Nick: Going for 100% of Who I Should Be

How I am: I am in my 30s and I work in a semi-corporate environment in a large American city. My work is done on a computer, but I can walk around and socialize whenever I want to.

I get along well with coworkers, and I am anywhere from “okay” to charming in social situations, but I have traditionally been bad about initiating contact. I have usually had people come to me instead of me going to them. I almost always turn down invitations to group lunches and outings, though there was a period a year or two ago when I was regularly hanging out with groups from work. I just didn’t find it that interesting, and mainly used it to get closer to a few female coworkers whose company I enjoyed.

I am having sex with one of those coworkers, but because of external schedules/obligations, we do not screw all that often. (It’s not a cop-out; there really are things keeping us from spending more time together.)

So, I’m fairly well-liked but don’t have that many close friends. I’m kind of private, but I have no problem being extroverted when cornered. I prefer talking about issues and ideas, but I find most people would rather talk about sports, TV, movies, and each other. I’m also not too big on drinking, and I hate bars and clubs in general.

How I will be: I have started lifting weights every morning and making changes to my diet and wardrobe. I will be lean and fit, better-rested, and a sharper dresser. I am all right at these things now, but I will improve. I am also working on developing my small-talk skills. I may take up boxing next year, for the exercise and the self-defense aspect.

The goal is to be 100% of the person I should be. That means having a brilliant mind; a strong, healthy, athletic body; a magnetic personality; and my pick of friends and lovers.

Right now, I’d put it at about 60%.

I want to project an air of confidence and competence, and I want women undressing me with their eyes and imaging me inside them. A couple of women have told me that they get wet just being around me, and I would like to inspire that reaction in multiple women every day.

What I am using: I will be testing some pheromones in a methodical manner, starting with Instant Shine. Tomorrow will be my first application of IS, and I will make the effort to have conversations with people around the office I don’t normally visit. After testing IS for a few weeks, I am planning to move on to Instant Gentleman. A few weeks with that, and I will use Ammo for a trial period. At that point, I will experiment with some blends, and probably other pheromones. I have some Turn Up the Heat, too, which I will use strategically.

What you can expect: At the beginning, most of my journal entries will revolve around the office. Eventually, I hope to bring you along on dates and even into my bedroom (if you stay real quiet!). There may also be an important job interview later this year.

Subscribe to this thread right now and let’s evolve together!

Awesome start to a great journal and very detailed.

When A314 comes in stock you have to get this. When I first got it I found myself ironing my clothes for work and excersising more, doing my hair, etc, etc.

My typical work mix is 2 drops A314 oil 2 sprays 1X IS to hair and either P74 or P96 to neck area.

I am tuned in and don’t worry my lips are sealed.

Subscribing! :slight_smile:

Day 1: Instant Shine 2X - One Spray

The Results
One thing I should have done while I was waiting for the pheromones to arrive is establish a clearer baseline. I have a pretty good idea about how people react to me, but I didn’t do any testing specifically acting one way without the pheromones then acting the same way once I was wearing the goods.

I do smile at people on the street, but not every day. I do try to project a confident aura, but I’m not sure I would say I spend a lot of time projecting the type of youthful happiness Instant Shine is supposed to bring out.

(By the way, thinking about this stuff reminded me of this classic sketch of “The Best Looking Man in the World”:

I hope no one here acts like this on Instant Shine or Ammo.)

In any case, I started with one single, solitary spray of Instant Shine from a 30mL bottle. It’s the 2X strength, though. I have never been a cologne wearer, so I was hoping the scent wouldn’t be too strong. It was all right. Not that strong and a pretty inoffensive aroma.

I wanted to spray it on my hair, so I aimed at the side of my head, not anticipating just how much surface area the spray would cover. Most went on my hair, but some went onto the side of my face.

I left for work and on the way to the train, I walked past a cute Asian girl. I had a happy expression and she brushed her hair out of her face in a way that might have been flirty. If it was, I don’t know that the pheromones were the catalyst, since she did it when she was more than a few feet away and upwind from me. But I do understand that even if IS gets me hits just because I am smiling more and looking happier, it will still be a success.

On the train, another cute woman was standing about four feet away from me and fussing with her hair. She was also occasionally glancing at me in the reflective window. That might have been a hit. Another woman returned my smile after I got off the train, but she didn’t hold eye contact. She kind of turned her head as she smiled.

At work, unfortunately, the women I was going to talk to first were either busy or not there, so I didn’t get to interact with either of them. I only chose them because I had a good excuse to go to their desks, since they were nominated yesterday for awards that my company gives out. By the time I got to interact with any female coworkers (besides one that always talks to me every day), it was more than four hours since I had applied the IS.

