For a little mor information i inbtroduced myself here
After thinking a little about it, i guess that i build enough -none by myself.
I would say that im dominant in my working environment, but not in my relationship. My wife isn´t either. We both have our boundaries, and we respect. Would say that we live in a good harmony, beside that little problem.
Trisha advises more social Pheromones like Instant Shine, Instant Openness and Instant Honesty.
The Situation when i try to get a little closer to my wife is a bit the same.
For example when we both lay on the couch watching tv after both children are in bed… around 21.00. Shes watching TV, looking kind of bored an tired.
After all, she had a hard day with two children.
She does know me too good. It doesn´t rellay matter what i try, she quickly realize that i´m going to try to seduce her. Even if i just start to fondle her.
Then i´ll get that look that says: Please, stop. i don´t want to…
I hate that look so much, that i stopped starting the action. I just can´t stand getting the mitten more then once a week 
She only starts action when she is a little drunk, what didn´t happen the last … let me guess 2 years or so. being pregnant an within lactation may be the reason for that. And of course it cannot be, that i have to make my wife drunk to sleep with me.
So after a little analysing the situation, i would look our for something to lift up her mood. Say Instant Shine… and to relaxe herself a bit with Instant female magic.
ah… she has a very good nose, and i don´t use cologne. Just Deodorant.
I guess she will notice any new scent on me, if i don´t cover it with my daily
deodorant, which i apply in the morning and after work. So i would prefer products which as less smell as possible.