For those of you who don’t know my issues, here is a brief summary…
I have been in a LTR for 15 years, married for 8, basically I wanted to spice things up a bit in the bedroom department where the frequency was found lacking…
She is telling me that it is I ‘smell’ like a person she can’t stand !!!
I know that these are the pheromones speaking, but I didn’t think I would get a reaction like this when I am wearing IFM… TUTH why not (I could be seen as a sexual predator) but IFM???
I thought Instant Female Magic was supposed to be working miracle in soothing and relaxing women, even adding a bit of attraction…
I have wondered myself about the effects of a radically changed phero-signature on those closest to the wearer, like friends, family and LTRs. Perhaps it is the radical unfamiliarity that your wife is uncomfortable with, rather than the IFM per se. Did you put a great deal of it on initially?
I had 2 sprays late afternoon (hair and back of neck)…
I also think that it is not the ‘smell’ but that unfamiliarity that is bothering her… But how do you change that ? Does that mean that if you can change it you have to stick to 1 mix of pheros ?
hmmm… I can only think that one might just gradually build up the vibe by applying 1/2 spray one day, or even week, until the person becomes acclimatised to it, and then going up in 1/2 spray increments…?
But I dunno really. There do seem to be many people on the forum with spouses who don’t get the same sort of reactions. So maybe your wife is particularly sensitive to pheromones (both natural and artificial). Which, of course, could actually turn out to be a very good thing once you find the right mix and have “pitched” it in the right way.
You change it by going slow…without knocking her out of the ballpark with heavy doses. At first stick to the same mix, don’t wanna start confusing her even more by switching things up too soon. There’s plenty of time for that later. I know you’re in a hurry, Hot Pants but take it easy you’ll get there.
Give that little cutiepie a kiss from Auntie Bella.