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You have been doing such a great job testing and reporting that I have decided to make you a reporting user. Congratulations!

You’ll notice the difference in your store account only when you log in

LMAOOOOOOO Steve!
THANK YOU SO MUCH I APPRECIATE IT :stuck_out_tongue:

Read a lil more in Jeremy soul ebook.. kinda got boored and started watching Sinn’s seminars. there are audio rips AND video too. just wanted to add that.

i’m in the third part out of 5… there are great advices and much more techniques than Jeremy ebook.. it makes it look so basic and unvaried. Sinn is really inspiring too. Really great guy that really knows his shit and looks at it from a whole wide perspective. he’s really educated too and tells you the variety of things to expect in a situation and what to do.

i’ll start lookin page by page in my journal and find out the best hits i got from which product and in what dose. i forgot the whole point of a journal :roll_eyes:

EDIT: WOW… Ive been such a messed up person LMAO! I’ve never kept testing a certain combo or product consistently! I feel like a lot of this was due to my weed habit which I stopped it’s been a month now cold turkey (well imma not lie i smoked yesterday but that was just once in a blue moon thing… interestingly enough today im kinda depressed and im venting AGAIN about church to my parents which they said only happen when I used to smoke weed.. WOW :smiley:?).
the products that are worth testing for me for a good baseline: IG, IO, P83, Ammo and P74… of course ISHINE :smiley:

I can’t wait to get some points *cough I mean some money to buy some more ISHINE and go CRAZY with it. I’m talking about 3 sprays from the double strength minimum. Seems like the best mones experiences I got was from that amazing yet simple product.

Will go with 6x IS for day gaming. will see how it goes… will add single spray of IG then Ammo and see how it goes each day… I CANT WAIT TO PRACTICE :slight_smile:

EDIT2: Watched a lil more from Sinn’s seminars. very very impressed. cool hints here and there too. HOWEVER (notice how there is always a however :smiley:?) I watched one of his infield videos and it just… took me off by surprise. It wasn’t what I was expecting at all… First thought was Alex (search on youtube and day game) had a way better type of girls that he was hitting on with and I liked his approach way better. I felt like Alex was more “live”. Of course I’m just am “AFC” talking lool and Sinn did hook up with the girl after all, but that was because they both liked surfing and he had a big event coming up so he took her number even though she clearly wouldnt like 5 minutes before. however my question would be what would of he done if she DIDNT like surfing :smiley:? lmaoo.

from the way Sinn speaks, I personally didn’t find the interaction “interesting” enough and it was like he was a robot lool. may be ill change my judge that later.

EDIT3 :smiley: : Okay i’m way too late for bed now. watched second in field video of him.. NOW im impressed. actually i’m starting to realize how important it is to either have a) good inner game which is the better solution in the long term b) memorized canned material so you keep the conversation going. he even said that in his seminar and he actually wanted to suicide in 2007 because he felt like in the inside he was empty even though he could sleep with a striper whenever he wanted to.

overall im impressed with Sinn’s material. I’ll make sure to watch his seminar all over AGAIN and actually writing and preparing stuff on paper. i guess ill check the revelation by mystery for reference (just like Sinn) for some specific parts like story telling for example…

k off to bed :smiley:

last thing, what are some things to watch/read to be “in-tune” with people nowadays? If it will help you with PUA, that would be even better.
I’m thinking:
-sex and the city
-new cars.
-most of the recent movies

i’ll probably post a whole new thread in the lounge tomorrow just for that because I feel like I’m really late when it comes to this particular part.

ok weirdest fukin day of my life:

went out with a friend… sprayed 2s IS 2x before meeting up.. everything is good and I smoke some herb. we go get a haircut.. we were supposed to be going to gym and right when we exit the subway station with a third friend with us and walking down the parking lot … three thugs came at us and pushed one of my friends.. they were trying to rob me though because i was wearing MAD flashy shit ( flashy necklace, nice ass pair of kicks and holding my iphone).. kinda stupid but this area is soo rich and stuff I Neverr seen that happened where I live where its like 10x more likely to happen.

i was sooo shocked after i managed to get into the gym and im actually wonderin now wtf i shuld do because a) i go to that gym a lot and have a membership there b) i know i saw these guys before there.. what if i get stabbed? this & shooting are actually not uncommon here :open_mouth:

i’m actually considering callin the police… i’m stunned.

