Last night, I went out to play soccer with my sports group, who I haven’t played with in a while, due to being busy with work until recently. The morning prior, I received my order of Ammo World, Instant Openness, and P84. I already know about Ammo World and IO, but P84 was new to me. So I decided to test it out on my sports group. I put on 2 sprays (5 mcg each) on the sides of my neck. (The other two, I’ll test out in a salsa club.)
A bit of background info: I usually don’t do so hot in the way of charisma, such as having to put in extra effort to have my question/comment/request heard in a group. This includes my sports group to some extent. But that night, people seemed to listen to me almost without question. For example, I suggested doing a practice circle (the 6 players standing in a small circle, and kicking the ball to each other, going clockwise), and people immediately agreed and took the time to hear my explanation of what I wanted to do. Normally, this kind of thing comes to me with some difficulty, although I’m working on that by correcting my body langauge, and even planning to take a public speaking and/or a voice training class. (Although those will have to wait until I’m working again, since they’re kind of pricey.)
Speaking of voice, no one had a problem hearing me. I’d say something, and people within hearing range would immediately answer or comment back. That was true even though we played outside in a city park, on a windy day, near a noisy street. I have to add that I was wearing a camouflage T-shirt, so perhaps it subconsciously reminded people of the army, where listening to commands is everything, which added fuel to the fire called P84. (Come to think of it, I sometimes get slightly better service in stores when I wear camouflage T-shirts.) Then after I got home, I found two women messaged me through the group’s site to say “good game!”, even though we didn’t flirt or anything (they might not even be single), just greetings and sports talk.
Perhaps it’s a friendly, co-operative group (which it is), and/or the people were in an unusually good mood that night, but it never comes so easy for me to be heard when talking in a group setting, let alone giving sports commands. P84 is worth its weight in liquid gold!