Never kissed an older woman before...

But there’s a first time for everything, right? Now, I know most guys want younger girls, but you never know. NYE didn’t turn out at all like how I expected. I was originally going to be in Tahoe, but plans got switched around suddenly and I found myself clubbing in SF. That was the least of the surprises that night.

I wore 1 drop of A314, 1 spray of IG, 10mu p79, 15mu p74, 25mu p83, 30mu TAF, 1 IS2x, and 2 IFM. I split a half spray of IH4x between my wrists. Residual 5mu p79 and 1 IS2x from 4 hours before.

My friends and I met up at my place, finished off a handle and made our way to the city. We were a loud, rowdy bunch and in the station parking lot, they start chatting up some girls. It turns out those girls were friends of a middle school classmate of mine. She recognized me in the station and called out my name. I was totally unprepared for that and talked a brief moment about our plans for the night then we parted ways. I wasn’t really interested in hanging out with her.

On the train, my friend needed to piss hella bad and despite our suggestions to wait just one more station (30 seconds away), he jumps off the train. One other friend gets off too, to make sure he doesn’t get lost. And just like that, all of a sudden we’re split up. We say fuck it, and go to the club on our own. While we’re waiting we bullshit with the guards and people in line behind us. Eventually we’re in the club, after some more waiting at the coat check and we’re off.

So considering the environment of the club, the combo was decent. There were hella couples and more than a few girls that just wanted to dance alone. I got rejected several times, I didn’t keep track but there really weren’t many options. I think those girls were either waiting for their date to come back or whatever. I have no idea. Moving on, I started dancing with one girl, she asked where my friends were. I had no idea, but she wanted me to go find them. This just put a huge question mark in my head. So I stopped dancing with her and just looked for another girl to dance with.

My other friends finally find their way to the club and we meet up, take some bday shots and we hit the dance floors. Here I’m mostly getting rejected, it’s an awkward scene. It felt a bit like a half empty high school dance. Hella sketchy dudes being wallflowers, a handful of girls dancing in the middle, and the rest of the girls dancing with their dates.

So, I switch dance floors and start dancing with a Vietnamese woman. She looked older, but she didn’t look older than 27. We were dancing for a long time, she was fun, but she seemed kinda distant too, I dunno like she was thinking, is this kid really dancing with me? Turned out she was 34. Not a bad looking 34 yr old. :slight_smile:

I switch floors again and see my friend dancing with some girls he knows. I go over and dance with the one girl dancing alone. She wasn’t particularly cute, but it was NYE and I was in a social mood. I figured, hell, since no one else really wants to dance, I might as well just have fun. She too, was a little confused as to why I’d be dancing with her. She thought I was too good of a dancer for her, saying I was probably in a modern dance group or something (I wish I was that fly. :stuck_out_tongue:) But she got over it and started to relax when I started involving her and getting her pumped up.

Meanwhile, two older women wandered over towards our group. They were obviously waay hotter when they were younger, but they still had it going. One of the women was with a guy just standing around. The other woman was alone, also kinda just standing around. Meanwhile I’ve been dancing up a frenzy for the last couple hours, so I was just going with it. I slide through my group to her. She starts dancing when I get there, I catch eyes with her, smile and dance towards her.

Her face lights up and I say, ‘Looks like you’re having way more fun now!’ She laughs and agrees. We get a little closer, kinda just getting to know each other for the next couple minutes. Ever so slowly, we inch closer to each other until our faces are right next to each other, in a teasing way. Then we make out on the floor, dance some more, make out some more, etc..until we’re both really tired.

