundamental issues in communication.
I just tested this sort of thing in my journal:
And am finding that IH is working VERY well whereas Cops are kind of intimidating him and making him uncomfortable… I just got Instant Shine and hope that that lightheartedness will be good for us (we DID actually break up because of our issues.)
Also, starting a journal on here could be great! It keeps track of what molecules can do what things. I find that just writing everything out, even the non-phero parts, really helps it all come together and helps to see patterns and decide where to go from there!
FHgirl1115- yes! I’d be delighted to help and have some help. ^^ I actually remember the friend who had introduced me to pheromones…and she accidently dropped her bottle of EoW on the floor, and it shattered. Dear LORD did her place stink for weeks! I was thinking of mixing my pheros into perfume just so I can get a new perfume as “my scent”- something that isn’t too expensive, that I can have two bottles of- one with pheros and one without. I guess in the end, I could just layer. beeabelle4111- thank you so much for the advice! I was considering P83- I’ve never tried it, and my phero-friendly friend has been wanting to try it for some time. Maybe I can buy it and share with her to get double journal entries for the forum. ^^ I don’t know very much about it, but it’s been mentioned a couple times around the site, so it’s got to be worth trying out. What is EST, exactly? I clicked on the tag that your post had, and it led me to the Experimones, but not any one in particular.
I have another question for you guys. One of the other things I’ve been trying to work around (relating to the ‘bond’) is how my boyfriend can be honest with me, but there isn’t a sort of intensity he feels when we’re talking… I want him to experience that desire to want to talk to me, to feel excited to do so, and to be able to feel really feel safe and loved/loving when he does talk to me about anything. I’m considering getting some Instant Openness or Instant Honesty…which would you recommend?
Take a look here for more info about EST and where to get it.
Also I think Instant Honesty is more of what you’re looking for. Openness could be nice too in combination, but if you’re only getting one, I’d say IH first.
