I really believe at this point that it must be me. I have tried several things and NOTHING works. so it has to be me!!! not even EoW works. it doesn’t even work out in public with strangers. Perhaps I just will never has what it takes.
I want to thank all of you for your help and advise - you all have been very kind to me.
the only way to give up is to not try…wear different mixes.
The other thing is to increase the strength.
For example, I LOVE Instant Shine. It was my first and I had just the basic formula. Liked it more for it’s affects on myself, but it’s affects weren’t HUGE, just I liked them.
When I ordered more, I got DOUBLE strength.
You might want to stick in the early stage of phero use with things like Instant Shine and Instant Honesty.
I have only JUST started to experiment with (drum roll, please) COPS! 
(eeeee!)
All the best,
April
Rylee
The only way to fail at anything is to give up. You already bought your mones now you just need to figure out how to use them. I am assuming you are talking about EOW because of your other posts. It took me a month and a half before I figured out how to use EOW. My husband dosnt go “animalistic” like alot of the other girls guys here on the forum but thats just not his way and never has been. He is more subtle in the way he reacts but its finally working.
How much did you use?
Where did you apply it?
Did you let it dry down 10 to 15 minutes?
How old are you and your husband?
We would like to help but need more info
Tisha
Join me in the phero war against monkeys.
to tisha23 - i am 43 and he is 37. i applied EOW to my wrists, behind both ears, the back of my neck and my clevage area. Yes I did let it dry and then, bec it smells funny, i sprayed on his fav perfume over it. I have tried Edge and Eros and nothing. I tried these things on days he was coming home tired from work and on days he has off - so i know he’s not tired. i started looking into this stuff because we both work a lot of hours and for us being together under a year, I think the honeymoon should not be over yet. We act more like an old old married couple instead of new. I’m not saying I want wild sex every night. I just want some of the spark back. We always made time, in the beginning to have some spark or playfulness (minus the sex). Perhaps, I’m just one of those who wants the “i’m gonna take a pill and lose weight right now” type. I know it will take practise and time to learn how to do this all correctly, but I really thought it would atleast spark a hint of interest.
today my 18 yr old is gone and his 12 yr old is gone - so i am going to give it another try. after all - it’s rare that we have any alone time. i’m just flustered - i don’t want a sex machine, i just want to have some spark now and then. i would try may help liven us up a bit.
guess i sound pathetic about now.
is there anything out there i can secretly give him to make him desire me instead of me trying to wear stuff that his nose doesn’t seem to pick up on?
Rhylee…besides EW, what other pheros do you have?
Music, candles, a favourite movie. What did you guys do before you fell in lust/love? Just set the scene and perhaps his instincts will follow. Sometimes when stress levels are high and energy levels are low, even the most potent ‘love potions’ will be useless. Sleep is more important than sex.
What sort of person is he? Shower / Take a bath togeher and give him a back massage with your favourite massage oil blends (I hear patchouli and ylang ylang are pretty potent sensual oils)… whisper sweet nothings in his ear and nibble his earlobe. Well, I think you know where I’m going with this.
I saw a 70 year old man give his wife a peck on the cheek in the park the other day, they were giggling and holding hands like two teenagers in love. It really is all in the mind at the end of the day.
An idea from a guy’s point of view.
Have you tried some of the communication mixes like IO and IH without adding “sexual” mixes? Some of that on a day you and your husband have alone might lead to enhanced communication and togetherness. Also it might lead to increased understanding and the airing of possible issues. Although the effect may not be immediate, quality communication can lead to more and better sex in the long haul.
If you’ll let us know what you have on hand, I think we can help…some mega-doses may be in order…
I would love to get help. i have only tried edge and eros and EOW. I realize that he is tired and so am I but…we were tired in the past and still found time for fun and play with eachother. we did talk today and it’s not a relationship issue - as in - we are having problems or not loving eachother as much. we still see a strong future together. we didn’t really get into the sex issue. i wanted to make sure that we are not having other issues that i may not know of. he stated he still thinks i am beautiful inside and out and is still very much in love with me.
maybe it’s all me and i am expecting too much. all i know is that i love him with all my heart and want to have some spice back now and then.
i really do thank everyone for talking to me giving me suggestions and trying to help. it really means a lot
What Do You Already Have As Far As Pheromones Go?
I could be wrong, but I believe she already told you:
Cheers,
Quicksilver
Well, if the only products you have are EW, Edge, and Eros, you need to try some of the Androtics products…honestly.
I used SOE, and every man I used it with fell asleep. Edge can really make sexual encounters turn animalistic, but you have to get there first.
I would suggest getting yourself a bottle of Instant Sexiness. Pair it with the EW, and you’ll be good to go, I think.
