Female Ejaculators? Quest for Supernatural Sex? and other mindless babble

[Geena]

Ok probably TMI but what the hell, right? I’ve been reading a lot of posts here and I’m finding that a lot of the women who participate on this forum seem to have the desire to push their sexual experience to the max. You just don’t have sex, you research it, you push the limits, you ponder it, plan it, you explore. You make it a science, an extreme sport, an ARTFORM. It’s not about getting laid, it’s about having the ultimate surreal sexual experience..again and again. With this said, I’m wondering how many female ejaculators we have here? When I was younger, I thought it was a myth–a creative stunt done with douches or cathatars or some shit…just some porn fantasy. We started researching, practiced and voila! I’m not talking really wet..but true fem.ejaculations. Experiencing this for the first time sort of opened a door for me. I had been sexually active, multiple orgasmic for years but not until my 30’s did I learn how to experience this profound type of orgasm. The more I had them, the more effortless they came. What else could there be that I hadn’t experienced??? How many more ways could I intensify my sexual experience, deepen my orgasms, perfect my art! Yeeehaw.. It’s this quest for Ultimate Sexual experience that seems to attract me to stuff like this.

So I’m wondering, how many other women have experienced ejaculation? Most of my female friends have not but the one that has, seems to be wired like me. I’m wondering if more hyper sexual women do the F.E. thing.

Not to rip on the guys, but I’ve been reading a lot of their posts and although there does seem to be some that are into this “sexual artistry” and “perfecting” their sex. But there’s a LOT of them who just seem to be more interested in quantity rather than quality. Just attracting and fucking random hot bitches. I really have to just step away from the men’s forum all together, because a lot of their commentary is so rudimentary and gets me all bent out shape. It just makes me want to smack them alongside the head and say, "you silly little man!!! Your idea of sex is so completely Kindergarten. All the pheromones in the world aren’t going to help you rock a woman’s world because you can’t think outside the box around your cock. " You think those girls are hot and horny for you? Oh you don’t even KNOW the extent of true female horniness until you have INSPIRED it with true skill and seduction. You couldn’t possibly scratch the surface of what a woman is capable of sexually…with that mentality. Oh my god..I’m getting on my PUSSY PULPIT again! But really, to me sex is artform that must be mastered to be perfected and a woman’s passion and lust TRULY unleashed is a power to be reckoned with…and I’m just floored more men aren’t obsessed with unleashing this in passion as they are getting a 2-way sandwich on the club dancefloor or a blowjob in the bathroom! The hottest, wildest, monkey sex you will ever have exists in a place where you take a woman and can make her have a near out of body experience, where she is talking in tongues, where she is in an altered state of mind. I affectionately call it, Exorcist Horny and no you haven’t seen it on a porn..because it’s just TOO hardcore!

Man..I just went EVERYWHERE and nowhere on this post! I started out just wanting to ask for a shoutout from the female ejaculators and instead I started my Preach it! Sex sermon. Can I have an Allejuia?!

[diane999]

@BrunetteBeauty

So I’m wondering, how many other women have experienced ejaculation? Most of my female friends have not but the one that has, seems to be wired like me. I’m wondering if more hyper sexual women do the F.E. thing.

Yes, I do experience these… not like you see on the porn flicks or anything. But I do have g-spot orgasms with ejaculation. It is nothing that dramatic. But it is like a whole-body electric overload sustained orgasm. I don’t know if I could stand that much intensity every time. But the interesting thing about this is once I do have this kind of orgasm, he can keep me in those throws as long as he wants, even an hour or more. But he’s really good and he knows what he’s doing. This only happens on the occasions where my husband decides he’s going to put me through my paces… the bastard!

Who am I kidding? I love it.

Diane

[OoohYahhh]

“Rudimentry”

That’s an excellent description of most peoples sexuality. For guys it’s pretty simple and rude. For most women it’s simply get it done and if you want to have any fun, get out the vibrator after he’s gone.

But then again, they have never had lovers like us. I can honestly say that I have never had a LTR that did not orgasm to unconciousness. (It takes a couple of hours) But none of them have ever ejaculated. One (1) time I had a lover (it turned out to be a one night stand) who squirted all over me and it was absolutely heavenly.