But, the girl I did see was one of the cutest ones on my floor. We’ll call her “Cute New Girl,” because she just got done with training.

Cute New Girl was chatting with one of her hangers-on. There aren’t that many beautiful young girls on my floor, so the prettier ones tend to get these guys orbiting them - more about that later. I was there less than a minute, but I made a joke that involved me rather aggressively bumping my shoulder into a male coworker that happened to pass by at exactly the right moment. She laughed and I left.

A note about this girl: she really loves to laugh. When she first started, I was really on and made her laugh a lot, but I changed desks almost right away, because I was promoted. So, I’m guessing she is a little intrigued by me. I never paid that much attention to her, but I’m funny. She could be interested to find out more.

A couple of hours later, I washed where I applied the IS previously and I applied another spray to the same area. About fifteen minutes later, I went over to talk to a cute black girl, but she didn’t even look up from what she was working on. I gave her something to correct and left. She dropped off the correction a short time later. She’s never seemed particularly interested in me, so it’s not that big of a deal.

About a half hour after my second application of IS, I went over to see the girl I’m going out with (FWB), who happens to sit next to Cute New Girl, with a high cubicle wall between them. Their supervisor was there helping Cute New Girl. When he was done, he, my FWB, and I all joked around for a while, pretty loudly. After a while, Cute New Girl interrupted because she had a question, and she kind of hung back around a corner while asking it.

I really think she could have waited to ask the question, but maybe she wanted to be in on the conversation but was a little shy. It was a quick question she asked the supervisor, and I turned his response into a joke that she laughed at. She leaned over to see my face, but someone was in the way and we kind of looked at each other around the obstruction while she laughed. I think that was a blessing in disguise, adding to the intrigue, provoking her to want to see more of me.

I left work with my FWB. We always get along great and I am always happy around her, so nothing else to report here for today.

The Strategy
Here are the main players (with races included in the interest of noting any differences in effects among different races):

My FWB - “Friend with benefits” is a colossal understatement. I will use Turn Up the Heat and probably TAC with her one day. She will tell me if I smell bad or act too far out of character.

She is a pale white girl.

Cute New Girl - Young, pretty, and smart. I will try to be around her a lot more and occasionally try to draw her into my conversations with my FWB. I will be cheerful and upbeat around her. If I notice the pheromones have a clear effect on her, I will pull back some and see if she starts seeking me out. Instant Shine, alone or with Ammo, might be the key.

She is also white.

Shy New Girl - Another girl I have barely interacted with, but who I think might be attracted to me. She is very cute and has a body I just want to plow in to. I don’t know much about her, but there’s a rumor she won’t be at the job long, because she is pursuing a different trade. Maybe Instant Gentleman will be her preferred potion?

She is black.

GoT Girl - A dark horse candidate who I bonded with over Game of Thrones. She is around 30 and not quite as cute as the others, but still good-looking and easy to get along with. This might be another job for Instant Gentleman, since I’m already pretty Instant-Shiny with her.

She is also black.

Friend Zone Girl - My primary target at the beginning. I’ve known her a couple of years, and I really think we could have/should have had sex already. Things just never connected right, but we are friends and she is extremely easy to talk to. She dated another guy at work while I was with my previous girlfriend, and it ended poorly. I’m guessing she’s promised herself she will not get involved with another coworker. And therein, my friends, lies the challenge. (Ammo + Instant Shine, then get her to go to dinner, and ramp it up with something sexier?)

She is white.

Tomorrow, I will continue testing one spray of Instant Shine 2X and I will try to be around more people.

Day 2: Instant Shine 2X - One Spray

The Results
I only worked a four-hour day today, and there was not much contact with anyone I’m interested in pursuing. In fact, I only saw Shy New Girl out of the four players I introduced yesterday.

She came to my desk to drop off some work. This may have been the first time she ever came there, so it surprised me. But she did have a valid reason. I was cheerful, and she approached on the side with the Instant Shine, but she didn’t make any appreciable eye contact.

In fact, there was at least one other girl today who interacted with me without making eye contact. (I thought there were two more, but I am only recalling one right now.)

I did have some cheerful conversations with others, though, including a girl who got into the elevator with me whom I have had only a little contact with before but who acts very familiar towards me. She might not even be who I’m thinking of. If she is, she came up to me a few weeks ago like we knew each other, but I didn’t recall ever seeing her before. We must have just spoken briefly (maybe she came to hook up some equipment at my desk?), but it was awkward asking her name. Well, today, I once again didn’t recall her name.

