So im wondering, i just ordered my first shipment and have not received them yet, but if you read my into in the noob area you will know what my intentions are. I am using them mainly for my LTR and am wondering if, since she is so used to my natural “signature”, if wearing the pheros could cause a negative effect just based on her subconciously knowing “somthing” about me has changed. has anyone had this effect with an LTR, or maybe just someone there around on a daily basis?
Just start slowly…don’t blast on a bunch of TUTH or she’ll know something’s up!
Stick to one spray for a few days, and if you don’t notice much (which you probably won’t), then up it another spray for a few days, and so on.
Sometimes, those who are the closest to us actually take longer to respond to pheros so if you don’t notice anything right away, just give it a little longer…it may even take a week or two to get any responses from your wife.
I rotate my phero sig about close friends, family and lovers all the time and nobody notices. I figure they must think they have me pegged and I’d have to do nekid handstands to dent their hardened expectations. I find the best–more obvious–responses to be from strangers and causal acquaintances.
Not negative really but she may try to place whats different about you. She may ask questions like… did you lose weight? Get a hair cut ??? Things like that. She may look at you funny and then suddenly she will except the new sig and the vibes they send and just react.
Tisha
When i wear social pheros around my LTR she always says i smell funny. I cover with Boss Selections by Hugo Boss which is what i wear every day. It’s obvious the pheros are not changing the way i smell, she is smelling the pheros and says i smell funny. My parents do not react to pheromones either.
However when i pull out some TUTH or another mix that is for seduction she responds very well. If you are looking to boost your relationship sexualy, 1-2 sprays of TUTH to the chest is all you need. Definitly try one first and report back.
So i bought to-go IS, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and AMMO, my main goal is to get the communication and intimate (not sex but just deep type) conversation back i honestly believe that if i can get those doors opened back up just a little the sex will start to come back on its own. granted i did buy the ammo just to kinda put the idea in the back of her head every so often. i know its gotta be 90% me though. for the most part we have alot of fun together when we get the chance to have fun. and ide say generally have a decent relationship. just could use some work on a few things. and i think once i find my dosage the combination of my choices will help… ill keep you posted and start a journal or something. my shipment should be coming in monday
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Is there a way to make this happen more often? Date night once a week? Send the kids to grandmas (if that applies)? You cook a meal for her & clean up afterwards then popcorn & a movie? Evening walks together? Just some ideas…
no not really, i work graveyards 10p - 6a with wens/thurs off she works 11 (has leave by 10a) till 8p with sat/sun off so i pretty much get home and shes asleep i give a light kiss on her forehead and fall asleep and she is gone when i wake up and im gone when she gets home…it really sucks…on my days off im obviously up when she gets home but shes burnt out and on her days off i wake up and shes home but im getting ready for my work week. its a tough situation… she says our lack of sex life has to do with her not being comfortable with her apearance… of cource i do what i can to compliment and whatnot and i do random acts of kindess and whatnot but it doesnt help… i dunno at this point there is more to it i just dont feel like writing 3 pages of making her look like the bad guy cause i know there is things i can work on to. im just really frustrated at the moment.
How about something as simple as a foot/back massage when she gets home on those days you have off (no “strings” attached 
unless, of course, she’s game for it 
). You could order supper in on those nights or pick up a couple of chefs salads at the grocery store (if you’re not into eating fast food) on those nights that you are home so that neither one of you have to put much effort into getting a meal ready and can sit for a bit and just enjoy each others company. Start leaving little stickie love notes so that she’ll find them when she wakes up or throughout the day (on the bathroom mirror, on the kitchen cabinet, stuck to her purse, on the steering wheel of her car. I know this probably sounds corny but that’s like the “ultimate sweet” romantic kind of thing that women appreciate.
Do either of you get paid vacation days? If so, try to plan something together like a day or two away and/or unplugging the phones or even just to spend the day hanging out together and finish the day off with a nice bubble bath together. Are any of these ideas feasible? Even if at first you have to “schedule” something each week, eventually, it will just become “something you do”.
i get paid vaca/sick/holiday leave problem is i cant get anything approved for a weekend because obviously we are busiest and we are to short handed. she just started her job and dont think it would look to good asking for time off already. …we will figure something out sooner or later i hope LoL
Tough situation with work. I can relate somewhat.
Read the thread in my signature block about married guys. It will tell you my experience with changing your phero-signature. Wife was lookin’ at me funny for a couple weeks but then got used to it. My mom was downright irritated the first time I was around her with pheros on but now she is used to it and is fine.