Hello everyone. My name is Nate and I am living in Nashville TN currently. I just turned 28 and I have to admit I know next to nothing about pheromones. They have been on my radar for awhile and I have done a little research and even visited this forum about a year ago, but I had a GF at the time and things were going well. So why am I here posting now…
Well, when I am in a relationship I generally dont have many problems, with intimacy or otherwise, but outside of relationships my achilles heel is meeting women. It really is just as simple as that.
I work in sales for a small company and have no problems talking or carrying a conversation with people I do meet… but unfortunately the nature of this position doesnt let me meet many eligible females. So basically I need to get out there and meet girls through other venues - bars, libraries, parks, church, wherever.
Ive been told I am above average in the looks dept by females and males (some of my sales associate buddies have even said they could do so much more with my looks and their pick up skills) but I have serious trouble approaching women I dont know. Just scared to death I guess, fear of rejection probably, I dont know exactly what it is, but it is bad.
My general game plan at a bar is to make myself available and see if I get approached. (I know its lame, and im embarrassed to admit it) It actually does happen occasionally though, and sometimes I will notice a girl looking at me and I will approach her, but only when I am pretty damn sure she is interested…
Now, I know pheromones will NOT make every girl in the bar jump all over me, but what I am hoping for is an extra confidence boost when I am out and about and trying to approach someone. If I can get a few more looks or girls noticing me, smiles, etc I think I can capitalize or at least have better luck (with practice).
Really I just want something to improve my chances of getting noticed by girls and establishing a romantic rapport with girls I do meet. I am not wanting pheromones strictly to get girls in the sack, per se, but boosting attraction would be great. I would also like something I can wear semi regularly in different settings. (not just bars) Or maybe I need two different kinds for different settings?
Any insight would be helpful. Thanks much.