She’s cute, but I don’t bother meeting many people who aren’t on my floor. That is a big problem to overcome, and maybe the pheromones will help with that. I continue to be bad at approaching people out of the blue, even though I genuinely feel almost everyone there is happy to talk with me.

The Strategy

  1. I am noticing that some women, particularly young, fit, black women, have avoided eye contact with me. Shy New Girl has made eye contact in the past when we were passing in the office and exchanging hellos, but she is pretty reserved. I will pay particular attention to how much eye contact is made to see if there is something I’m doing (or wearing) that is encouraging this effect.

  2. I am moving up to two sprays of IS 2X tomorrow, then taking the weekend of from pheromones. Next week, I will finish up with the solo Instant Shine and start with Instant Gentleman.

So far, I am not noticing clear effects from the IS, unless it’s making people look away from me. In that case, is it because one spray of double-strength IS is too much, or is it working as it should?

They are still adjusting to your new vibe.

Your past vibe is very well-imprinted to these people and they are simply processing the changes in your vibe.

:slight_smile:

You’re right. I am noticing it with some women. They seem a little off from their normal behavior. It’s fairly subtle. I’m surprised that no one has said anything about the cologne smell.

Day 3: Instant Shine 2X - Two Sprays

The Results
Two sprays today, one on each side of my head. As noted above, I am getting a slightly strange vibe from women. I had breakfast with my FWB and I was close to one or two other coworkers, but no one has said anything about the scent. Even though I am very cheerful, outgoing, and witty when talking to people, I do admit that I have to work on getting myself out there and starting conversations.

The Strategy
I’m thinking I will benefit more from something like A314 or Instant Gentleman, but it’s early in testing. No added pheromones this weekend, so let’s meet back here on Monday. BUT, I may have sex tomorrow, in which case I will try out some TUTH and give you guys a summary.

Just letting you know that I’m following this journal! :slight_smile:

Thanks. That means a lot. I started a post on my phone yesterday, but the browser closed when I was walking from the train, so I am going to post yesterday’s journal entry today. I promise it’s going to get more exciting once the testing phase is through.

Day 4: No product used and nothing to report.

Day 5: No product used and nothing to report.

Day 6: Instant Shine 2X - Three Sprays

The Results

This time, in addition to the two sprays on my hair, I applied Instant Shine to my Adam’s apple. There was no noticeable response on my morning commute, and not much going on at the office either.

When I was entering the lobby at my office building, I saw a woman with beautiful hair and an amazing body going in ahead of me. She was already on her way to one of the elevators that was farther away, and I was getting into one that opened up closer to where I was.

Well, lo and behold, she wound up next to me in the elevator (did she abandon the other one when she saw me?) and it was Shy New Girl! She was wearing a black dress cut just right and she looked so damn hot.

Another woman, who I didn’t know, got on with us on the ground floor, and I tried adding my natural shine to the Instant Shine I was wearing. I made a couple of light remarks, when another woman got on, who I did know.

I’m not gonna lie. I hadn’t gotten a lot of sleep that weekend, and I wasn’t at my most charismatic. The conversation was kind of flat.

A couple of other girls I talked to seemed a little off, and one didn’t return my acknowledgement in the hallway, but these were several hours after I applied the pheromones. Interestingly, a couple of male coworkers were chattier than usual with me.

The Strategy

I think three sprays of double-strength IS is too much. One spray seemed to give me the best results. I’ll come back to it, especially when I’m better rested. I’m going to try Instant Gentleman next.

AND I’M GOING TO PUT MYSELF OUT THERE MORE! I will!

FYI I saw there is 55 bottles in stock of A314 and hope you decide to pick some up.

Looks like A314’s all out of stock already, but I really appreciate the tip. Thank you.

Day 7: Instant Gentleman - One Spray
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Day 8: Instant Gentleman - One Spray

The Results

I felt sharper these two days. I applied one spray of IG to my Adam’s apple each day. On day 7 only, I reapplied the scent in the middle of the day. I also have slept a little better, so that might be key to any reactions I got. I am always better at socializing when I’ve slept all right and am feeling energetic.

My conversations seem more easy and open than they did when I was using Instant Shine, but I felt strangers were more aware of me on IS than they are on IG. I have been keeping away from the girls I want to attract the most, but have been keeping social with others. See the strategy section for these two days, below, for my reasoning - which many of you might flat-out disagree with.

When I got to work on day 7, I saw Friend Zone Girl putting a stack of paper into a receptacle for shredding. The container is like one of those wheeled forty-/fifty-gallon deals that you see outside houses, but the top is secured and there is a slot to put in the paper. She was impatient with the thin slot, so she was pulling the lid open as far as the lock would allow and was shoving paper in through the gap.

