sorry for the late reply, my dog of 12 years died, we believe it was the 3 set of pills the vet gave us to give him for his skin condition, which wasn’t serious.
worse thing is i was out getting my mac on when he died 
well back to you point a314 is great, and might work for you scines your very social, as u say,
A314 can give “respect distance” which makes u have to work harder to get them in.
but A314 is very good! i love it.
i may get flamed for this but… you might want try instant jerk… i almost NEVER see anyone recommend it to a newbie, for good reason to, makes u come off as well a jerk!
search around the forum for some post on it, if you haven’t already you should read the mens phero guide, Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15
one thing that pheromones have helped me with is changing my personality with or without pheros, they gave me the edge to interact with women more, and men, and learn to read them better so i know when i can pull out my douche bag card to bag a lady, or my rico suave card 
good luck and keep us updated!