Hello, ok i went to reunion party saturday, my mix worked well and got good reps from old mates most of who are still hairy arsed bikers.
I knew an old flame was going to be there, she arrived later than me and after quick hello we just circled each other for few hours until the beer was taking effect.
We did not get it together but did spend the rest of night talking and holding hands, after which we swapped numbers and she said she would call in few days.
Well she did today and we are going to meet up next week as she working nights this week. A little while after call i got a text asking if i was sure i wanted to meet up as i sounded unsure!!
I sent text back assuring i did and we have been exchanging text since.
Now i have a long and painful history with this old flame, first meet her when i was 18 and although we were very close we never got it together as couple until my mid twenties. This failed badly as nether of us could deal with intense feeling and i was not really in head space for having relationships.
The result she broke my heart by going off with my brother.
Now i can people saying RUN, but this woman must have some powerful pheros as she just causes feeling no other woman has and just feels like the missing peace.
So what is the problem and how can pheros help?
Well first off there is no issue with attraction but there is with me just chilling and going with the flow, my heart says go for it but head has warning bells.
In the past she always played her cards close to chest but is now doing the chasing.
So looking to get her open up and be honest, plus looking to silence them warning bells.
This is only ever going to be a long or bust relationship but as we are opposite characters it may be a rocky road to start as we will both need compromise so communication is going to be very important.
If anyone is interested in star signs, i am Taurus and she a Scorpio and although i am into them are personalities do match our star signs.
I am thinking that Instant Honesty and maybe some Instant Gentleman would be good start.
Any thoughts?
cheers
PS just read this back and sounds like i need an agony aunt not pheros ![]()