Hello. I am 30 y/o living near Chicago. I have been married for 5 years now, we have lost the spark. So, I am here to get tips, and products that might help put that spark back into my relationship with my wife.
I want to find out what products would be the best to turn her on a bit more and then seal the deal. We had a crazy sex life before but lately none.
I have read some stuff on here before I joined and I can tell this is the place I can fine the info and products I need.
Sorry to hear you’ve lost the spark but don’t worry, the phero’s can help you get that back! There are a few guys here on the forum who have lots of experience with spicing things up at home Check out Diamond and Bosshank’s profiles…they have great links in them with advice!
I’d love to suggest a few phero’s for you (or her!) to try but it’s alot easier to do if we know a little bit more about you. Can youtell us a bit about yourself and your personality? How wouldyou describe yourself and how do you relate to others?
Also…are you mainly wanting to use phero’s to spice things up at home or for other areas of your life too? Work, general social situations etc?
To get your relation lively again, you may want to start with Instant Honesty. It will help increase the intimacy and depth of conversation, which will help to emotionally strengthen your relationship.
For the bedroom, Turn Up The Heat should definitely help get that spark going again
Well, I an easy guy to get along with, and don’t have problems with talking to people (male or female). I’m a very open guy, and willing to listen to what people say.
I have never had a problem relating to women or anyone for that matter. The problem is that my wife and I have two kids and when we do get in the mood for some reason it fizzles out before anything happens. Or, we are in the mood when the other is not.
Thanks for the profiles of the guys these experiences.
Hi there bigsim, well my fellow community members are on track, Instant honesty will open that communication flow, that is not all the product does, but that is the main effect (Openness along with a sense of trust opening yourself to really talk honestly).
Turn up the heat will get her fire kindling, it depends on a couple of things, pheros are not a 100% thing, it is mostly 90% you 10% phero’s, but it sure feels like a heavy handed 10%.
sillykitty’s suggestions are golden. never underestimate the power of instant honesty and long term relationships. you may find out things you didn’t know that will help you both get that connection back.
I’m on my 6th year, and even though it seems to be less and less,(we’re pregnant with our second ), I try to keep the emotional connection going always. just don’t overdo it on Turn Up the Heat too fast.
oh, and while you are wearing, do as many things for her as possible so you can be close. foot rubs, back rubs, cooking, walking the mall etc.. the married man’s version of getting in the game get your 90 percent so that 10 can do it’s job.
Check out Diamond and Bosshank’s profiles…they have great links in them with advice!