I made several purchases in Fall of 2011 which worked out quite nicely for dealing with a temporary alpha female boss who was irritated at getting stuck with me. I had learned from a co-worker that she viewed me as not respectful enough and as a competitor rather than an ally. Ultimately she hired me permanently and got me promoted and my direct supervisors are male and love me. The mones definitely helped with her (primal for women and liquid trust were both winners). Wearing them she’d come hang out in my office. Without them not so much. Eventually she came to like me and I haven’t had to use them.
Now, I’m looking for something that will basically make people (men and women) fall all over themselves to help me. ![]()
I will be going on a business trip shortly traveling to attend a meeting where I know alot of people but don’t know them well. I’ll be by myself and I suck at traveling. Perhaps it stresses me out and then I stress out other people?
In my ideal world it would be nice if airline personnel were nicer, if I got an upgraded room and the whole travel experience could go just much more smoothly. Professionally I want to be approachable and at the meeting have lots of dinner and lunch invites so I don’t just hole up in the room and eat room service or go to the mall alone and shop during all my free time.
My goal is to leave a big impression so people are calling and asking me to moderate their sessions at the meeting the following year and/or be a guest journal reviewer, if people want to nominate me to the organization’s board that would be fine too. For the record I have serious professional credentials and these types of notions are not ridiculous for someone in my job and with my background but I feel like I’m just not great at networking and want something that will help me do it better. Does that make sense?
I know that’s alot to ask from a pheromone but in the past I have had travel experiences like this. Once in New Orleans -maybe because its sweaty and I was ovulating or that’s the vibe of that town- a guy offered to drive me around the French Quarter for free in his carriage and another guy pretended I was his wife so I could get through security with the first class passengers.
I’ve also had travel experiences that were just atrocious with flight attendants threatening to throw me off the plane for not shutting off my phone fast enough (wearing the same dress as I wore when the guy pretended I was his wife to help me get through security). Both of these episodes were mone free.
I have noticed that usually when I’ve made big professional advances its been older straight men who are willing to offer opportunities. I don’t want them hitting on me but per se but if they feel like they have an incentive to see me again or they think I’m valuable professionally that would be nice.
Finally I want something that does not relax me too much! Scent of Eros just make me really quiet. Almost like I don’t have anything left to say. This is good for bringing out my husband but I don’t want to seem stupid or like I can’t think of anything to talk about at a professional meeting.
And speaking of my husband if there was some way I could get him noticing me that would be helpful.
It is hard to compete w/the pets, the video games etc…Random impulsive people proposition me routinely but the last time he gave me a compliment was easter. Anything to relight the fire would be helpful.