women who dont resonate need not post,not interested 
i have been a bartender in tampa for several years. ok more like 11 + .
being a female bartender, you not only get to know your patrons, but they confide in you. gee,even those that arent regulars find a strange woman they never have to face again a good therapist 
i cannot stress ENOUGH how they confide in you.
now, would i repeat to another soul what someone has said to me? never-
with ONE exception:
anonymously i find it harmless.
the guys were always looking for ways to score with different women.
“what does that one like?”
“who did she date last ?”
“what can i do to get an edge with that one over there?”
now, was i helpful? oh my yes.
was i dishonest? never.
did the gals get the heads-up that mr. THE-MAN was comming to get them?
sure,why not? i didnt mention names, i didnt single out.
no one is a victim.
okay, here is the clincher-
did these gals report back to me?
F-yes, and somethings were better left unsaid.
i can say in all honesty that there is pattern to the type that do the "conquest " thing.
in almost every situation, i heard things like
“yeah, he was funny and nice,but i expected him to be better in bed. you know, its not his first rodeo. i just expected him to be good.”
or
"wow, what a dissapointment. i thought he was good because he was comming across as good. he was umm, there "
if im lyin’ , im dyin’ .
and i dont mean my hair,baby.
now once the deed is done, do guys care? hell no.
they leave a sea of dissapointment in the experience behind them.
the conquest thing is so telling; but i dont wish to imply the women dont like to “date” around, or that "dating " around is bad.
its fun,dammit 
i think its when there is this goal of being “the man” or “desired one” that really says i have something im trying to make up for,i have a need to be filled that dating 4 chicks cant fill.
when we gals wear pheromones…go out clubbing or whatever and try to garner attention, we need to keep in mind that getting a guy high on his own testosterone comes with consequences.
take responsibility for your actions.
do them or dont do them; but dont cry “not fair” when they bolt.
and honestly, if you believe a guy that tells you what you want to hear the first time you meet them, and being funny and having a cool car is the only requirement for your one nighter, bless ya. go have fun.
these are the guys more often than not LACKING in bedskills,if you know what i mean
if they werent, wouldnt women be comming after them, instead of them learning how to go after women???
pheromone / copulin is serious stuff if you believe they work.
i for one cannot be convinced otherwise . they are hardcore.
fun has to be smart ,too.
thats what i really wanted to say. 
