Hello to the world of pheromone users! It is my first time trying something like this, I live in long island and am a college student here. This is my first time hearing about pheromones and I’ve always been interested in science of the human body. I feel like the idea of pheromones seems to make sense to me, I guess that’s the reason why I feel a certain way about certain people and differently about others on first contact alone.
Although I’ve made a lot of friends in college, I don’t have a particularly active social life. I mean most of the ‘friends’ I have would be better justified as friendly acquaintances but not really the kind of friends like I had in highschool where we were a big group and hung out together everyday. The whole reason for coming to school was to hang out with my friends, they were more like brothers and even now even if I call them for the first time in 6 months it still feels like I’ve been talking to them every single day. I just haven’t made that kind of a connection with anyone here yet. I suppose I could attribute some of it towards people just being generally more inhibited and less trusting towards others in college as compared to highschool. I’m not sure why that is but it is certainly an unusual environment to me.
So, you’ve probably guessed by now what I’m looking to achieve via using pheromones. Yep, I want to be able to make that similar bond, ofcourse I dont mean to say that I’m needy or that its the bond I care about more than the person I form it with. Thats part of being in college I guess, it’s harder to filter out someone’s motives and character here without becoming invested in their lives first and thats what stems all these inhibitions. College has definitely been a pleasant experience so far though don’t get me wrong. To be fair its had its ups and downs.
I also want to be the person in the group that is the center of gravity and the glue that holds it all together, which is exponentially harder to do. I am used to being the person that everybody comes to for advice on just about anything and everything, that’s something I definitely miss. I guess my problems might be sounding more psychological and character related than something pheromones can help me with. But I feel like if there is anything I can do to improve the chances of achieving my desirable social situation its at least worth giving it a go.
I read about pheromones while looking up social stimulants and the like, androtics seemed like the only name out there that a lot of people posted about on places like yahoo answers and then I discovered pheromonetalk and it was like this whole other civilization living right under the rest of the world that I sort of uncovered.
Being in College and all, money is like the hardest resource to come by. Education itself is so expensive. And when your parents are paying for the entirety of it, I’d just feel guilty to want expensive stuff while knowing how much my parents are investing in me already, So I find myself very lucky that here at pheromonetalk you can get a gift certificate to get you started out. I’m leaning towards Instant openness and Instant Gentleman products at the moment (to go) since they seem to be fitting to what I’m looking for. Ofcourse any input would be appreciated since as the title says I am a newbie.
Hopefully I qualify for the gift certificate and can get started with my journey soon. I will be spending a good amount of time trying to understand the uses of these products by reading up on the forum. There seem to be a lot of experienced people who swear by the pheromones which I take as a good sign.
I’m still uncertain as to how I will notice these ‘hits’. Like will it be unusual enough for me to pick up on? how will I know if it’s working? are there some tell tail signs that I should look for? hopefully someone can help me out with these questions.
Looking forward to my gift certificate and soon following order of pheromones! if nothing else it might be fun to try them out.
Did any of you guys have fun or interesting experiences the very first time you tried pheromones? were you able to discern when they were working in your favor? did things backfire? I have so many questions lol..
been doing plenty of reading around.. just waiting on the gift certificate now.. till then I’ll continue to educate myself over the forums.. still uncertain as to how obvious the signs may or may not be.. although I’ve read a few people’s journals and they seem to notice it with relative ease so hopefully I’ll be able to pick up on them too.. excited =D