Appearently being a strong, accomplished lover is not enough. So what is it that makes the difference?

OoohYahhh

[diane999]

@OoohYahhh

“Rudimentry”

That’s an excellent description of most peoples sexuality. For guys it’s pretty simple and rude. For most women it’s simply get it done and if you want to have any fun, get out the vibrator after he’s gone.

OoohYahhh

Wow! That’s terrible!

Diane

[diane999]

@OoohYahhh

Appearently being a strong, accomplished lover is not enough. So what is it that makes the difference?

OoohYahhh

Well, the lady has to have enough of the right tissue, for one thing… the skene’s glands are not found in every woman. Without the skene’s glands, all the messing around in the world won’t produce a female ejaculation.

These glands actually intertwine with the spongy urethral erectile tissue on the upper side of the vaginal canal. Until the spongy tissue becomes engorged (with enough sexual excitement) there is no filling of these glands with ejaculate material (prostatic fluid and fructose).

Below are a couple of pictures. The first shows the general area of the accepted site of the g-spot. The second is a very accurate representation of the paraurethral glands (skene’s) showing their openings into the urethra. Please note that for this medical illustration all of the spongy tissue surrounding the urethra has been stripped away to reveal the skene’s glands. The tube you see illustrated is the urethra, which runs parallel to and above the vaginal canal. And the skene’s glands run along beneath the urethra in the front 1/3 of the vagina, just where they need to be for stimulation during intercourse. But they are deep in the spongy erectile tissue. This tissue in the upper front 1/3 of the vagina is the actual g-spot.

Depending on how extensive this network of glands is, the g-spot can be anywhere from the size of a dime to two-inches long. If you have very little skene’s glands, you will have very little ejaculate, and the converse is also true.

The other thing is the type of stimulation that needs to occur for the proper response. It is easier, generally, I think to achieve a g-spot orgasm after at least one clitoral orgasm, but it isn’t necessary to have them in that order. And then the g-spot needs to be firmly stroked with a lot of slow, but firm pressure. Either that or flip her over, and angle yourself so that you are aiming for the g-spot and sliding over it with a good deal of pressure with every thrust. A pillow under the hips might help with that.

For me, slow, but really firm pressure works best for the highest peaks.

But really, the most important thing of all is that she has to be really, really aroused before you start messing around with her g-spot, and by that I mean you will see all kinds of signs… her skin will be blushed on chest, neck, face, and maybe her belly. Her vulva will be very swollen and dark, maybe even purple. She will be very, very wet. Her eyes will be dilated. Her breathing and heart rate will be high. And you will be able to see her skin change with the slightest light pressure or stroke. No matter what she looks like day to day, at that time she will look like a goddess.

Diane

[msselva]

But really, the most important thing of all is that she has to be really, really aroused before you start messing around with her g-spot, and by that I mean you will see all kinds of signs… her skin will be blushed on chest, neck, face, and maybe her belly. Her vulva will be very swollen and dark, maybe even purple. She will be very, very wet. Her eyes will be dilated. Her breathing and heart rate will be high. And you will be able to see her skin change with the slightest light pressure or stroke. No matter what she looks like day to day, at that time she will look like a goddess.

LOL…I bet!

[Domnk]

@BrunetteBeauty

But there’s a LOT of them who just seem to be more interested in quantity rather than quality.

@BrunetteBeauty

Just attracting and fucking random hot bitches.

hmm… that is true, for many men. Social conditioning, I suppose, that and maybe genetics :p.

@BrunetteBeauty

Not to rip on the guys, but I’ve been reading a lot of their posts and although there does seem to be some that are into this “sexual artistry” and “perfecting” their sex.

@BrunetteBeauty

You couldn’t possibly scratch the surface of what a woman is capable of sexually…with that mentality.

@BrunetteBeauty

But really, to me sex is artform that must be mastered to be perfected and a woman’s passion and lust TRULY unleashed is a power to be reckoned with…and I’m just floored more men aren’t obsessed with unleashing this in passion as they are getting a 2-way sandwich on the club dancefloor or a blowjob in the bathroom!

I would be the minority amongst men then.

