i am digging the thread here from the women’s section: Female Ejaculators? Quest for Supernatural Sex? and other mindless babble
i’m just afraid to post in it since i don’t have as much experience as some of the other people. :o sarah has gotten the farthest out of all of my relationships; she dribbles out a bit and definitely has some sheet-gripping orgasms. i also need more practice.
speaking of sarah…
2d a314
2s mx272
this was from my trip last weekend. i made a slight detour on the way home and stopped in the town near where she was working. she met me in town and we had dinner together, followed by some casual walking around. i think i was a little giddy while getting ready and thus put on 2d of a314. dumb idea. 2d works well around her when there’s other guys around and i can boost my status in their and her eyes. around just her, it’s way too much. 1d is pushing it; usually i can get by with just rubbing the residual from the applicator on my jawline.
she was very excited when she found out i was visiting. the excitement remained all the way up until she parked and we had been holding hands for a few minutes. then she became slightly reclusive, answers were short and almost curt, focus wasn’t really on anything. yep, that’s me overshooting and ghosting with 2d a314. it took until the appetizer and drinks section of dinner, roughly 45 minutes after seeing her, for me to not ghost anymore. and truthfully, i think i still ghosted but the alcohol let my sig sink in some more.
after that it was smooth sailing. mx272 did a great job with the social aspect. once a314 dried down a bit and the ghosting wasn’t there, she really loved sticking her face near my chest and just breathing. akuto really gets her good, and combined with the “boyfriend” feel of a314 (when used properly, < 1d) she enjoys it very much.
it was surprising to me at the time, but she didn’t really feel sexual. i had a hotel room all to myself and offered to “give her a tour”; she declined. i tried some passive persuasion of sexual kino to try to get her in the mood, still no luck. figured she just wasn’t up for it, or the a314 really overpowered her sexual feelings.
it turns out that she was afraid of a double booking awkward encounter. after dinner, a friend (who lives near that town) called to see what i was up to this summer. i told him i was in town and he made plans to drop by my hotel. sarah was afraid of him knocking on the door randomly and ruining our intimacy, or perhaps having to see him (she kinda knows this friend) with messed up makeup and disheveled hair. i figured she would have these fears so i rigorously confirmed with my friend that it would take him about an hour to get to my hotel, and i also told him to call me when he was close. while i was turning up the kino and offering another invite to tour my room, i reminded sarah we had at least an hour and a warning call. today she tells me she sorely regrets not “touring my room” or offering to go see it. i think she had to take matters into her own hands too. while it was a little bit of blue balls for both of us, i can see why she felt the way she did. we’re going to see each other again in a few weeks before we head off to school and i told her to make up the offer then.
might be going to ladies night at a club tomorrow, we’ll see about testing there.