thats so awesome how well it went for you its really inspiring too
Thats what I always dreamed of too finding someone I loved being around so much like a really close and special friend that I care more for all the time and fall in love with. I don’t always know when I first meet someone how deep my feelings could be for them the last time I fell in love it was with someone I had already known almost a year at the time we got closer for a while. I love making good friends and hope one day one will be right for me its so good having other friends that are women too for me that was always hard cause if they’re my only friend I get more needy too cause I got no one else to talk to about anything its so nice having a few friends or so to call
I’m feeling so much better all the time now from reading such good posts and using these I’ve tried instant openess it made me feel good a little more pick me up feeling over the calming relaxing happy feeling of female magic, still feel better with female magic though cause I felt a little vulnerable at times on pure intant openess cause guys get open and chatty too and if in the wrong place can tell stories that are too rough or make me uncomfortable, seems to depend on the place though. Female magic works good for me everywhere
I was out with my friend for a while and I had on one spray of female magic and all was well we didn’t have much time though, after I dropped her off on the way home I went in for a drink in a somewhat classier place there was about 4 or 5 guys for every girl, seems normal for most public places, lol!! well guys didn’t really say too much one said hi and was friendly in good mood, mostly they just sat there though which was nice then out of nowhere a girl just started talking said hi and we talked a couple minutes of course the group of guys that went to bathroom or somewhere came back so we didn’t talk long she seemed to like me being there though and it felt good. Thats never happened to me before I began using female magic no one ever talked to me and if I talked to them they left
I’m beginning to feel just a little more confident slowly it feels so good to finally believe things really can be nice for me I feel happier too part from the effects of female magic also from feeling just a little more wanted and accepted
Thanks so much for helping me you’re posts really helped alot with the specific problems I was going through and this is first time I’ve really felt better and started to feel better about myself in a long time and feel life can be fun and happy Reading here and using female magic and instant openess, specially female magics improving my life in so many ways
your pretty lucky with the eating disorder and still being a small person.
I’m also one of those body types that can stuff my face and not gain much weight. my gf is so jealous of me on that respect lol.
yes, pheromones make for a positive self fullfilling prophecy in a manner of speaking. it’s like a catalyst to set the whole feel good wheel in motion- use mones, notice hits, boost confidence, results in more hits, more confidence, and it keeps building.
I can relate to why you’d wanna avoid the alpha aspect for now. that’s not really an issue actually. because once you start having fun and enjoying yourself socially, you will naturally and automatically (and gradually) morph into a more confident and outgoing peron - which are exactly the traits of an alpha. but if you don’t wanna think of yourself as an alpha, it doesn’t matter, as long as your having fun that’s really all that counts anyways.
Law of attraction = feel good, attract more fun, feel better, attract even more fun, and girls (and guys) can’t resist a man who is enjoying his life, alpha or not.
if you haven’t gotten the book yet, definitely do so. I’m fully aware of the self sabotaging thinking patterns that social hermits tend to harbor. the book will give you some really ah-ha! eye opening concepts that will put you on the correct path to social well being.
I can tell you from both sides of the grass that Alpha is a better way, lol
Its not about being an asshole or dicking people over or confronting/attacking people
Its about self-confidence, establishing yourself and your opinion as important and letting it be known. I think the asshole stuff is funny, its essentially male competition amongst each other, the little picking on flaws and such are to encourage self improvement and you should not be taking shit on a one-sided basis, you should be eagerly returning it and laughing about it! It establishes a male comradery and a bit of a hierarchy within the group which makes the group as a whole work better together and be more attractive to the opposite sex
You can see a supercharged version of this in frat houses, the hazing initially and then they get in and start establishing themselves and their position within the group and everyone goes out and parties and gets laid and etc…
they mess with each other and rip on each other, but its not serious and its intended just to have a good time not to make an actual factual statement about the person
Everyone seems to have a totally wrong perception of what an alpha male is its stupid, lol
Hi jojobiz,
Thanks I may stay pretty small it did alot of damage to my health though I always had a very sensitive system it was just so hard for so long to wanna take care of myself with nothing to really look forward to other than more time for myself, thats really whats made it so much easier to try to take better care of myself now since finding these products cause I’m looking forward to going out even if its by myself I feel good knowing I may end up talking to someone and my confidence just keeps getting a little better each time like when a girl I didn’t know just started talking to me out of the blue it really gave me a nice warm feeling and it really helps boost my confidence its like a positive flowing circle
Thats so cool you mentioned the law of attraction. A couple years ago I was really trying alot with it and even having some success I just couldn’t seem to get past the lonliness still. When I had a really close friend thats a girl for a while I was really trying hard to work with the LOA and some nice short cut plans for business I’ve been wanting to open for years just started all coming together I mean people were coming up to me out of nowhere and even suggesting it saying they would love it and giving me more ideas to make it more profitable!!! It was so amazing thing is though it seems for LOA to work for things you want you gotta really truely feel it as if its now and feel as happy as you would feel when its real and in the moment and it was hard for me cause being lonely and sad for so long I just couldn’t seem to get in the feeling place of really feeling loved and accepted and having nice warm friends to talk to and spend time with and really do the things I love doing. It was so hard for me to even imagine it truely.