I agree with you, BrunetteBeauty, not enough passion is present in the male perspective, and that is sad. I’ve always looked for that missing piece of the puzzle, pursing an artform rather than being overwhelmed by indifference.
My conclusion, MMO’s (Multiple Male Orgasms) through KSMO :o. And no, not the kegel exercises\method that’s just a manipulation of the same of old BS, in this there’s no male ‘reflex’ at all.
This would be just raw passion… non-stop, overwhelming (in a good way), full-body orgasms. Interesting thing though, it is easily adaptable to female use and can be used with couples. I wont go into details, because I can be quite bashful. :o
However, I can share informational resources, if requested.

Dominick

[jankren]

Wow, quite a sermon.

Anyway, its not my fault that women have such low testosterone that it is very hard for them to get aroused in a blink of an eye like most men.

In order to satisfy a woman sexually sex has to be a lengthy chore. Call me selfish but women would think the same if the roles were reversed. Im okay to do such a chore for my partner once a week or something. But definitely not more than that unless she suddenly makes six figures salary and I get to stay at home all day every day.

[diane999]

@jankren

Wow, quite a sermon.

Anyway, its not my fault that women have such low testosterone that it is very hard for them to get aroused in a blink of an eye like most men.

In order to satisfy a woman sexually sex has to be a lengthy chore. Call me selfish but women would think the same if the roles were reversed. Im okay to do such a chore for my partner once a week or something. But definitely not more than that unless she suddenly makes six figures salary and I get to stay at home all day every day.

LOL

Wow… that’s naive.

No one is talking about simply getting a woman off. And if you think just giving a woman an orgasm is difficult, well, what can I say, except you have no idea what we are even talking about, and won’t have until you change your attitude.

Men who enjoy this sort of “play” are adventurous and don’t find this tiring in any sense of the term. If they did they’d never, ever have the opportunity to experience it.

Diane

[jankren]

@diane999

No one is talking about simply getting a woman off. And if you think just giving a woman an orgasm is difficult, well, what can I say, except you have no idea what we are even talking about, and won’t have until you change your attitude.

Men who enjoy this sort of “play” are adventurous and don’t find this tiring in any sense of the term. If they did they’d never, ever have the opportunity to experience it.

Diane

It is a fact that giving even ‘basic’ orgasm to a woman is hyperbolically speaking 100X harder than to a man.

Giving a man basic orgasm can take only as short as 3 minutes. But even then many women still find it a chore to please their men sexually. So just imagine if suddenly men found this ‘art’ of sexual pleasure that will give them the highest level of orgasm but it can take several hours to reach it. I wont be surprised if most women would only do that for their men no more than once a month at the most.

Im not really blaming women tho. As they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We are very different. I honestly think men and women are actually incompatible with each other.

[Domnk]

Interesting

Your logic is based upon a view that exemplifies men and woman’s differences though, that’s the problem. You have to think ‘outside the box around your cock’ (Great line by the way, Diane) which you have been acclimated. Alot of men just don’t put in the effort, because men and women are considered to be ‘incompatible’ in today’s society, that we are unequal in some way or another. But, in reality, we are equals, sorry it’s the truth. We all seem to focus on physical characteristics… I find that peculiar , sex isn’t just physical it’s psychological.

Why don’t we focus our attention on the brain, rather than what we have downstairs? This is my take on it. Men have a less complex sexual system, or so we are taught to believe. So, men then focus on getting up and getting to that little orgasm, which is accompanied by a physical reaction, wereby the arousal is lowered. For women this is not the case, the arousal level increases during each peak.

Ok, now take away the males physical reaction during orgasm, what hinders advancement. Now what are you left with? The same sexual mechanisms… within the brain. You need to move past thinking in a sexual way, and start thinking in a sensual way. duh And no, I’m not talking about manipulating that physical male reaction, in practice, I’m talking about removing that component completely.

The difference is me, me, me, and us…,
move to the latter,
Dominick

@jankren

It is a fact that giving even ‘basic’ orgasm to a woman is hyperbolically speaking 100X harder than to a man.

Giving a man basic orgasm can take only as short as 3 minutes. But even then many women still find it a chore to please their men sexually. So just imagine if suddenly men found this ‘art’ of sexual pleasure that will give them the highest level of orgasm but it can take several hours to reach it. I wont be surprised if most women would only do that for their men no more than once a month at the most.

