Try doing your laundry at a laundromat, but pick one that has a lot of people there, esp. women (younger women, even better).
I had two separate hits on two separate occasions. First one was a woman in her late 40s who decided to teach me how to fold my shirts properly. She chatted me up and helped me fold my stuff. The second one was a girl in her late 20s who I caught checking me out, so I took advantage of that, and made the initial moves. Told her I’d make sure to see her there same day, same time next week. I won’t, because I have a date tomorrow night, (and I’ll be wearing something for that too!), but maybe next week…
You need to be near people for a period of time, not standing or sitting in a corner. You need to share their space, bump into them accidentally, etc.
Busy laundromats are good for that.
Of course, you can always try a bar or restaurant. There’s usually one or two cute waitresses/barmaids there. Got a great hit from a waitress at a Pizza Hut once: flirted with her, teased her, and she kept sneaking looks and shy smiles at me up until I left. Didn’t ask for a number or anything, as I was out of town with some other people and was going home the next day. At a bar later that evening, the waitress kept coming over to talk to us, but me in particular, playing with her hair/eye contact/smiling the whole time.
The hits are so subtle, you don’t realize it (especially if you’re flowing with it - the interaction, I mean) . After the fact, you start thinking about the night, and you’re like, “Shit! That was a hit!”
My golden rule is to not look for - or even expect - hits. If you’re looking for it, and you don’t know what to look for, then you’ll either confuse yourself, miss it when it happens, or end up disappointed. Plus, if you’re focused on looking for hits, then you’re not focused on interacting with the person when it happens.
It’s a learning process, so have fun and experiment with it. With time, you will start to recognize hits and be more comfortable with the whole thing. I’m pretty new to this myself - just under 2 months, if you count the time I spent on Pherlure at the beginning. While I still have a lot of questions myself, I’ve already started to catch on.
This forum is a great source of information (and fun posts!). Lots of experienced users here willing to share their experiences and knowledge.
Follow the instructions on the store web site:
“To use A314, twist off the top and turn the bottle upside down over your finger or wrist. Do not touch the bottle to your skin, but instead keep it about an inch away. Wait until a complete drop forms on it’s own, and falls onto your skin by itself. Applying a drop in any other way won’t give you an accurate pheromone dose, and will complicate your pheromone usage.”
That’s all I do. Just be careful to tip it right back up as soon as the drop falls. Sometimes more will come out. I do one drop and apply it to one side (i.e.: left palm, dip with right finger, and spread behind back of left ear, then wrist/forearms/top of hand), then I do a second drop onto my right palm and dip and spread with left finger. I rub the remnants under my nose, (as recommended by data4).
