Just had a dinner with this girl. It started out great; we were having fun. she seemed all tired, so I asked her what is up? She tells me she didnt come until 5 AM yesterday. I was like wtf? So I tried to get her to speak up about what she did and stuff. She didn’t tell me everything; just said that she ate some dinner with her coworkers and they drank like crazy and she slept over at one of her friend’s place. I don’t know. I was really interested in her, but her behavior seems really shady. I can tell she was getting turned on (probbaly from anone in ammo) as time went by; however, she kept on trying to distance herself and find a way to back off me. I tried to hold her but she was feeling uncomfortable; So I guess if she is like this, I wouldn’t get any in the future too?
In the past, when I used something similar with 25mcg p83, she kept on making all kinds of excuses not to share time alone with me. Should I say next ? forget this one? conservative? She did tell me she is more wild than I think and she likes to bump and grind on the dance floor. I don’t know. Am I just her “friend” while she is going out drinkign with other guys?
It might be a lost cause or she might have been telling the truth to you. however she might be one of those rare ones that respond badly to none or anyone mone sexually subjective.
Try sticking to socials with her and working the sexual/attractiont side yourself. People really overlook the socials in a lot of places where they can work very well if played right.
do u think she accidentally “slipped” about what happened last night?
Maybe she became aware of it soon thereafter and her mood went down hill from there?
Without IH, I would have never found this crap out? Maybe, she is seeing a whole bunch of guys… who knows?
whatever though… I will go find other girls for now and get back to her later, if I get bored…
1.Maybe the their was much ammo in the mix. I know you know what your doing, but from what I learned here so far is less is more. I’m 24 and I can hardly handle two sprays of ammo.
the girl doesn’t like you and is just using you for dinners and candy and etc…
She is afraid to commit to one man, she has probably been hurt int the past and wants to take it slow.
4.I personally think if you interested in her just talk to her. I would tell her if you want to get with me you need to stop being shady and tell me what the hell is going on here.
I have decided to go talk to her about all this. Also, I am pretty confident I am not going to pursue anything serious with her. Maybe causual fling but nothing more… just can’t trust her enough… As soon as she brought up about her passing out from too much drink last night, I began to ask her all kinds of questions about it. Who was she with? Who picked you up? How many drinks? So what else happened? She just didnt give me clear answers: she just said it was someone’s birthday party with 8 people and it was a bit formal and she ended up drinking 4 drinks and partied until almost 4 AM or soemthng like that. looking back, I can now see how she was looking forward to seeing me more than usual. she actually dressed up nicely than the other two previous times. Also, she once responded well to 2xIG + 2x IS. She was really comfortable with me, but that freaked me out because I didnt wanted to end up in a friendzone so I went away from that combo
When people are really tired or dont feel well they dont respond to pheromones. Its obvious even though she dressed she was probably still feeling crappy from the night before.
Now if you dont want to see her because she partied all night and passed out thats your prerogative but its not like she committed some heinous offence. She is not your GF and frankly she doesn’t owe you the answers to all the questions you asked her. I can see if you were seeing each other exclusively it being a problem though or if its something she did all the time but she said she passed out after 4 drinks which indicates she is not a heavy drinker or partier.
I think we all pretty much did that once or twice when we were younger and we all learned from it the next day with a much deserved hangover.
I say cut her a break, maybe casually date and see how it go’s. Don’t judge her from one screw up though and dont judge her because she doesn’t put out right away. That is not a indication she is not attracted to you.
Sounds like you could be OD-ing too though. I’d drop the IH for now, subtract one spray of ammo and stick with just Ammo + IS.
I’ve gotten that exact behavior you desribed from girls I KNOW liked me but who were overwhelmed because I put on too much, too recently. Tone it down, this stuff is probably stronger than we realize.
oh yea, forgot to mention that I wore glasses with my mones last night; maybe I should have worn contacts for congruency? I dont know… glasses probably arent sexy? So AMMO was a waste and didnt come out congruent? what is the thought on this?
