Hello everyone.
So after extensive research, most from all you phero monsters, I took the plunge, made a purchase and got to test it…and …WOW!
But first I think proper introductions are a must. As you can see, I’m not exactly a Spring Chiken. Been around the block…can’t remember how many times..hehe. But seriously. I’m a hot blooded Caribbean offspring with many stories, relationships and sexual experiences to write a book.In other words, I got GAME. I found this site by accident after a google phero ad for Pherlure to which I also fell for their ad and made a purchase from them. Yes, you know, the one where you buy one and get two more for a discount. I received them, put in some and stood besides current 4th wife for a minute at which she commented on how good I smelled. She has no idea of any of this 
But I did not see any other meaningful response after that.
Actually, the whole reasons for buying all these products was to get back some of the fire that has been lacking in our relationship of almost 20 yrs of marriage. Unless I make an approach or sexual suggestion, she would not make any type of advance at all. So I’m not telling but I am intent of making her awaken those same feelings she sensed from me the first time we met.
After reading these forums for a couple of weeks and everything a noobie needed to know, I went ahead and ordered TOGO versions of Ammo, Turn on the Biatch..oops, The Heat and IS. Impresively, the order arrived after the fourth day of ordering it. Nice prompt respond Guys and yes…the bubble wrap smelled nice too! So far not much of a diff with wife with a 1 Ammo, 1 Shine dose to the proper places..but I still have hope.
But!!..on the other hand, last Friday, on the occasions that I go out for a night of pool playing, which I’m good at, I got a surprise hit. Just before entering the place, I had 1 Ammo on wrists and one in chest, plus 2 Pherlure hits on neck.
I was having winning streak going for a while which caught the attention of a couple of middle aged women. One of them an African American lady somewhat overweight but with a beautiful face and hair to go. After realizing this may be a good time to see what all these pheros are all about, I took a break and headed for the Men’s room and gave me another hit of 1 Ammo and 2 Turn ON the Heat and let the games begin!
Couple of minutes later, the lady comes and tells me “I’ve been watching you since you first started winning, and I know I can give you a run for your money” Before I knew it, she was getting all touchy feely and getting more personal with me.
Long Story short…Yeah right! At one point when I went for a smoke outside of Pool hall, she follows me and started getting very upclose and personal with me…and I MEAN THAT! I had to walk around the place to a more discreet place in the parking lot to see where all this was heading, since I was caught off guard right there at the door. Geez…at one point, this lady was showing me her goods and asking to fondle, etc etc…you get the pix! But I could not and would not close the deal, since I wasn’t looking for a one night stand…BUT THERE IT WAS! I had to respectfully detach myself from her while listening to her say “But look what you have done to me…Me so Horny…Don’t you want me? Love u Long time!”
Needless to say, that Ammo, Turn Up The Heat combo opened my eyes to the unexpected effects pheros can have on some and not in others.
I guess I’ll have to take the wife inside car with a phero cloud and hope for the best on the way back…
Welcome to the forum Cal! Great intro hit report! Pheromones are not as effective on people that have been around you often and for a long time. Their deep set impression/perception of you will over ride your new Pheromone signature in most cases. It is kind of like your close Friends will still have the same opinion about you when you have a different cologne on. DrZorters
Hi & Welcome!
Changing your signature while married is a bit tougher. My husband didn’t react at all or negatively when I first started out. But, I did find what exactly does make him wild, happy, calm, or talkative eventually and I’m sure you will too.
I do think you should look in to the social products instant openness or instant honesty. They are helpful to knock the hum drum out of husband and wife conversations which can be effective when you’re trying to encourage more intimate attention too.
Enjoy!
Good point Inkling and then when the communication is strong again Calrican can (Turn Up The Heat)
Great posting. Reps to you
I see your point, Inkling. It does take more than a couple of attempts to stir up dormant feelings after so much time of complacency and familiarity. I will consider getting those you recommend. Although it will have to be after a trip to the Caribbean this coming two weeks where I will conduct another experiment in a crowded, salsa dancing people hotel lobby in San Juan where maybe some reactions from others around me and her own might rattle and dazzle her..hehe. “Can’t start a fire without a Spark” someone said.
DrZorters, your opinion is well founded since there are many like us with the same routine. I will definetly get some Instant Honesty and Instant Openness to get her to talk and bring her inhibitions down in the open, since that is her biggest roadblock to a more intimate and satisfying relationship. In the meantime, I’m gonna rattle her mind in the days we spend in San Juan and the solitaire beaches of Culebra Island where I hope her dormant sensual self will come out.
Hey Mark, thanks for the rep points. I have read many of your posts and conclude…You Got Game!
Even though I am 10 yrs your senior, I still feel like 45 and starting!
Thanks all for your replies
Calrican In LA
Cal-
There are several of us here close to your age and also in a long term marriage.
I too purchase a variety of products for a couple reasons - work (A314), social and to help keep things flowing better on the homefront. That being said, the best thing for a great relationship is always good communications. I know it is too easy to get complacent/lazy after it seems you have discussed about everything there is to discuss and think you know each other as well as you could.
Ammo: Great all around product. You have seen that for yourself.
Instant Female Magic: Great for those times when she is very irritable.
Instant Honesty & Instant Openness: Can help increase amount and depth of conversations.
Remember, the other thing that may happen is that you throw her off with a change in your pherosignature. Several of us have discussed how we have noticed that sometimes those closest to us can initially be irritated when they subconsciously detect the change in our pherosignature. This could also be at play with her until she “gets used to” your shifting pherosignature.
Another point at play is how you approach the subject of pheromones with your wife. Like you I have been married a LONG time and initially did not tell my wife about using pheromones. Here lately she discovered I was experimenting with them but when it came up I told her the truth - I was doing it to enhance our relationship and home life, and not just on the romantic front. But also using Instant Female Magic to help sooth her after a trying day. I explained it in terms of aromatherapy - not that she necessarily regards that in high esteem but she is used to it as her massage therapist uses it to create a soothing atmosphere at her business. Just another idea for your consideration …
You have also discovered a couple other things: the pheromones work on everyone, not just your intended target. And some women respond very strongly and very positively to 'none. So be careful. I am very caucasion but have had some very strong reactions from “women of color”. Like you I could not pursue them, but once you know they happen you need to be ready for them.
Calrican i think your on to something about creating some “rattle dazzle” in the Caribbean!
Iv always found that when my Gf notices other girls lusting after me she automatically asserts her sexual claim on me as long as i assert how much sexier she is compared to those other girls he he he.
btw iv reps to you!
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I love this thread title and you’ve already been nominated for our contest we have. It’s a $25 gift certificate if other members vote your title the best. Check it out in the store forum.
So here I am today giving out a gift certificate just for saying hello. It will be delivered tonight by sleigh.