I haven’t really been thinking about the law of attraction as much in quite a while, well exept if I’m running late and don’t want red lights!!! lol!! I’m so glad you posted about it though and last night I got to feel what it really feels like for someone I don’t know that seems nice just start talking to me. I wanna try and remember that feeling more cause I really do wanna attract more of it and more people like her around me.
It feels so good to read of people loving those around that feel happy and enjoy their life good not just alphas cause well I honestly wouldn’t enjoy the alpha type crowd cause I always had different interests growing up then most guys, I never enjoyed doing much things the other guys did and honestly I don’t really have much fun hanging out with them often. I sure like having a good time with company I love being around though and can have good times with
Thanks for posting such helpful information for me
I love LOA, I filter pretty much everything in my life through the LOA goggles now. I find myself always thinking about my emotional states and watching my thought patterns to make sure they don’t go somewhere negative.
and if they do float to the ‘dark side’, I whip out my ‘Daily Gratitude list’ and go through all the good things I already have in my life and I instantly feel a little better.
I firmly believe that my discovery of pheromones many years ago was the unmistakable result of LOA at work. I was desperately looking for a way to turn my life around, anything, and boom I stumbled across APC and stonelabs on ebay. the universe genie had fullfilled my wish!
I planned to make a vision board collage like in the movie but I’ve been lazy and procrastinating hehe.
actually, I’m a bit worried about what I’m gonna put on the vision board. cuz as a man I’m horny all the time so naturally my head is filled with…well..sex and women. I don’t know if it’ll go over too well with my gf if she sees that all I have on my collage is a picture of me surrounded by hot scantily dressed women…maybe if I put her head on all of the bodies?
yup, my motto is you can’t OD on -Androstenol products so just go nuts and swim in it. most times it’s the best way to bring out the hits. cuz if you can’t get them talking you can’t know it’s working.
ah, I’ll be going over in about 2 years, after I graduate university here, majoring in Japanese now. will probably do a summer exchange program to test the waters first, but my intuition tells me I belong in Japan.
you mentioned you were tutoring a Chinese lady on LS forum, I assume you are on the JET program?
I do tutor for Japaneses here who wish to learn my language. Chinese lady is my classmate
Not exactly, it’s kind of cultural exchange. One of the activities I have to keep my mind occupied. Beside, I get to meet many lovely JP. Female or not. They are sooo friendly.
Mine does, but rarely. Mainly I would go to community centers or foreigner community offices.
If you have time, I would like to suggest getting another language aside from JP. French, Spanish or any of your preference. It just makes you, “noticeable”.
I figure it should be similar to all offices. Yes. I look for posts and post some myself. There weren’t many results since my profile is rather plain
About tutor, there are volunteer teachers and cultural(language) exchange program. I do the second one. The first one is not very flexible, time length in specific.
interesting…that’s what you meant by getting another language under your belt to be ‘noticeable’.
the language exchange program sounds most suitable for us. do you get paid at all?
hmm I’m not sure yet, I have no idea which area is good for Asian Americans…I lived in Shibuya with my cousins for about 3 weeks and found it way too busy and crowded. do you have any suggestions?
I will post my ads on some website like senseisagasu.com if I want to conduct a paid lesson. But for now, I don’t have the experience to do that.
There’s a French guy, who can also speak Spanish. (That’s why I mentioned these two languages) Everytime I see him, he’s always with 2 or 3 other people, women, in specific.
I will give you some general impressions. Eventually, you’ll have to choose it yourself anyway
Kyoto is peaceful, has many tourist attractions, quite a big city. Nara is an old city, boring. Kobe is balanced and spreadout but not remarkable. Osaka is, duh, too busy for my taste but has everything you want, with a cost.
My friend told me if I wanted to get a gf. Go to places with many foreigners. — I think you can figure out the rest