Since you are 43, your natural copulin production is probably decreasing…if you were ever on hormonal birth control, that lowered it even further. I would suggest using 2 drops on each side of the neck, 2-3 in the cleavage, and one on each wrist (this is how much I personally use…sometimes more). Let it dry down really well, and spray some ISexi on. I would put a couple spays in your hair, as well as a good blast to each EW application point. You can either get the ISexi in neroli, which is the default, or you can order it in one of the other scents (chocolatini, cookie, coconut, or grapefruit). The “TO GO” size only comes in neroli. Some people don’t care for it, but I think it is fine on its own. If you’re not into citrus, you may want to try one of the other yummy scents. You can just put your choice in the comments section of the online order form, or call Jasmin and she’ll hook you up.
Give it a try…I know that the products here work…I am a true believer…
rhylee
I am glad that you had a talk with him at least that gets those fears out of the way so you can concentrate on putting the spice back.
You have the bottle of EOW may as well use it. Thats what I kept telling myself when it didnt work for me at first. Go with dollys advice she is the one who got it to work for me. Also consider that he may have issues with his testosterone. Men go through hormone changes as they age as well as women. The EOW is said to help with that but its my therory that he may need repeated exposure to it for it to work if that is the issue. I think this may be the case with my husband and it seems each time I wear it he responds a little more to it.
Tisha
rhylee,
Go see a Doctor and get on some anti-depressant medication. I have read all of your posts…no pheromone in the world is going to help you whether it works or not…you need medical help and medication.
After the medication fully kicks in…between three to six months…you’ll be able to see more clearly…seems to me like you are making a mountain out of a mole hill…if you are having difficulty in your marriage you need to tell your husband that you are having difficulty…apparently he is not having difficulty…the “spice” in a marriage becomes dull after a while if you dont actually like your spouses personality and sense of humor. You better really like your mate (not just lust for sex or like how they look) or when the the spice/lust dulls/wears off and the sex becomes routine, you’ll become bored…that’s when the problems start.
It takes both peope to recognize that there is a problem…if he is not aware of a problem…and states that he does not know what you are talking about…then the problem is yours…not his…he can’t solve your problems for you…he can listen, offer suggestions, support you and try to help as your spouse…but that’s all.
Enjoy your spouses company, sense of humor, doing things with him or her, cleaning the house together, working on the lawn, shopping for groceries, doing the laundry, washing the dishes…everything you and he do together can be a blast…but dont depend on him for your happiness…happiness comes from within you, if you are in a rotten situation where someone is picking at you, is mentally/phyically abusive, is a slob, wont work…thinks your his slave, stays drunk or stoned…and you are not just like him and therefore dont enjoy whats going on…get out of it…I dont know what the entire situation is with you and your spouse…but if spice is all your complaint is…join the club…stop depending on him to spice things up…spice them up yourself…you have a mind…use it…otherwise…it sounds to me like you need to be on anti-depressants…big time.
Frankly I think this was rude and uncalled for.
I am not saying that your advice is not good it just dosnt apply to this.
I have to wonder if you would have given the same advice to one of the men if they weren’t “getting” any. Obviously she must be mentally ill if she wants more sex in her marriage. 
His libido is waning so she should seek medical help and take a anti-depressant. Holy Christ!
She never said anything was wrong with her marriage except they both work alot and are tired. She never claimed to be depressed or bored. She never claimed she didnt enjoy his company. She is not depending on him to spice things up that is why she is here buying pheromones and getting ideas on how to spice her marriage up. She is doing something and its his turn to step up to the plate!!
I do agree that things can get routine but they dont have to and just because someone dosnt want routine dosnt mean they dont like the person they are with. Your libido is fine as far as I can tell. His is waning and that dosnt mean he is bored or dosnt love you. He could just be tired or like I said have some medical issues and it is a problem that BOTH of you have to deal with.
Rhyles there is nothing wrong with you. Alot of women go through this at some point in there marriage. The only thing that Oldman said that I agree with is tell him you want more sex. He may be thinking that because you work long hours and tend the kids that your to tired so he dosnt try.
I starting buying pheromones for the same reason you are here. I was close to giving up on mones when EOW didnt work and I read alot of the suggestions that the women and men gave and some worked and some didnt. I think its great that you love him enough to want to spice your marriage up. There is alot of women who would just go get “some” somewhere else.
If you ever feel the need to talk and dont want to on the open forum just semd me a PM.
Tish
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/3/3_8_14.gif Man I just wrote a big long post and lost it in Modland Well I am sure it will show up sooner or later.
Rhylee there is absolutly nothing wrong with wanting to spice up your marriage. I started out buying mones for the very same reason you are. If you want to talk and dont feel comfortable on the open forum you can PM me anytime.
Tisha
Hi rhylee,
It is fine to give up. Not everything works for everyone. Pheromones do affect people, but they do not take care of entire situations. They’re meant for fun. If you are not having fun already, it is high time for you to play more. Spend time doing things that make you happy and don’t worry about your SO for a little while. He won’t go anywhere, but he will notice a change in you. Pheromones are totally beside the point. Once you have started up the fun on your own, pheromones will ramp it up even more.
Best!
Kitten