I took her to the lounge and we just sat and talked for a bit. People watching and making jokes. Something curious happened at this point. Clearly she’d been having a lot of fun, she was practically smiling and laughing randomly the whole time we were dancing. I’d ask what she was laughing about and she’d say that she just liked how I danced, telling me to do it again. Anyways, while we’re talking she sorta stops, looks at me and says ‘Thank you.’ I’m thinking..what exactly is she saying thank you for? I tell her ‘I don’t know what you’re talking about, but you’re welcome. :stuck_out_tongue:’ Maybe she wasn’t having that fun of a time and I brightened up her night for her? I won’t presume that I’m that much fun. :smiley:

And then we need to leave to catch the last train home. So I wish her a good night and head out. It turns out that the half of my friends already left, one guy was MIA, and it was just me and my one friend left at the club. The three of the left to head to my house, losing one guy on the way (MIA) and getting themselves and the taxi driver lost from the station to my home. Lol. We were trying to call mr MIA, to no avail. At that point, I was thinking, shit..I better not have to drive somewhere hella far to pick up my drunk friend..to top it all off, we had no idea how smashed he was, considering he left his coat at the club.

While we’re waiting for the trains and my friend and I are being sociable and talking to the other people waiting for the train. We’re worried about our MIA friend, hoping he caught a train home. As we transfer to the last train of the night, we enter the train and right there, staring off into space, is our MIA friend, wearing the wrong jacket. Lol, he was drunk as all hell. How lucky is that? It was his bday on the 31st so we got our section of the train to sing him happy birthday. :smiley: We were talking to some other girls for the rest of the way. Two dudes started yelling at us to shut up. We looked at the girls, the girls looked at us, and we both laughed, saying damn, what haters. I guess they weren’t having a good night. At some point, we make it home and crash.

It was an unusual experience for me, I’ll tell you that. Normally, with younger girls, the tension before kissing is strong. It’s like a taut bowstring. Are we going to kiss? Are we not? Will she like it? Will she not? With this older woman, perhaps it was just her, perhaps it was the fact it was NYE, but we both seemed to know exactly where it was going, but we just relished the tension. Getting closer, almost kissing, but staying just out of touch in a teasing manner. There was no confusion about what was going on, she knew what she was getting into and because of that, I think we were both more relaxed and had more fun, rather than being nervous or something. Also, I didn’t mention it before, but she was a really good kisser. There’s something to be said for experience. :wink:

I was felt like Finch last night…

I get an odd feeling that the A314 played a role in older women being more comfortable with me than the younger girls. The p83 made my friends way louder and rowdy. Anyone that did interact with me was very respectful, even those two guys telling us to shut up, shut up themselves when I looked at them. I kinda threw a few curveballs with the A314 + IG, the extra p83, the residual p79/IS and the IFM, but all in all I had a good night. Definitely a night to remember and to recall on other drunk nights with my friends. :slight_smile:

Nice report! Seems to be a trend with this A314 and older woman thing… congrats on the hits. Sounds like you had a great night! Reps for you :slight_smile:

~Haz~

In my experience A314 is flypaper for woman ~26 years and up, the ones who’s biological clocks are screaming at them to settle down and make babies. Buffering with IS seems to help steer the demographic I attract a bit lower but the majority of hits are 30+.

And yes, there is MUCH to be said about older women. They know what they want and when you have one that is attracted to you and trusts you, look out, you’re in for a hella good ride. The flipside is, if you’re not ready to form an LTR there’s a good chance you’re going to have a hard time shaking her off.

Cool. SF is a great city to party in. Sophisticated crowd, plenty of cultural events and lots of Asians. An unusually large population of young, single and professional women live there. I know lots of Asian women whom have finished grad school and moved to SF for work. So there they are in a new city making 6 figures, no BF and in late 20s/early 30s. Their parents are worried as hell they’re too much into their careers and won’t get married and make grandkids. But, yeah, 10 years of kissing experience make a lot of diff…

For me A314 isn’t very effective for “older” women. Androstenone is the bomb. But then I’m an older guy and A314 seems to make me seem even more authoritative and fatherly. Great for work and women with daddy complexes but not generally desirable for attracting women.

Great reports. I’m from norcal and go to school in socal so this may seem random, but I noticed there were a lot of posts with the word “hella” in them. Made me laugh cause norcal is more or less the only bubble of area where it is said, and in socal I get made fun of for saying it. Keep posts this good coming!

