Ah, Le Amor. The ever enduring persuit of the male to find that one female whom could be Ms. Right or Ms. Rightnow. If you are trying to just get laid, then stay away from work. Your place of work should not be a place of debauchery. A one night stand can make work very uncomfortable. My suggestion, unless you want to date her for a long time, don’t do it. Look elsewhere to release your whatever.
Now if you are planning on dating her and going serious, then do ammo with Instant Honesty. Find out what her needs are, what her desires are, how she catagorizes information (i.e. is she auditory in speaking “I hear what you are saying” “I can hear that” “That sounds good” “I like the sound of that” “It just sort of rang true”, visual in movement “Did you see that” “How does that look” “I see what you mean” (these are ussually accompanied with plenty of handgestures), or kinesthetic in understanding “I can understand that” “It felt right” “I just feel down” “I felt this vibe from this guy that just -umph-, you know, hit ya hard with that, you know? I don’t know, it just felt…you know…that kind of -umph- sort of thing, you know?”), what are her friends like? Her friends are kind of important, besides the ussual moral support thing, but you can glean as to how she views herself. Hanging out with extremely popular and pretty girls and is extremely flamboyant in all her movements almost to the point of exaggeration can suggest a person who needs to be the lime light sort of person. This kind of person I avoid or ignore since all they want is attention and will discard me or you at anytime to get the next best deal. A person who has the same movements and attitudes, but hangs out with women who are not pretty or popular ussually have a low self esteem, and use their “friends” as a platform to make themselves look better.If they are more out going at work then they are in private, these people ussually have secrets and I would leave them be. They ussually want to seperate their social lives from their work lives.
Once you find out what kind of person she is, be it auditory, kinesthetic or even visual, ask her what her type of mate is. Now don’t say mate, but you could ask, “Hey I was wondering, you do a lot of flirting, but you can’t possibly be looking for a guy that flirtatious, can you? I mean what is your dream guy? I know we joke around about it a lot, but what do you look for in a man toy?” Here’s an example dialogue…
“Oh you know, I just want a guy that just…sweeps me off my feet. Kind of like that knight in shining armor. Where he wraps you up in his warm arms and you feel all safe and cozy. And he’s got to be hot. If he’s not hot, then no go. I don’t know, you know? When I meet him, I’ll know, it’s just one of those things that’s got to click with me.”
She just confessed to being attracted to a man that fits kinesthetic, visual, kinesthetic, visual, kinesthetic. So a guy who wants to date her has to fulfill those obligations first in order to get enough repore to date her. I suppose I would respond with:
“Yeah I understand that, that feels about right. I can see you falling for that kind of guy, and when you do, everything will just…you know…click. You can see the two of you hanging out and going places, and just all around laughing it up.” This will develope enough repore that I can have a serious conversation with her and not be left in the fun time flirtatious mode. I want HER to talk to me…not her front. I can even deepen the repore if I match her verbage, word usage, and even some hand gestures. I would then redirect those statements to being fulfilled by me. I could probably used some Erkisoninan Commands to help with that, but different strokes for different folks.
One more thing…please be sincere. I’m tired of all the horn dogs in the world that just end up breaking the hearts of women who don’t desserve it. If you are going to date this lady, please date her…not just for humping.
Well I hope that helps in some way…I appologize that this is going to be ten minuts of your life you’re not getting back. Good luck.
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