Hey Sweet Chloe,
I hope you are doing well with your mones. I completely understand how you feel about your Ex coz when I first came here, I had similar intentions & hopes. Once I went through the posts & Journals, I realized its always going to be difficult.
Mones will get you all the attraction from him, but there is a mental block coz of what happened before. Even if he is attracted, it will hold him back. I think you should make the right environment with mones & then work on your relation to take things forward. Relying solely on mones will not get the best results.
Good Luck!
Cheers!
Roy
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