I usually find that I have an affinity for younger women (24 ^ is preferred). Lately I have been plagued with girls 17 years old for some reason. I found this to be very odd, but I mean almost every girl I have met has been 17 (No, I am not a creep and would never think about doing anything with them). This all while wearing A314, but when you think status, I would think that younger women might like a high-status guy in their lives. Having that high-status attachment increases their status by proxy.

There have been many times that I have also pulled a “slutty” younger woman (18-23) with A314. I’m curious to know what others are thinking here and their experiences.

Yeah, this was clearly not going in the LTR direction. In fact, there was hardly a relationship at all. It was strictly casual fun and we both knew it when we were getting started. But yea, I’m not sure I’m ready for all the naughty things she’s practiced over the years.. :smiley:

I don’t normally socialize with the late 20/early 30 age group so I can’t say if A314 is ‘effective’ for older women per se, but it definitely works for women who know what they are looking for, regardless of age. Most of the girls I approached seemed indecisive/unsure. The girls that knew what they wanted either somehow caught my attention or responded immediately and positively when I approached them.

But yea, SF is a great city to party in. I wouldn’t mind moving here once I start a career myself. And since you mention it, there was a majority of Asian women at the club that night. I thought maybe it was just the venue, but apparently not. The club that we went to was also more upscale than some of the others, so I’m sure the clientele was also more upscale, resulting in more older professionals than college age kids. All the younger kids seemed like they were trying to avoid the heavily marketed, somewhat ghetto club events.

I’m glad I didn’t wear two drops of A314. But as far as pick up goes, when it works it works exceedingly well. All the other times, unless you make the effort to close the distance, you’ll be left alone. As a younger guy, who is clearly not 30, but could be 25-27, I could see how A314 could confuse the women into thinking I’m older than I really am when added to the fact I’m almost always being told I act older than my age.

Yea, I’m Bay Area, born and raised! :smiley: Hella is in my blood. I make fun of Socal kids when they slip and say ‘hella’. :smiley: I rep B-town and the city of the Sucka Free. :smiley:

I found my experience with A314 on NYE to be a bit contrary to my usual experiences with A314. I’ve worn A314 to college parties and on campus before, and I’ve received pretty good hits from young women. Usually they are a junior or senior, I haven’t seen a strong A314 hit from the freshmen. I don’t think age specifically has anything to do with it. I think it has to do with their mentality.

I think in the case of the older woman, being in the company of such a younger man might raise her status by proxy. I’m no millionaire, no CEO, no status in the financial or social sense. But I do have value in being a fit, handsome, and socially adept young man. I could see how it might translate into ‘See? Stella still has her grooove.’ Almost like rather than an older man with eye candy on his arm, it was an older woman with eye candy around her waist. But I’d say the superficial social dom/sub dynamics were more balanced than in the case of old rich man/pretty young thang. I was still leading the interactions, but I got the feeling that the older woman was showing me a thing or two as well.

As for the 17 yr olds SteveO, lol, just come back a year later. :wink:

As a side note, my friend was trying to talk to some girls on the train ride over to the club and one of the replied that she was 15. Lol. What?! 15? Going out on NYE with her friend that is 21? Get outta here. You’re such a liar. She looked like she was in college at least. I wonder if any of those girls lied about their age? I know you’re an awesome PUA SteveO, but girls can be awesome liars too. :stuck_out_tongue: :slight_smile:

Nah, no chance in lying.

One of them I posted a blog about and she was a stalker. I tried waiting till she was 18, but she wouldn’t leave me alone.

There was a 15 year old who after talking to for a minute you could tell easily. Then there was a 16 year old, who actually surprised me, but she showed me her current HS ID :open_mouth:.

Then there was the 17 year old at the mall who really wanted to do “stuff” with me. No reason to lie and when I found out she had a kid already I decided waiting for her was not in the stars.

Yesterday at BuckyStars while writing a blog I was approached by a very cute girl who turned out to be 17. I guess I make too strong eye contact.

