Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Mike! 
Your intro GC is now in your email.
You can get your wife this pack and a reinforcement of IShine and ISexiness B.
For you, I will recommend the A314+TUTH combo around your wife. A much simpler IShine+TUTH combo can be employed too. AMMO+TUTH is also a good combo although the AMMO vibe will be redundant since she’s already attracted to you. Consider reading about TAC too.
For work, I think A314+IS combo is the best for you.
Happy Pheroing!
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