I hate the concept of avoidance, seems like as the scum of the world multiply and spread like a cancer decent people have to pick up and move to better neighborhoods, or at least change the rout they take to go from A to B.

I hate it but for various reasons it’s about the only advice I should give.

If you really want to stick to the route some things to consider.
1.) make friends with people that own or work at businesses along the route. People are more likely to get involved if something is happening to somebody they actually know as opposed to a random stranger.

2.) get your buddies to join the gym so you’re less likely to be alone, the situation could have been much worse had you been caught alone.

3.) I’m not gonna preach but I would suggest if you get high, do it when you have noplace to go and are just going to chill at somebodies house. Thugs can identify the walk and look of somebody high or drunk, your reflexes and reaction times are shot as is your memory and attention span…all in all even a slight stagger signals you as a potential target.

4.) I don’t know about reporting to the cops, sad as it is to say, since nobody was actually robbed, and nobody was hospitalized the guys at most will get questioned and then they’ll know it was you which will make it personal instead of random. Modern legal system with it’s emphasis on being fair to criminals has an awesome track record of making sure innocent people get killed for asking for help.

Wearing FLASHY to the gym. Hmmmmmmm! Lets see. The economy has gone to BLEEP! Lots of young kids can’t find a job, the others don’t want a job, so it’s best to walk the streets looking for herbal smoking, flashy wearing people that looks like they could have money in their pockets. :roll_eyes:

It’s sad that you can’t enjoy the things that you own, but going to the gym … SWEATS and T-SHIRTS from now on. You can get flashy when you get home after your shower, is my thinking.

It’s ugly what you went through. No knife, no gun … I’d suck it up, 'cause as Rodman stated … it’ll be a catch and release; and then you’re gonna have to look over your back while you’re doing dumbbell curls. :o

I can’t say what I would have done, but getting high and going to the gym is not one of them. I hope you’ve learned a lesson. It’s hard running away from a fight while you’re stoned. Sometimes you have to understand what’s REALLY fun, and what’s not.

Hang in there. Glad you’re okay … THIS TIME. <hint> And in case you didn’t get it … LEAVE YOUR FLASHY AT HOME WHEN YOU’RE WALKING THE STREETS.

seriously this neighbhourhood IS NOT guetto. houses there are sooo expensive and you RARELY see gangs or anything there.. i would of never guessed that would happen in a PARKING LOT of the Y M C A yuh know ?:o

i dont think being high was a part of it but i actually stopped for good anyway. i wont wear flashy shit again to the gym or anywhere else where im not 100% sure for that matter..

creepy.

the staff of the ymca saw what happened and one of them actually saw the guys running and did report it. i guess i will just move on

Sorry to have to donate some news that it appears you didn’t get … YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE IN THE GHETTO TO GET ROBBED THESE DAYS. Right place, wrong time. Or! Wrong place, right time. Take your pick.

Where I am, people have started breaking into to people’s houses KNOWING the people are home! :open_mouth: And no, I don’t live in the ghetto, either. :frowning:

At 17, you probably need to start paying attention to your surrounds. Walking through the woods without looking down every now and then for snakes is bad practice. Sooner or later … “GOT’CHA,” says old rattler! :wink:

What happened between exiting the subway and not getting mugged? :confused:

Do you think the IS helped you avoid a worse situation?

The subway station and the YMCA are soo close to each other.. in fact there is only a parking lot in between. two seconds after coming out of the subway and in the parking lot this is when it happened.

I could say it’s possible for the IS to have helped me in the situation but seriously I think it’s God and my good luck!

I’m thinking about buying a blank firing gun now for real. is there any laws against that by any chance?

Coming from a gun advocate (I believe in defense) that would just not be smart. If you ever pull a gun on someone you better be prepared to KILL them. A blank gun is a good way to end up dead and it encourages trouble. I have a carriers permit (concealed) and if it ever comes out of its holster you can be assured I’m firing it.

Commenting to subscribe, have read a few of your updates here and there and I really like your details and the effects! I need to play with my IS more! :smiley:

Sorry to hear what happened to you!!! I know thats freaky and scary, but definitely do not carry a blank firing gun. Like Steve said, when you pull out a gun it better be to use it. Thats the general consensus, and you can be sure if you show someone a piece, they will take that to mean you will defend yourself and fire it, and they will in turn do what they can to kill you first. A blank piece could get you killed..dont do it please please please!

WOW… I’d report it, for sure… and then complain to the gym, get them to beef up security and… then, likely, move my gym membership…

Sorry you had to go through that PJ!!! :frowning:

Been caught up with friends for the past couple days and tomorow too!
It’s been the same old thing for me: researching day game.

from my research online, I’ve found a couple interesting things about PUA if anyone else is interested:

-blueprint & foundation by RSD… I think that’s the best inner game material you will ever see in your life. i think every single person says that about that product so you might wanna check it out. i will later on but NOT now since i think i’ve been reading/watching/listening to sooo much shit and never actually tried applying it.
-the fashion bible by Brad P… just a book about fashion that I might wanna read up soon.

now about specific daygame material, let me tell you this, this field is reallly ignored and not much resources is currently available for it. I know that guy named Alex in asutralia is actually trying to revive it with workshops and that kind of stuff. now:

  • jeremy soul ebooks: little too specific and not varied.. I see this working at some level but seriously nothing ( and I mean literally nothing as of 24th of june 2011) beats this:
    Sinn day game mastery program from a to z… you got everything there: approaching at several daytime venues and your specific strategies you should be using, a whole bunch on bonus stuff about phone game and other related material.. two versions on his seminars.. the transcript of the seminars and their resume. really good stuff from Sinn and its based on Mystery Method but REALLY refined for day game. Sinn was Mystery program instructor after all.

The reason why I’m so fascinated by daygame is due for several reason (i’m still not attached to the outcome when it comes to the field btw :wink:):

  • a lot of guys don’t have the confidence, let alone the skill to talk to women during the daygame and hold a normal conversation with them..
  • I think it’s the best social proof you will ever get from guys or girls that you can actually approach girls during the daytime
  • i dont find meeting girls at a club that fascinating (except if you are pullin 9s and 10s of course) .. at the end of the day you know why everyone is there.. in day game its more challenging and I’m really up for it :smiley:

I will just seriously focus on finishing up what i’m learning about day game and put it into action as soon as I get the chance to. my brother’s done his exams so he is willing to come encourage me.. hopefully there will be some single sets first that I could at least start with :o

I dont really know a lot, or anything really of this system. Its because of your journal that Ive been googling the things youre saying to learn more about what it is so that I know what youre talking about :smiley:

I do think that having “day game” is way more important than “night game” Just from a ladies perspective, Im a lot more open and relaxed when out and about, than when Im at the club or “meat market” scene, because I already have a preconceived notion that any guy thats talking to me there just wants to get me into bed. While any guy that I meet out in town just happened across me and is more genuine…even if all we do is end up in bed. Strange, I know, but thats how it is. Im just not as guarded.

My friends are the same way too..worse than me actually. Ill still be really nice to a guy and give him a chance to not be suave and creepy :stuck_out_tongue: But my friends already give guys darting “dont even come over here” looks from across the room, intimidating and scaring any guys who even glanced in our direction!!! But where I live thats kind of the norm, the sweetest girls in the world turn into heinous biatches in the club, its a defense mechanism though, cause there are a lot of guys trying to smooth talk, that you just end up having no patience for anything any guy says. We’ve even joked “what book did he read to give him the idea that would work?!” So yeah, on some levels its obvious a guy is trying so hard, but tryng not to make it seem like he is…lol

I think you are at a huge advantage in trying this out in daytime and social settings, cause when you are able to go out and hit the club, youll be more accustomed to getting a girls attention by being relaxed and chill, your vibe will actually be unique, and not by “macking” on her like every other guy in the club will be.

Thank you so much for that OutreDame :slight_smile:

I’ve actually came to the conclusion that people who don’t approach women at all will find it harder to go try a “routine” or an “opener” in the daytime. It is actually something that you have to physically get accustomed to. This guy named Eric is just PURE awesome when it comes to what he calls, “Approach Anxiety”. I’ve always seen that in PUA forums and such, but never thought a big deal of it. After reading this: http://approachanxiety.com/Single_Most_Important_Thing_To_Get_Beyond_Approach_Anxiety.pdf (free ebook by him by the way) I realized there’s more than just going out and “approaching”.

Quoting from his book to what exactly applies to me:
“I can do five approaches every day if I want.” Or “I’ve been planning for a while now to go out and do ten approaches every day.”
“I don’t want to be social right now. I have a lot of stuff going on. I’m going to approach five women tomorrow.”
"Your body will fight you on this. Your brain will try to come up with all sorts of excuses. It will brilliantly try to trick you. It will tell you “Not now, wait until you know more. Wait until you’re more ready.” "
"You’ll think, “I just want to go home and study more, I want to read more about approaching women before I do it.”
“But if you’re not going out every day and you are reading about this stuff all week, you may actually find it harder to do anything with so much information in your head.”

That’s EXACTLY what is happening to me right now, hence why I think Eric is actually a genius at this. He says stuff that no-one said before since I was thinking “It’s just fine to think that, when I specify time for it, I will do it after I read enough things” is a normal mentality. Turns on AA. Cool :smiley:

I´ve heard that there is aguy named Paul Janka who offers solid advice for day game. Haven´t checked it yet. Just repeating something someone said to me. Talk to you soon.

Yes definitely, I guess on the basic level of things, your odds of meeting someone are a lot bigger if you are out observing and making a point to approach a girl than if you are at home. Though there was a time I refused to leave the house, working all the time and burying myself in that..my friends said Ill never meet someone new that way, and I insisted I did meet someone..I was having a sordid love affair with my mailman. hehe!

Seriously though, I do think its harder to meet someone out in the daytime, because there isnt the relaxed bar atmosphere, no drink to loosten you up, a girl is usually busy doing something, running errands, etc…and its like..finding a way to break the ice when youre not in an ice breaking environment…Im sure pretty scary!

I do have to say…I love it when a guy has the guts to even come up to me and say hello, or pay me a compliment, or make a witty remark..anything like that. Even more charming is when he seems nervous, cause I know hes pulling together all the courage he has to talk to me, like I was worth getting over his fear to say hi. Love that! Not so much into the ultra confident smooth guy who seems to know exactly what to say though, cause I do sort of register that as..he does this all the time, Im just another one today.

BUT! I have strange taste in men..Ive been told. So Im just one weird girl, whos thoughts can be taken with a grain of salt. And I dont even like salt lmfao! I think its awesome though to find ways to feel more comfortable with approaching women, and really doing something about it. Thats a whooole lot better than the guys who bitterly talk about how no women will give them the time of day, but they never actually even try to talk to one cause they are scared of rejection.

Actually OutreDame, one of daygame tutors put emphasis on the point of appearing a little (or even a tad more) nervous as a part of the approach. You are not weird at all :smiley:

I guess being a lil nervous wont be a big deal :smiley:

Ohhhh my goodness. You mean I might have been falling for a routine afterall? Aye! lol! Really though yup, being a lil nervous is incredibly sexy, so dont worry about calming your nerves before you say hi :smiley: