I have been lurking around these forums for about a month and finally decided to post. When I first saw this site I was skeptical as most would be about sprays that attract women. I decided to order a bottle of the Instant Shine 1X, when the package came it was a bonus of TUTH. I thought to myself that I was gonna start of very slowly as recommended, after a day of debating about using IShine due to the smell I did. The smell was not offensive but I sprayed once on my neck near my collarbone and I decided to let it take effect and went to work. At work I was like most thinking that women would be flocking to me which I know was not gonna happen but was hoping. Anyway after about 20 minutes at work I felt nothing out of the ordinary which I figured was what would happen. I went home after work a little dissapointed. Not to be deterred I decided to to up the spray to two on the same spot. And headed out the next day to the grocery store. I was standing in line and an old lady in front of me turned and looked at me and kinda smiled and turned away. I guess that was a hit but I really don’t know. I could tell it was wearing off after about 30 minutes again I headed back home a little dissapointed in results. After about a week of putting down IShine I decided to try a new product Instant Honesty to use at work to boost my sales. The package arrived (very quick delivery) and came with a bonus of Instant Openess which I had not researched. I was so excited to try a new one thinking that IShine was not for me. The next morning ibefore going to work I was gonna try IH and this time I sprayed on my wrist 1 spray each wrist. I went to work and I got the same results as using Instant Shine…nothing at all. After about a month of using these products I’m not seeing the results as everyone claims. I do realize that everybody’s body chemistry is different and produce different results,but I should see SOMETHING right??? If anybody can tell me what I need to do or what I’m not doing wrong would be appreciated. -Love-
I would just be patient with it. I didnt notice to much at first, but now its starting to work for me. Like everyone says you have to know your dose, and like you said everyone’s body chemistry is diffrent. I tend to have to use a little more ( dont know if this is because im half asian, or not). Try using a little more. Also remember it only does so much for you. I had to do most of the initial engaging to get the ball rolling.
There are a few ‘rules’ that the veteran users have discovered, CanesFan. One, as you’ve discovered, women generally don’t approach. Some do, but in my experience, these women are intoxicated on alcohol or they are older with the experience and confidence to match.
Men do the approaching. It can be summed up as ‘Women attract, men act’ or, ‘Faint heart never won fair lady.’
Spraying pheromones on yourself will not throw biology out of the window and make women go against what Nature has intended. If you engage the women in conversation and then look for anything out of the ordinary like: wanting to hang around you for longer or suddenly coming out with random topics to keep you talking - women are born experts at this - smiles, touching hands etc, most likely you’ll see results.
Two, the veterans have learned to read body language and interpret IOIs. This is important, as a woman often will not blatantly advertise her interest.
I’m not sure what it is you’re expecting from IShine. Sexual hits? IShine can be sexual, but it takes the long road, starting with making her feel good to be around you. This feeling then grows to liking and finally, if you’re lucky or you’ve steered it in the right direction, to love or lust.
Three, keep experimenting with different doses and application points to discover your sweet spot. I use my pheros on my neck which is a good spot for me.
Keep trying. You’ll get there. 
Musk
Hey,
May I also point out that instant shine is a feel good product but wont necessarily pull people to talk to you more if you don’t encourage it. Same with instant honesty, that one is best for making a deeper connection once a connection has been made. Your best bet is to try instant openness, then try it with some instant shine, then try it with instant shine and TUTH but more in a social atmosphere like a bar (when using TUTH, not at work or daytime events). Then once you are getting some reactions, try throwing in some instant honesty as well. I believe if you try them in this way they will get you some results and they will complement each other.
Also try increasing the dosages you’ve tried until you see some results. So 1 spray of instant openness, then 2, then 3 until you get a reaction.
I couldn’t have said it any better than Musk.
You also have to remember that you have been using it for a month, but offer very little insight except on two occasions with no human interaction except an old lady. I’m sure if we had a little more detail about your day we could probably offer even more detailed assistance.
Plus I’m unsure if you have stopped at just two sprays? Most of us will tell you that you’ll find your sweet spot at three or more. We also encourage users to start low and stick with one amount for a few days before moving on. This way you will have a benchmark to see at waht level works the best for you.
Please provide us more feedback so we can better assist you. Also may I recommend giving a call to the hotline so I can personally assist you if you’d like
I’m also quite new to pheromones, and at first when I put this stuff on, I thought it wasnt working. It took me a couple of weeks of testing to see that pheromones do indeed make results. However, we must take into account exactly what it means for the product to be “working”.
I think we have to view pheromones in a certain light. They do not brainwash people. Even the more potent and obvious pheromones in a bar (like MX353) will not have women gushing all over you. If there is one thing Ive learned in my romantic journey, its that it takes the man to intitiate - pretty much 90% of the time. Even if you do wait for a woman to approach you, you are taking control out of the situation.
Ive found out, that what pheromones actually do is put people in the mood. Its like putting on music in the background. If you put on some hard rock, lets say some AD/DC, that could be Instant Shine. If you put on some soft and sexy R+B, that could be TUTH.
What is important to remember here is that pheromones are constantly “working” once you put them on. What pheromones offer you are more opportunities to act on. Pheromones amplify possible chances of opportunity that may have already been there, but make it easier, for example Instant Openness will make conversation smoother and make you more approachable. They may even open roads that were previously blocked to you altogether. What it comes down to is always YOU. You make the difference, you make the choice. Pheromones are there just to help you along the way.
Look, I’m not a bad looking guy, I live on a college campus filled with people. But you know what? Ive been an idiot for the last 3 years, because all I did was walk around listening to my music around campus almost never initiating conversation with women. And you know what happened? I barely got anything done. I’m living proof of the fact that as a guy you must initiate. It takes two to tango, and the man to lead.
Does it mean growing a pair? Absolutely, Its still hard for me to approach women. You really gotta shut your mind off. But you gotta do what you gotta do.
Wow great analogy. You got my vote
Nice post. Fantastic way to break it down into and relate it so clearly. reps to you!
I apperciate the responses, maybe i havent given it enough time. I will take the advice steve gave and work my way up