One of Cutest Girls on Campus......Hit or Not?

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So, this semester I have dedicated to working my ass off and getting a 4.0, so last night was my first time out all year.

I was wearing my standard mix, Ammo+IO+A314.

A couple of the sorority girls were playing some drinking games with us, and then this REALLY cute blondie sits down near me. She says that she can’t drink that much b/c she’s “sober sister” for the night. (I was actually sitting next to a friend of mine who’s also in that sorority. This friend is, ironically, probably the cutest girl in my class).

My friend leans over to me and asks me (after I ask for sober sister’s name) “do you think she’s hot?” I say “Kinda.” And she replies “You know it.”

So I’m cracking jokes, and sober sister keeps looking at me, laughing. Finally, I decided that I didn’t want to play. When I leave the game, she does too. It then seems to me that she’s following me around a little bit. Finally, I stop and talk to her, and then 3 other guys join in (this girl is probably very used to having many guys talk to her).

I asked to dance w/ her, and she said “I’m not that easy.” So I left it at that. Then, she said she wanted to party w/ us again, and I told her that I could make that happen, and she asks me for my cell phone #. I tell her she can call me my real name, my Greek name, or Raul, and I tell her “nah, my name’s not really Raul.” She laughs and says she’s going to call me Raul.

When I was talking to her (mind you, I was drunk, having a BLAST), I put my hand out (tend to speak w/ my hands a lot), and she places her hand in mine.

The next day, she texts me and says “Raul, I don’t know why you wanted me to specifically text you today, but I am.”

Now, I may not remember, but I don’t think I told her to do that.
IDK if I’d call this a “hit” or not, but I thought it was curious how she gave me the most attention out of the 4 guys, laughed at my jokes, looked at me the whole time, and asked for my number.

Anyways, I plan on having that party, and maybe next time, she won’t be “sober sister” and Raul can work his magic :cool:

Thoughts?

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ALSO, I’ve been starting quite a few threads talking about my hits, so I think it would make sense to start a journal. How do I do this?

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Go the journal section and create a thread :smiley:

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dont forget to put the thead to your journal in your sig so we can hear about these adventures.

i think that as a definite hit. if she asked for your number, that should qualify, you should have used that same “im not that easy” line on her to role reverse

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Damn, I didn’t think of that.

HAHA and usually when I’m drinking, I think of EVERYTHING.

I don’t care what they teach you in school, but your game goes up ten-fold after a few shots.

Imma rep you for that line. DEF using that next time a cute girl asks me for something haha.

When I party with her sorority next time, what do you guys recommend I do? Same mix, different cover scent? Should I enlist the help from my friend in that sorority (the one that asked me if I thought she was ‘sexy’)?

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definitely enlist the help, having another girl back you up is never a bad thing.

as much of a foundation as is already there with your target, this is college and things happen fast, try to make your move asap. you could go out as a group with your female friend and the target, and maybe some other chicks as social proof. if u go with guys, make sure they dont pursue your target

oh yea and thanks for the rep :slight_smile:. my best material is situational stuff so lines like that just come to me

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OK so you didn’t really have to ask if this was a hit. She came to you, followed you, and asked your number. Sounds like you were playing hard to get. If your friend wants to play pivot, absolutely let her help you.

I think you should stick with the same combo for now. I think we sometimes get to into changing things up. She obviously liked what you were wearing, so go with what works.

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The thing is, I am gonna plan a party with her in the future, and I doubt she wants to be that “stand in the corner and watch” girl (she’s gonna wanna dance with a guy).

I was talking to A LOT of girls that night, and she saw it happen (let alone the fact that the girls I was talking to were all top notch).

So, after my spring break, I’m going to wait a week, and although I told her I’d call her, I think I’m going to wait for her to call me.

I WAS the hookup guy, now I’m more the relationship guy, but I’ll take what I can with this girl. Ideally, it goes from date to relationship to sex (unrealistically, sex to dating to relationship), but if the girl is more down for hooking up (which I didn’t get that vibe too much), I’ll do that.

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So here’s the thing. I don’t believe it letting things happen by chance. Seriously you have the opportunity to drive this the way you want it to go. You should make the decision, not wait on her to make the decision.

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This is the best piece of advice anyone can give you. Control the situation!