hello all, could someone please help me a bit. i am very very ignorant to all of this. i went to love scents and got a few of their samples. one was the Edge and the other was Scent of Eros for Women. I tried the Scent of Eros and I was amazed that that night - even though it was midnight and my man had worked a long day, and even cooked dinner and was very tired, was very playful with me…etc. I was very excited. I waited a few days and tried Scent of Eros again. NOTHING happened, not even an extra kiss. So I waited a few more days and tried Edge. More than nothing happened. I waited a week and tried Eros again. Again nothing. I have tried both many more times with zero results. So I was excited about nothing fromthe first time. I have even read about copulins - well that will never happen. So I’m striking out all the way around.
I just want our sex life and just our romance and playfulness to increase. WE both work very long days and are tired much of the time - due to work - but heck - I would settle for a quicky once in a while.
What do I try - since I don’t know a thing about this and it seems the more I try to read about it the more lost I feel. Sorry I’m so ignorant
but any help would be appreciate.
thanks for your patience
im just going to tell you to read as much as time will allow in the womens forum.
reading will clear so much up.
pheromones can make you want to be playful,want to have sex, but it isnt going to give you energy or the time to do it.
the only thing that will kick in the pheromones is TIME OFF.
SoE is a good product.
im a fan of instant sexiness myself, i cant imagine comparing the two for women…
instant sexiness is a feminizing,sexy, “look what your missing” mix.
add a little LAM and your cooking.
again, its not going to make you time or energy, and you need both of those for pheromones to do anything.
Hi Rhylee! It takes a while experimenting to get the hang of using these things, so don’t be discouraged. It sounds like you’re in a pretty challenging situation with overwork and exhaustion, you and your guy both. You might find that if he’s that exhausted, you need to do more initiating than usual, and the right pheromone combination may give him a stronger response than usual to your moves.
Why do you say copulins will never happen? Cops are some of the best stuff a woman can use for the purposes you’ve outlined.
copulins are natures “do me” neon sign…
you might get a nice sexy vibe with the mixes,
but copulins make them sex-u-al .
if you’ve been using the gel packs from Love Scent for your first foray into pheromone use, definitely don’t be discouraged. Get yourself some Essence of Woman where you can control your dosage and experiment. Don’t lose hope…you may need a higher dosage of cops depending on your age, if you use birth control, etc. GOod luck.
I like scent of eros but I never really get major hits with it. I am not sure what you mean by “cops never happening”.
If you mean you dont make them anymore because of age or the pill you can buy them.
Working alot of hours can be tough on a marriage. My husband has to get up really early, sometimes as early as 3 am to go to work. He gets home earlier but I go in at 8AM and sometimes dont get home till 6PM. He go’s to bed early and the kids are all still up and around so its been tough to find time. You have to try to make time.
Have you talked about it with him and told him how you feel? He may think you are to tired from working.
Tisha
thank you to all for the encouragement. what i meant by cops not happening was that i was reading about cops in a way of having the man inside and letting it happen naturally. there is no way he would just let me and him sit still and allow that - i have never tried products that have them in there. perhaps i should give that a shot also.
i will sure try all of your suggestions.
i never realized how difficult things would be when it comes to bringing the spice back. i even bought some over the counter male enhancer for him and thought i would be shifty about it and sneek it to him but the taste of it is so gross i can’t even do that. i know being sneeky is probably wrong to all of you, but he doesn’t believe in using things - he believes it should always be natural. but i feel the boost - no matter how it happens - is much needed. for those of you that don’t look down on my being sneeky - any suggestions? perhaps something i can put in his cologne? hehe
It sounds like you found that crazy woman’s yahoo group too! the one about turning men into docile housecleaning zombies through the magic of your copulins? whoo boy.
but yes, there are products that have cops in them and they are definitely worth a try. Get EW and wear it to bed. Follow the instructions in the newbie sticky and let us know what happens!
Oh, I heard about that nutty woman. She sounded completely insane.