Without compromising my stride, I walked past her and said, “That is not the way it’s intended to be used. There’s a slot here.” As I said that, I slid my finger into and along the long slit on top of the container. It was very suggestive. I smiled and said, “I’m sorry,” but she knew I wasn’t. She pulled her shoulders up and forward, opened her mouth as if shocked, and let out one of her loud, genuine laughs.

(Don’t try anything like this at work unless you know for a fact the girl won’t be turned off/haul you to human resources for harassment. It’s like a field of landmines out there.)

I also reconnected with a girl I haven’t interacted with in a while, and we had a good vibe. As I was leaving, she called me back for a quick visual in-joke we share. The fact that we have this connection is a great sign. I’ll call her GoT Girl, because the in-joke is based on Game of Thrones.

On day 8, I came up behind Cute New Girl while she was seated, to return something to her on her desk, and she looked up with such a bright, happy face.

The most important thing about these two days is that the awkwardness I felt from others the past two times I used product is pretty much gone. Maybe I was using too much IS, maybe IG just agrees with me more. I will definitely keep testing both.

I should point out that with Cute New Girl, Shy New Girl, and GoT Girl, I am reviewing some of their work as part of my job, so that gives me a chance to show off my knowledge of the work and provide guidance. That might also be a reason to use IG more.

The Strategy

I really have to step up my social aggressiveness if I want better results. However, I’m getting more physically fit and I kind of want to hold back a little on talking to pretty girls at work until I get a little more tone. I just have a bit of a belly to lose, and I think I will have it looking pretty good in the next few weeks.

My feeling is that if I am hoping to get them to crush on me, and I am only a few weeks away from looking much more fit, I will have a better chance if I start just popping in here and there to keep them thinking about me, and then try to make a deeper connection later. I first met GoT Girl when I went over to correct her work and show her how to do something, and we reinforced our connection mainly because she was making a lot of mistakes at the beginning. That meant more opportunities to talk to her. With Cute New Girl especially, and Shy New Girl to a lesser extent, I have much less reason to be hanging around their desks, since they make far fewer mistakes.

Day 9: No product

The Results

My momentum is building.

I had a couple of extended, fun, funny chats with a girl I have no intention on pursuing.

I had a brief exchange with another girl, who I know but haven’t previously mentioned, and when I joked about my becoming a bully, she said she didn’t like bullies but she liked me. This was in a pretty loud voice in the middle of the elevator area, since I was walking away from her.

A woman who was a little stiff around me when I was wearing Instant Shine came by my desk to drop something off. She still seemed a bit off, so I asked her why she was so serious. That question really made her loosen up. She became talkative right away and told me my hair looked “really nice.” I hadn’t even washed it or combed it this morning. (Don’t worry, it’s clean and short enough to style with my hands.)

Shy New Girl and I passed each other. I said, “Hey” (I know, I know), and when she returned the greeting with a “Hey” of her own, her eyes traveled down my body. I am not sure if she was looking at my belly or my crotch, but she looked happy, so let’s say the latter.

The Strategy

I’m going to talk to more people, but only for a few minutes at a time. I want everyone in my section to be aware of me as being fun and outgoing, and also helpful. I am going to put my morning workouts into overdrive and clamp down on my diet. My FWB may come over tomorrow after work, though only for a couple of hours. If she does, men, I will be testing out some TUTH.

Stay tuned.

Dam it is out of stock again I am on cmt time and around join there was 55 of A314

Day 10: Turn Up the Heat - One Spray

The Results

My FWB came over to my place after work. I prepared by spraying TUTH onto the center of my chest. We had some issues to talk about beforehand, but once the sex started in earnest, my girl got a little wild.

She always gets into sex emotionally, but this time there was far less of her usual emotional display and far more aggression. She was biting my lips, more than she ever did before. At one point, she grabbed hard at my chest (probably the clearest sign I’ve had yet that there just might be something to this pheromone business - man sprays chest, woman grabs chest hard).

When we finished round one, I gave a command performance for round two. Unfortunately, she absolutely could not stay the night.

The Strategy

Now we’re getting somewhere. TUTH is a keeper, I think. I might try some TAC, too.

Day 11: No product used and nothing to report.

Day 12: No product used and nothing to report.

Day 13: Instant Gentleman - Two Sprays

The Results

So far, only Instant Shine might have aroused some interest on the train, but it also seemed to bug people a little at work when I went over 2X strength. Instant Gentleman at two sprays didn’t bring any obvious hits, but - again, I am not putting myself out there too aggressively yet.

