41 year old and found some good advice/info here but needed to look deeper for my specific situation.
At 41 I and always a successful dater I found myself married and separated for irreconcilable differences. Thereafter I came across a professional women of the same age who I have befriended and hangout with on a very regular basis for 13yrs. We are tight.
When I was married there was always a hint of sexual tension between us though never acted upon. She even made a move once and I chose not to oblige.
Well I think I love her now but she is early menopausal and cant tale replacement therapy for high risk of cancer. We talk about this openly she now considers herself a bit of a loner weill not date anymore and is content having her best friend…me…over almost everyday to cuddle and have dinner watch a movie etc…
I am not in this to get in her pants but I am sure it would be nice, more so I have seen a distinct change in her personality and she has to. She is not happy with it but believes there is no real way out as she feels sorry for herself this girl was always an animal now a puppy.
My goal is simple. Give her an option that may help her feel the way she did even 2 years ago. I have considered Maca, oxytocin, equines even androgel. She does not ovulate. I will search more for answers here and will post progress this could be good for alot of women and menb out there.
Interesting introduction post, for the sexual kick take TUTH, but don’t use it without some buffering agents and and mood elevating things, because alone it can be to intimidating. Fore bonding, depth and trust is IH your choice. For a better mood an fun test Instant Shine.
So try this combo: TUTH+IH+Instant Shine. If she still reacts to intimidating and shy, swap Ammo for TUTH. Ammo is more sexy, not in the face sexual like TUTH.
I hope this stuff can help with your problems. Bully how would you describe your personality? Mones are no magic stuff, more a tool for your own skills. The more you are congruent with the phero signature, so much better are the results.
You can get also a $25 gift certificate here, if you tell us a little more about you, say how you found this interesting place?
Glad to see that you ´ve joined us and that you like this board ..
Life has it´s up´s and downs … and at some certain age we all can look back at a lot of things that happened in our life
good ones and not that good ones
Hmm your women can´t take some replacement therapy … she surely has looked into natural alternatives … i think Maca would be an option like you already said … it boostes natural hormone production and is mood balancing
As well … i think that Tribulus Terrestris is a nice one … but you have to get some from Bulgaria .. a little bit cost intensive but that one works best ..
i see you´re looking for every help .. and that´s great from you … it shows that you really love this women
As i know that the girls here on this board are more into some supplements and herbal things …
you should drop Tisha a PM … she knows everything it seems … at least it looks like this for me sometimes … this women is pure gold !
tell us what do you expect mones to do … and what made you find this site ?
could you imagine to use pheromones in some other situations of your life as well … ?
soo now .. what could you do to brighten the situation with Pheromones …
I think you should get some Instant Shine .. it´s a mood booster and it makes you and her feel good … it creates some worm glow ..
Hi bullyhill, welcome to the mone forum, PheroTalk!!! Did you post on the Women’s Indicator’s of Interest thread?! About the sensuality of feet? That was a good observation!
Well, to your issue. My LTR is about in the same age range and I’ve found that some -none heavy products affect her negatively. She is partial, responds positively, brightens her outlook, with Instant Shine or TAA. If it’s a confidence boost that she needs, I’d suggest some IS/b, at least, that has helped my LTR to get a sexy confidence back in her step. Others remark on her attractive qualities… This is just my observations of her as well as her own comments of using these mones. Of course, each person is different and may not affect her the same way.
For you to wear around her, though, I’d suggest Instant Shine or Instant Gentleman, though this last one is out of stock, ATM… But, you may be Ok with AMMO as well. This will provide her, from you, a confident, sexy man, vibe that she should be very comfortable to be around and have fun.
That’s cool that you’re looking at helping her out. Mones may not be the best way to help her particular situation. They will help, though!
Oh, and we have both used maca but in her case, not much in effects. Interesting taste to get accostomed to… :o
Thanks for posting and I’m interested in knowing what happens. Please, let us know.
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It’s specifically for these kinds of issues - taking into account that this man realises that HRT and standard western ‘therapies’ can do more damage than good. This is the link for that book:
Also, would she be open to Natural Therapies? Naturopathy has been effective to the point of restoring health, happiness and quality of life for 3 women that I personally know IRL. Remembering that the gender specific hormones are produced in the liver as well, that’s one organ that ‘lay’ people don’t realise needs extra support as they age and their bodies change.
If she’s open to the pheromones; there are a couple of women that have either gone through ‘natural’ early menopause, or surgically / chemically induced menopause. Happycarol is one of those; as a member you can read her journal and possibly ask her on her thread or in PM for some kind of input. She’s a genuine and lovely person.
Hope this helps you some; and good luck with your friend - just know, it always helps that person when they know that someone wants to help. Even tho’ she may not say or give any indication, she’s probably so relieved that you’re there.
Wow…so impressed with the responses that I will have to sort them out and get back.
I knew I picked the right forum.
JohnnyHard: Thanks I will look into your recommendations. As for my personality…I am that friendly guy to girls that was blessed with a pitbull physique, from hard work gym juijitsu blah blah… it goes well with a guy that smiles alot and is sometimes overly confident but rarely confrontational. I barely have a visible jealous bone, though that is probably more of a defense mechanism. I listen well and not just as a weapon in the dating arsenal…I like talking with girls and they know it, probably because I just like girls so much. My friend and I laugh till it hurts and dance till someone asks me to grab a pole. As silly as it seems I may drop a tear when watching a sad movie so I guess I am sensitive too.
I have been afraid to consider mones that may push more aggressive behavior ie androstenone, I think that is correct. mimicking oxidized sweat. although she likes a sound man I think I might exude that already. She feels very safe around me and states it. As a natural gym buff I have my test checked regularly and only have to use diet and life patterns to maintain a close to 1000 test with a decent igf1 and low to moderate estrogen level. I’m not certain how that all plays out but I sweat for a little even after I shower…usually at her house and I think she is more cuddle like and gets that playful glow more-so then. I feel like she is always on the edge of intimacy with me but I have never asked for it suggested I want it or made the move as that is not my style. I am reactionist when dating and match the move then determine weather to take a submissive or aggressive posture, inherently I like to please.
I love trib and maca…I take it like crazy and keto 7…to brighten the situation I would love to see her when she was this aggressive and nutty friend of mine now she just says that she is losing her looks…NOT…she had been the type of girl that would trap me in the corner to try and make me nervous or when helping her around the yard she was the annoyance sticking her hand down the plumbers crack for funnzies..now she says that she is fine sitting around and watching tv after work or gardening almost buying into her new condition…menopause. I will look Tisha up.
