I’m from San Francisco and finally decided to register after spending a few days reading the forums.
I’ve been in a LTR with a great woman for 5 years, but our sex life has steadily declined. We’re both hoping the pheromonal approach can reignite things in that regard.
Our relationship is near-perfect in every other facet, but since we are both in our late 20’s, the physical thing is still very important.
It seems the best approach might be “Instant Female Magic” and “Turn Up the Heat”? I don’t wear cologne or put anything in my hair, so I’m looking for products with minimal scent. She seems to prefer me that way as well, so it looks like “Ammo” is out.
Those choices should be great for you. You’re both going into this fully aware of what’s going on?
Turn Up the Heat is primarily best in situations where people are already comfortable with each other, so I think this suits your situation well. I’d start on the lower end of the spectrum to start with, none is great but it takes some work to find the best amount of sprays to suit you. Please be aware that TUTH does kinda have a sweaty “I-just-worked-out” vibe to it, which is one of the reasons why ammo (which also contains none) has a stronger cologne scent to it. It’s not the same kind of smell as “I-haven’t-showered-in-two-days,” but you may notice it a hint. Just a warning.
I would also suggest Instant Shine. It works well to make people happier, and could help contribute some sexual spark with TUTH.
She may also like to look into some products as well. The ladies could suggest which ones will really “drive” your engine, so to say. (:
Hey followthezest welcome to the board,
Congrats on being together 5 years you should def take a look at turn up the heat to heat things up a bit. I use it with my wifey and she loves it. Also she likes when i wear a314 as she is attracted to alpha male vibe.
She might want to try wearing instant sexiness to help her feel more sexy. Let us know how it works out.
best of luck
Yes, but do you think it would be more effective it was a blind experiment?
Thanks for the suggestions! I would be curious what might be a good “couples combo.” Too bad Instant Female Magic is out of stock I guess I will try TUTH, Instant Shine, and A314 as suggested.
Have a look at the two threads in my signature below, both may have some relevant tips for you. If the good lady is interested as well, she would do well to look at the Instant Sexiness, either A or B depending on her personality, I tell you now, it works well She could also look at MX135
Unfortunately, IFM isn’t going to be available for a while but I would suggest Instant Honesty and, while I take on board what you said about ammo, give it a shot, it is awesome!
My 2¢ is that it would be better as blind, but since you’ve already told her about pheromones, I’d suggest not showing her the bottles. IF she brings up the word ‘pheromones’ when she notices a new smell on you (and ONLY if she mentions it), ask her to guess what they are supposed to do rather than tell her what to expect (but never confirm anything, just say “Let’s see…”). If she insists on clues, playfully give her misdirections.
Use this as an opportunity to begin to tease her and flirt with her as you did when you first met. I certainly don’t mean to minimize them, but the pheromones are just a part of the equation. They amplify who you are, so be thoughful, romantic and sexy out of bed, it will work wonders when you are in bed.
I rather like Robbie’s idea. maybe tell her you’re wearing pheromones, but don’t tell her what each one does.
Do something silly or romantic. Pheromones can help, but you still gotta set the mood. Basically, you want to give each other some time to soak it all in and build anticipation before jumping into the sack. It’s not all just <spritz spritz> “come to me baby, let’s get it on”
My name is Tisha and I am the hostess and mone adviser here on PT. Great suggestions from the members.
Firstly AMMO should be in stock now. IFM is gonna be out for a while though.
TUTH would be my first choice. Its highly arousing to a women. Men tend to feel more sexually aggressive around it as well in the right situations.
I suggest IH with it. I know you mentioned your relationship is great other then the sex issue. IH gives a feeling of connection closeness and intimacy. When a women feels close to you she tends to want to have sex more. Since you were interested in IFM and that is out IH would be a good replacement in adding comfort as well.
Now Valentines day is on its way. How about a to-go bottle of Instant sexiness A and B to go with some sexy little item from Victoria secret or something like that. When a women feels sexy she thinks about having sex more.
Now the scent. When you apply it will seem strong but it will dry down in 5 to 10 minutes and settle and you should be fine.
If you have questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
I would suggest 3 drops of A314 to set off that manly, provider, and sexy vibe that some girls tend to get turned on by. And then two sprays of IH and IO. Two of the A314 drops can be applied one on each ear in a downward fashion as the product describes, the third drop on the front of your neck. The IO and IH can be applied one of each to your hair, and then the remaining two to your neck.
Another mix can be in the same fashion but with TUTH replacing the A314. One to your chest, and another one to your neck. Which reminds me, what strength TUTH did you get? If you got the recommended strength then you can probably get away with 3 sprays, just add an extra spray of IO and IH just to make her feel comfortable.
And as Robbie mentioned, don’t tell her at first! Wait to see how she reacts, and if you notice her acting different. Now remember, this will just give you an edge so you will also have to put in your part. Make her feel sexy and attractive, tell her just how beautiful you think she is. Basically just raise her up on a pedestal, as some women tend to sometimes be insecure about themselves and in return because of those feelings the sex live suffers a bit. So 90% you 10% pheromones!
Is the ear/neck the optimal way to apply A314? It seems that the wrist is a popular spot as well.
I tried the Instant Shine on the neck and I have to say that the smell is pretty overpowering. I’m a guy who does not like distracting artificial smells, which is why I usually never wear cologne, hair gel/spray, or deodorant.
Does this dissapate with time? I don’t really want to be smelling whatever I apply to my neck all day!
I got the standard Turn Up The Heat with the recommended strength. I’ll give it a try tonight
The neroli smell will dissipate with time, no doubt about it. After that it will hardly be there to smell, if anything it will just smell very light like the way your hair would smell after shampooing it or conditioning it. In the store options you can customize the products to be unscented, but the only drawback is that diffusion MIGHT be hindered. Not sure if this is true, but that’s what some of us think. However, neroli is there for a reason and that reason is diffusion! Neroli helps the pheromones diffuse into the air so this IS a good thing.
As far as A314 goes, it can be applied on ANY pulse point, I have even applied it on the back of my neck. Keep this in mind, PULSE points are important as they create heat. Heat will diffuse oil based products better as well as any of the other products.
Also, I noticed that every product has dipropylene glycol as a main ingredient. Is this safe? It’s definitely not “natural.”
“Propylene Glycol is found in automatic and hydraulic brake fluid. Used to make industrial anti-freeze and de-icing solution for cars, airplanes, and boats. Used as a solvent in paint and plastic industries. Also used to make polyester compounds. May be harmful by ingestion, inhalation, or through skin contact. Irritating to the eyes and skin.”
I did not know about the unscented versions available! I am exchanging my order for the unscented ones, because my girlfriend was rather turned off by the smell. We both keep a very natural lifestyle, so the scent is rather intrusive and unpleasant.
Dipropylene glycol is termed safe to use by the FDA for cosmetic uses and is also used for various applications, now inappropriate intravenous use is a different story. However, serious toxicity will occur only at extremely high intakes over a relatively short period of time that result in plasma concentrations of over 4 g/L.
Well, you know that’s a little thing that is considered more of a choice by some users. Some prefer scented, than unscented. However, I’m sure that they will still be diffusion.
I guess I will try TUTH, Instant Shine, and A314 as suggested.
She could also look at MX135