One female coworker told me I sometimes had a “mischievous” look. Cute New Girl seemed to be looking at me expectantly from afar once at midday and again as she was leaving, while I was talking to another girl by the water fountain. Another girl, who seemed a little put off when I was wearing multiple IS sprays, shared a semi-sexual joke with me about paddling (about my disciplining people with a paddle) and then revived the joke kind of loudly in the middle of the floor.

The Strategy

I have a better feeling about IG than I did about IS, at multiple sprays. I’m wondering, though, if the social pheromones aren’t really for me. I will try larger doses to figure it out better, but maybe I should go with Ammo and (where appropriate) TUTH. I will say that however easy it is for me to talk to people at work, I am kind of a wallflower at times when among strangers, or even when there are a lot of people talking, so maybe that’s where I really should focus the socials.

Day 14: Instant Gentleman - Two Sprays

The Results

I only applied pheromones in the morning, before leaving for work. I did not reapply them in the middle of the afternoon like I usually do.

I went over to a department store on my lunch break to try and find a signature fragrance. The sales lady looked to be in her sixties or seventies - no exaggeration, so no flirting on my part. I am going back tomorrow.

Besides a girl I’m not particularly attracted to passing by behind me and saying, “Bonjour,” with a sultry-ish look, nothing else to report, really.

The Strategy

I am at my desk too much.

There is a work event tomorrow morning where I will be sitting in a pretty large group. I should probably keep testing Instant Gentleman, but I’m going to bring out the Ammo scent instead.

Day 15: Ammo - One Spray

The Results

I used one spray of regular strength Ammo, which I spread to both wrists, a little behind the ears, and a little at the base of my neck, just above my collar bone. It was a much, much stronger smell than the socials I’ve been using, but it died down pretty quickly. I left home right away and walked a few blocks in somewhat windy weather.

I didn’t go to the big work event (it was an hour-long optional gathering), but Friend Zone Girl, who I have been pretty much ignoring for months, saw me as she was leaving and said hi. She had a sad, longing look on her face. I will get to her later this month or early in September.

I went back to the department store and bought an expensive Creed cologne that smells amazing. It does seem like it will come on a little strong, but I will put it on lightly. It and Ammo will be my signature fragrances.

Since I put on multiple fragrances for testing purposes, I did not reapply Ammo.

The Strategy

I am about to start going a little heavier on pheromones. Then I will try mixing two. We are still in the prologue here, guys.

Oh, I should also mention that, while wearing Ammo, I found myself wanting to reach out and touch women more than usual. I came close to hugging a coworker who came over to talk to me about some office conflict she was having. And I was eyeing women on the train with great hunger.

So some clear self effects there.

You have yet another subscriber. Great Stuff Nick!!!

Thanks, Lillian. I’m glad to have you here.

**Day 16: ***Ammo - One Spray

*The Results

So, Ammo and I are getting along.

My FWB called me in the morning and told me she was driving to work. She showed up in front of my home about forty minutes later, and my new friend Ammo and I climbed into the car.

I was getting very horny, getting an erection, and almost feeling like I was going to burst though my pants. It’s not unusual in the least, but it did seem to have a slightly different character to it. I was really focused on my genitals as I sat there in the passenger seat. I told the girl, and I showed her how hard I was through the pants, but we didn’t have time to even get a quickie in.

On the job, later that morning, I was reviewing some work by Cute New Girl when I saw that she had failed to make proper remarks for the action she was taking. I sent her a joking e-mail to get her to put in proper comments. (Just to remind you: I don’t interact with Cute New Girl that much, but I am pretty sure she likes my sense of humor and is open to spending more time together.) She promptly sent me back a screen shot of the new remarks she put in, asking me if I liked the new remarks better.

It said, “nick is the best!”

Our whole exchange was great, and she was using smilies and bright language. I showed my FWB the “nick is the best!” screen shot and she thought I made it up myself. It may be a coincidence, but after I told her - in a cocky way - that it was genuine, my FWB was distant the rest of the day. She might have gotten jealous.

When I was waiting to cross the street at lunchtime, a woman came up from behind me and swept her bare arm against my bare elbow. A moment later, she saw a bus coming and she took a step back, once again brushing her arm against mine.

I also had a male coworker ask me, “Did you just put gas in the tank?” because he noticed me working harder than usual.

The Strategy

My best results so far have been with TUTH and Ammo. I think the social stuff is pretty well covered with my natural signature, so I am more interested in Ammo right now than in the Instant series. Tomorrow, I break out the Heavy Ammo.