Welcome TinaN!
I am new here, been around only a month or so, but there are some awesome people here that can help you. I wanted to say Hello and to tell you that as a relative newbie, I am already seeing amazing results from the products I have tried.
I have Instant Sexiness/B, IO, IH, Instant Shine, and EoW. I absolutely LOVE wearing 2 sprays of IS/B and 2 sprays of Instant Shine! It makes me feel all the things you say you want to feel. I feel like I am on top of the world, and I am NOT usually like that these days. And I have been getting a TON more eye contact, which makes it easier to talk to people, and for them to talk to you. There is SO much more flirtiness in my life now, too, which in itself, is a great confidence booster!
If you wear IO, people will be very friendly and if you respond t o them, it is incredible how much nicer people will be and how much they will want to be around you.
I swear I don’t ever want to live without Instant Shine. IS/B is great, too and I can’t stop wearing it! I have used the IO at work to make my work day more pleasant and it does.
As for EoW, I don’t know how that would work if you are trying to attract women, but if you do a forum search you can find plenty of good information about that.
I have used IH in an intimate setting and found that there was more opening up, though I need to get more results, I am going slowly with it. the self-effects, though…WOW! I was biting my tongue something fierce, so I now do as Astrea suggests and spray the top of my head or the back of my neck.
And I must confess to not sweet spot testing! I am now torn, because I know I should, but I love how I feel when wearing my stuff, and I don’t want to start over. SO, I suggest doing that right off so you don’t get to where I am, thinking ‘OMG, I can’t go out without my Instant Shine! and it’s an IO day!’
Some more of the gurus( i mean like, Astrea, not me!) will give you great guidance, they helped me!