Me a PUA! Nah, just a guy looking to make the world a better place. Harris called me a PUA yesterday from what I’ve heard too.

I can’t say i’ve tried attracting anyone under 21… the clubs and bars i goto are 21+… and i’ve been finding that A314 is netting me hits with older women… i’d say 30+. I do need to order some ammo tho… things are just tight at the moment. When i get some i will surely report - maybe i’ll have hit from the younger crowd.

~Haz~

I like your stories… we gotta go out sarging one time LOL - i think the 2 of us could knock out a whole town in 3 hours :slight_smile:

~Haz~

I have an A314 stalker right now and it all started almost exactly as you described your evening. A 32 year old Vietnamese girl I met at a sidewalk cafe. The difference between our stories is we went to bed. While unspoken between us, it was clear the decision was made within 2 minutes of meeting. We both agreed it was casual. She is now stalking me from 12,000 miles away via SMS, chat and email. It’s quite nutty, considering she is a very intelligent and very attractive woman and can pull virtually any guy she wants. Then again it wasn’t not ALL the A314. :stuck_out_tongue:

For the record: 2 drops A314 and 4 sprays of IS.

Yea, if this woman managed to find me, I’d be so surprised, I’d want to get to know her just to find out how. In a few hours I’ll be a few hundred miles away from my current location. Probably doesn’t remember or didn’t hear my name correctly, doesn’t know my last name, doesn’t have a number or any contact, a limited description of me, and nothing else about me except that I’m Korean. Lol. Seriously, I’d give her a cookie.

But 12k miles? Were you in a foreign country? Or was she? I do think that might make a bit of a difference. This woman had been in America for quite some time. Then again, she was Filipino, so maybe her cultural background is similar. I dunno.

SteveO, we all know you’re a PUA. Emphasis on artist. :slight_smile:

I was on her turf in Vietnam. Compared to the average Vietnamese she is reasonably well traveled, a well educated individual and has dated several western men over the last few years.

Sorry for the thread drift.

Oh okay. NP on the drift. I was curious. I wonder if she was hoping to maintain contact with you in case she ever came to the states.

What’s your application spots, P?

Thanks!

My, my, Phya. :smiley: I’d like to say I’m surprised about the older woman but not really. Not that I think you’ll make a practice of it nor should you. But now that you know…lol. You just got a taste, literally, of what it can be like without all the attendant bullshit. You’re right in your assessment of yourself as usual. You’re smart, have a great personality and you’re very cute even though you may hate me saying that. Tuff. :stuck_out_tongue: You’re very mature and can hold your own in conversation with anyone. :wink: One of the things I like most about you is you don’t sell yourself short. The other thing is you’re nobody’s fool and you ain’t no sissy. You have confidence in yourself because you know who you are. There are men who are twice your age who haven’t figured that out yet. It’s also one of the reasons you know how to make these molecules work so well for you. I could talk about what you wore here but the boys and you have it covered.

And if you don’t mind my saying, what a treat for her. Yummy yummy you. Sorry. :smiley: That’s another thing while the younger ones are still trying to figure you out, she’s already there. And yes it’s scary and yes you’re right, again, not to jump head long into something like that and enjoy it for the moment and what it is. Not surprising she thanked you for making her evening. That would certainly do it for me. :wink: :slight_smile:

I would usually rep you for a great report, kiddo, but this time I’ma rep you for the other thing. :smiley:

Bella

But then again, back when I was in my 30’s I met a girl working at a strip bar (21+) that I picked up and boinked over the period of a year. Ran into her again about 5 years later and she mentioned it was her birthday. I said something about her hitting 25 and she said no, she was turning 21.:open_mouth: Seems when I met her she was 16 with a really good fake ID and 2 kids.

WOW! LOLOLOL holy crap… wipe your forehead and chalk that one up as a lucky hit… jesus.

~Haz~

At least I don’t feel bad anymore :stuck_out_tongue: