Hi everybody. I am 31 years old from Utah. I have been married for 13 years and have 5 children. I was researching pheromones awhile back and was just so fascinated by what I learned that I had to try them for myself. I don’t get out much, so my husband is my only target and he is unaware of my experimenting.
I have tried Lust After Me, Instant Sexiness, Instant Openness, and I ordered Instant Shine but haven’t recieved it yet. I have tried all of the above alone, and in different combinations with no luck. In fact they actually seem to do the opposite of what they are supposed to, even almost repel him. We also fight a lot especially when I wear Lust After Me. We have a great marriage, alot of chemistry, and great sex usually; but like I said I am just really curious about this stuff. Besides, who couldn’t use a little more excitement once in a while.
My question is, if any of you in long time relationships have experienced the same thing? I had heard before that a long time partner can be used to your scent and not respond to other pheros? Is that true?
Another question… Can this stuff throw your cycle out of whack? I have always been extremely regular, to the point of starting on the same day of the month even after having every one of my babies. Since using pheros though, I had 2 periods this month… Help!
Also, what are the best combinations of these pheros and amounts?
Thanks for any feedback!
Hi Giniamonte! Yes, I think it’s possible he’s reacting to the change in your signature. I don’t know about it altering your cycle, though; haven’t heard of that happening.
Since he’s apparently feeling uncomfortable around your changing signatures, it might be best if you start with small doses, and if you can, apply many hours before you see him so he’s not getting hit with the “fresh” stuff - give it time to meld with your natural scent, or your usual perfume. My husband often responds most the day after I’ve applied something (especially copulins).
I’d also suggest posing this question again in the women’s forum so you’ll get more responses and more ideas from everyone.
good luck, and don’t give up!
Carrie
Welcome.
Yes, a long term partner can be disturbed by changes in your scent.
Have you thought of letting him in on the secret, and the experimenting?
Pheromones can influence the menstrual cycle. There is a well-documented effect of women synchronizing menstrual cycles that seems to depend on pheromones.
Thanks.
I will eventually let him in on my secret. I think for now if he knew, it would change the results.
Any idea how to use pheromones without it messing with your cycle though?
Eventually your cycle will settle somewhere and then go normal. At least that is what the studies indicate. I know that natural mones works the same way. All the girls at my office had theres at different times of the month but after working together for so long we all get it the same week now.
When I first started using mones my Husband didnt respond at all especially to the products with cops in them. Slowly after wearing them for a while I noticed a change. Now he reacts to them almost everytime I wear them unless he is really stressed out or tired. I think Carrie’s theory is right and he is sensing a different signature on you. Use less like she said and go slow and see if he gets used to it. Remember our natural mones change as we age but that happens gradually and our spouses get used to it without notice. With these mones we are changing that rapidly and it may come as a shock to them and cause them to become a little confused at first. You are still you and I dont think it will change the way he feels in his heart about you. He just needs time to get used to these new urges and feelings.
Good Luck
Tisha
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Pheromones are your secret weapon! That’s great!
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