Woah! What is this nutty woman thing? Anyone have a link, cause I wanna read it now. 
Rhylee, make sure you read the “newbie” sticky at the top of the forum here, it will really help if you’re deciding to try out EOW (which, ps, will wake the dead. Use with caution. )
xoxo
jp
Rhylee
I dont consider it sneaky. My husband knows I buy alot of perfume and lotions and things online but he dosnt know what a copulan or mone is and I am not about to tell him. He know the scents are supposed to do certain things because I am sure he has heard me and my girlfriends clamoring away about it.
I agree spicing up your marriage can by hard when you are tired and short on time. My girlfriends and I talk about this alot when we have ladies night. Mones are just one of the things I have started using and they have been great so far. I am still learning about them and how they can help but there not the only thing you should do.
Some of the things I have done over the past year with some results are..
Got my hair done different
Went to Victoria secrets and got some goodies
Lost 15 pounds.
Touch more. What I mean is kiss or hug him for no reason, grab his butt when he walks by. Brush up against him alot. Hold his hand in the car when you are going somewhere.
Go to the toy store (not toys-r-us 
)
Pamper him ( I know this is hard cause your tired to) Give him a massage with a nice oil you got at the toy store.
Make his favorite dinner and set the table pretty and eat there once in a while. Alot of people eat on the go or in front of the TV.
I used to be tired when I came home as well (still am sometimes) and I dont know if you do this but I know alot of people do. I did
Dont change into your jammys when you get home and know your not going out anymore that night. Put something on Jeans and a low cut shirt or whatever as long as its cloths and if its real late when you get home and you really want to change into PJ’s make sure there not sweats but something pretty or sexy. Sweats and a giant t-shirt say I am tired, Silk and lace say I’m hot.
As far as enhancers go. Do you take vitimins? You both should. If you have been I have added zinc and B-complex. This is what the guys at work said to add. They also suggested something called Horny Goat weed and I thought they were teasing me but its real. I havn’t bought it but some of the guys at work swear by at. Check the mens forum I recall them talking about vitimins and enhancers.
If all else fails talk to him and just tell him how you feel. Well you should do this anyway. Just say I am spicing up this marriage so get with the program 
I am still working on it to, so your not alone. Girls and Guys if you have anymore suggestions please add them.
Tisha
JP, here’s your link. You have to join to read it, though.
thank you i will surely give that a try and i will let you know if it works. i was hoping to get the $15 gift certificate and have been waiting since Feb to get it before making an expensive purchase - but i don’t think i can wait any longer
Don’t expect to get a gift certificate in the mail. The gift certificate code should be in an email from Androtics…all you do is put that code in the order form when you place your order. When you posted in the Intro thread, Jas said that she had already updated your gift certificate. If you didn’t get the email, you may want to check your spam filter, and/or give her a call for the code.
thank you - i rechecked my email but did not find anything. i will have to give her a call. i was not expecting it via mail - i knew it would come via email. perhaps i am an idiot and deleted the email without realizing what it was. thank you for your patience and help
I got some Edge gel packs and I absolutely love the scent. I think I may have also gotten some hits with it. I was playing poker with the boys a couple of nights ago, and I noticed one of them sneak a glance at me.
But yeah, I’m pretty content with the thought that guys think I’m hot, even if they don’t lose control and burst out that they think I’m hot. I’m kind of a tease. . .
But maybe with a touch of Instant Honesty. . .
Re: crazy yahoo woman’s group
I have heard of an old Chinese marriage custom, where if the bridegroom was of a lower status, he had to crawl in between the bride’s legs a few times (in front of wedding guests) in order to symbolise total subservience to his future wife. Copulin-control? Could have just been an urban myth. Umm, any Chinese people on the forum??
I didn’t read through all the posts in this thread.. I just saw the title and here’s my response:
stop being ignorant… we were all new to this… ALL of us…
Oh, my God; I am enough of an idiot that I thought you meant FAO Schwarz until I got to the oil part. I was like, boy, Tisha is picky about her high class toy stores… 
HAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA