Women (people in general) are drawn to people people who can excite them emotionally, physically and spiritually. One could argue that SOME women are drawn to men who treat them like dirt because for better or worse, this particular person makes them feel alive with emotion.
But it really is misguided to think that women (in a very general sense) love being treated like dirt. Women are drawn to men who can give them an experience that is significant to them…you can give a woman a feeling of significance without treating her like dirt.