First off, thanks to everyone who contributes here. There are some fantastic resources amongst the members, and I’ve enjoyed reading alot of what has been shared.
As for me - 38, married, father of a 6yr old and a 4 yr old. Physically active, but not been accused of being fit in quite some time. Employed as a middle manager of about 35 direct reports.
My most keen interest right now is wooing my wife. She has recently gone back to work, and between the kids, our careers, and other committments, we are out of practice at “us” time. No huge red flags in the relationship - we communicate well, enjoy time together, and enjoy sex a few times a month. We’ve been married for 15 years.
So why the change? Well, short answer is that I was on a medication for the last 14 years that was apparently adversely affecting my libido. My new doctor migrated me to something different, and I am feeling revved up quite a bit more often these days. Couple all these factors - increased stress and fatigue levels at home for her, the natural progression of things as we approach the next decade milestone, and me being horny as a 10 dicked billy-goat all the time, and you’ll have a recipe for frustration.
Ideal pheremone goal - Something that helps deepen our time together. Something that awakens that peaceful feeling that reminds her that everything is fine, and she is safe and all is well. And, should it lead to anything more, wonderful.
Aww, what a sweet hubby you are, sorry I’m not much of a help here, since I don’t know much about the products that the guys use.
However, to make her feel calm and peaceful, I’d suggest instant female magic. Instant shine is also fantastic, it’ll make you feel in a good mood as well, while making you feel more confidence.
Others will drop in to help you out, so hold on hun, and hope you have fun!
To spice up your marital life, try Turn up the Heat. For deepening your time together, Instant Honesty would be great! You way also want to wear Ammo Cologne, while she wears Instant Sexiness, so you can both be sexy and attractive. Add a date night for more result!
The ladies have spoken, and they offer some great suggestions. As you hopefully realize, pheromones will help, but they won’t address the underlying issue of the medication and stress. I don’t know if you can do something to take some of the stress off your wife, but maybe if you take on some chores that are normally things she deals with, along with wearing the suggested pheros, you may get a 1-2 punch of goodness that leads to a wild night for you both.
Hrm.. I really appreciate the chore suggestion - even after a long time together it’s easy to forget how nice it is to come home and find things done.
Let me twist this a bit with a different approach - She went back to work as a manager for a very small organization - there are about 10 people total there, and she is in charge of 8 of them. Coming in from the outside has been difficult for her due to having to butt her way into line in the “pecking order.” Any recommendations for helping her work relationships? She is very confident and outgoing already, but there a few conflicts with the old pack accepting her as the new top dog. Perhaps a gift for my lovely wife is in order?
Juggling kids and a new job can be draining, I suggest Ishine for a upbeat warm youthful vibe. It can be quite energizing as well. You both could use it.
IH to deepen communications and evoke a deep connected intimate vibe.
IFM can ease her stress and increase affection.
Next I am gonna suggest the big guns… TUTH. This one is sex in a bottle. Very arousing. use it on nights when she is not pooped out.
I suggest MX134 for her. This is the female version of A314 the trust respect mone. I find when I use it people are more helpful and accommodating and those who normally annoy me or get on my case lay off pretty much.
I find my self in a similar situation, med depressed libido, wife is hugely busy, sex life on the wane. My reason for being here is to try sparking up our love life. I have been wearing Turn Up the Heat and A314 pretty regularly around the house and well, my wife is unusually frisky lately I would say this has been a good beginning. I am adding Ammo to the mix as soon as it arrives (today hopefully).
I would say the addition of helping around the house, do something extra for her/the two of you doesn’t hurt, either.
Thank you everyone for the advice, and to the staff for the GC. I’ve been doing dishes, cleaning cat boxes, helping with the kids, and contemplating my order.
I had purchased TUTH prior to posting. Have been wearing one spray to the chest around the house. I’ve been getting hits from the mrs, but as has been stated many times, there is more to romance than a face full of pheremones. Mostly there has been alot more touching and closeness, which I believe would normally lead to other things if we weren’t so dogged tired. Biggest “obvious” hit so far was sitting on the sofa last night watching TV in a pile, she put her head directly on my chest and made sort of a mmmmmmm noise. No comments about the scent of it, although I can smell it well enough.
I’ve placed a follow up order - A314 & Ammo for me, MX134 and ISexy for her, and IShine for sharing. I’ll post my follow ups in the appropriate forum from here on out.
