Hi Cookie, I see that this is your first post - welcome, and feel free to post an introduction at the appropriate forum to try and qualify for a $25 GC from Androtics! 
Neither of the two pheros that you mentioned are from Androtics, and I haven’t tried them either, so response is going to be a little limited, but to start I think you should read this post, it makes a great guideline on the correct dosage: How to find your sweet spot... Essence of Woman is a pure copulin product, as far as I know, and since it’s such a strong sexual phero it’s probably better worn with social pheromones, especially at places like the mall, where strangers would be less inclined to show their reactions, if they are getting any. You could also read about how to identify hits: How do I know if I am getting hits !!
Try to test your pheromones one by one, slowly upping the doses like it’s said in the first link, in a suitable enviornment for what it’s supposed to do. You really wouldn’t want to go around testing sexual pheros at work or at church, etc. Not only would it be inappropriate for the most part - people being affected my mones can still control themselves, so you wouldn’t get many noticable hits to work with. Also, make sure you are free to interact with people. If you’re dashing in and out, or too busy to talk, there is not much point in wearing pheromones. 
If you’re unsure that pheromones are working for you at ALL, try ordering a To Go (that’s a 5ml spray, about the size of a lip balm, and gives you roughly 40 sprays) of Instant Shine - it’s supposed to be the easiest phero to use without fear of overdosing, and lifts people’s mood, sometimes nicknamed ‘smile in a bottle’. Plus if you order something from Androtics they can cover you with their guarantee, and help you work out what’s wrong, whereas they wouldn’t be able to with SoE and EoW because they are from another company.
I’m sure you already know this, but don’t forget that pheromones won’t do everything for you either, they only enhance. So if you’re wearing sexual pheros you still need to seem approachable for strangers to attempt interacting with you. I hope this helps! Good luck.