Hello all. I’m a newly single female (just turned 40 - ouch!) from NC who is interested in learning more. Getting back into the social scene after many years of marriage is pretty scary as I’m sure things have changed since the last time I had a real date…
My friends at work have been trying to get me to “go out and meet new people” (their nice way of trying to fix me up), but I’m hesitant. I just purchased Instant Shine,Instant Sexiness and Instant Openness (to go) to try after reading/researching for awhile. Would really appreciate some advice as to what/how much to use to feel more confident, sexy and maybe even attract a particular co-worker who caught my eye. Thanks!!
hello unc4me and welcome to the forums.
i know it must seem a daunting task to be a female and get back out in the scene at 40 but have no fear, as long as you are happy being you, people will notice. it is nice to have friends “helping” sometimes, at least you know you have a group of caring people around, well intentioned or not.
IS, Instant Sexiness and IO are all products i have tried. yes, i am a male and yes i tried instant sexiness lol. each of them should work very well for elevating your confidence and your mood as well as your approachability to help move things along.
confidence is one of the biggest positives to pheromone use, it really does give me the feeling of an edge when i go out, knowing something that other people don’t lol.
anyway, good luck. hope you share some results with us and hopefully they help lead you to some positive and fulfilling relationships in the future.
Thanks for the welcome! I cant wait to try them out. A couple of questions though. First, can I use all 3 at once? I’ve been reading through some of the posts/info and it seems that many do. Will one be stronger than another? Also, I’ve read several posts where females recommend using certain pheros for men (especially Turn Up the Heat). Does that really work on men as well?
sure, each of those 3 can be used together but i think you’ll be better off in the long run if you try each individually and notice the subtle differences in each before you combine them, that way you’ll be better able to attribute “hits” to a particular product. facts of the matter are that not everything works for everyone, we’re all a bit different and the way we carry ourselves has as much to do with our social success as the pheromones.
as for TUTH working on men, i have no idea. i’ve worn TUTH many times but never in an attempt to get with a guy. what i do know is that in some situations, men have acted aggressively or confrontational with me when i wear it. you are sending out a pretty clear message with TUTH.
Hi, welcome to the forum!
You’ve made grat choices already. Sure, you can use all 3 at once. Don’t physically mix them, just spray them on one at a time. One shouldn’t overower another if you spray the same number of sprays..
Yes, TUTH works on men too.
Enjoy your stay here…
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 
Great choices, I suggest you start with one at a time. Use one spray then work up till you start to see results. This way you will know how many sprays you need of each product and exactly what they do on there own.
After that then you can layer the different mixes and you will know how much to use. Best application spots are placed that heat up on the body (excluding groin and pits) Pulse points. chest neck wrists hair.
TUTH is a product for men. It arouses women. Women use it to intensify a sexual experience. It dosnt attract men but when used with mones that arouse men they become a bit more aggressive sexualy. When you have a few dabs of TUTH on. Since it arouses you as well, you will be more aggressive leading to a fun time all around 
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Tisha
Do you and your coworker know eachother well? Does he seem interested?
Wear IS/A, Openness and Shine and go to a few places where singles in their late 30’s, early 40’s are. The attention from men will help you with your confidence!
You can also wear these at work, if you go easy on the IS/A, maybe 2 sprays. Instant Honesty may be the better social for work.
Turn up the heat is too sexual for work, but if you land a date with your coworker, you can put a bit under your nose to turn yourself on.
Thanks for the great advice. Actually my co-worker and I are going to a conference (with a few others) out of town this week and I’m looking forward to trying out your suggestions. I already talk quite a bit with him and flirt a little, but nothing has happened yet. We have crossed the line into more personal conversations and he seems to feels as comfortable talking to me as I do with him. He has opened up about his family and even told me why he has never been married (at 48). I’m excited to see how it goes in a more social setting away from the office. Keep your fingers crossed for me!
I’ll be back in town next weekend and will let everyone know how it went and what seemed to work! I’ve been out of the “dating/flirting” scene for so long I’m kind of nervous as well as excited. Any parting thoughts or advice?