Im not really blaming women tho. As they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We are very different. I honestly think men and women are incompatible with each other.

[diane999]

@jankren

It is a fact that giving even ‘basic’ orgasm to a woman is hyperbolically speaking 100X harder than to a man.

Giving a man basic orgasm can take only as short as 3 minutes. But even then many women still find it a chore to please their men sexually. So just imagine if suddenly men found this ‘art’ of sexual pleasure that will give them the highest level of orgasm but it can take several hours to reach it. I wont be surprised if most women would only do that for their men no more than once a month at the most.

Im not really blaming women tho. As they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We are very different. I honestly think men and women are actually incompatible with each other.

I am eternally grateful I don’t live in your world. I’m also eternally grateful my husband doesn’t either. And I’m sure he is also.

Diane

[renny]

@jankren

Wow, quite a sermon.

Anyway, its not my fault that women have such low testosterone that it is very hard for them to get aroused in a blink of an eye like most men.

In order to satisfy a woman sexually sex has to be a lengthy chore. Call me selfish but women would think the same if the roles were reversed. Im okay to do such a chore for my partner once a week or something. But definitely not more than that unless she suddenly makes six figures salary and I get to stay at home all day every day.

@jankren

It is a fact that giving even ‘basic’ orgasm to a woman is hyperbolically speaking 100X harder than to a man.

Giving a man basic orgasm can take only as short as 3 minutes. But even then many women still find it a chore to please their men sexually. So just imagine if suddenly men found this ‘art’ of sexual pleasure that will give them the highest level of orgasm but it can take several hours to reach it. I wont be surprised if most women would only do that for their men no more than once a month at the most.

Im not really blaming women tho. As they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We are very different. I honestly think men and women are actually incompatible with each other.

Dude, I had to read twice but, BWAHAHAHAHA Repamondo.

[diane999]

@renny

Dude, I had to read twice but, BWAHAHAHAHA Repamondo.

Okay you boys can go on and tiptoe back over to your own forum and stop pissing on our discussion. How bout that? Hmmm…?

We already know that guys who are 3-minute wonders and horrible lovers don’t want women knowing that there actually are men out there who are awesome lovers, who love being awesome lovers, and who enjoy being awesome lovers, who get off on being awesome lovers, and who know exactly how to get their women to dance the dance.

But you know what? Too late, we already know.

So, go on now… back to your own forum. And I promise, I won’t come over there and piss on your threads.

Diane

[renny]

Sorry Di, however I think if you’ll try doing what I did and shift your perspective a bit you’ll find Jankren’s posts to be both relevant and humorous. Goes away quietly

[diane999]

@renny

Sorry Di, however I think if you’ll try doing what I did and shift your perspective a bit you’ll find Jankren’s posts to be both relevant and humorous. Goes away quietly

Thanks for your perspective.

Diane

[Lor]

@diane999

Okay you boys can go on and tiptoe back over to your own forum and stop pissing on our discussion. How bout that? Hmmm…?

We already know that guys who are 3-minute wonders and horrible lovers don’t want women knowing that there actually are men out there who are awesome lovers, who love being awesome lovers, and who enjoy being awesome lovers, who get off on being awesome lovers, and who know exactly how to get their women to dance the dance.

But you know what? Too late, we already know.

So, go on now… back to your own forum. And I promise, I won’t come over there and piss on your threads.

Diane

some men ARE more compatible with other men.

the sooner these two boys figure out that maybe women are not what they are looking for,as evidenced byu their remarks,the better.

for the women in their life,as well!

[Lor]

Brunette, i nominated your post.

Obviously its the guys who already know what your talking about
that would possibly agree with it,anyway.

The “other” ones have to make fun of a skill they cant perform without difficulty.

It would be like me saying
“football is soooo dumb.
Its sucks being tackled and wahhhh im just not strong enough!”

I have experienced it, but certainly not often.
More like blue-moon stuff,lol.

[Lor]

getting rid of my avatar, lest it inspire anymore boys

[OoohYahhh]

Yahhhhh … relevant in that we should realize that it really does take all kinds. And that there are people who are comfortable about having a minimum of sexuality in their life. There are people who are comfortable all the way across a broad spectrum in this discovery of our sexuality.

Think of it like driving. There are a few athletes, and a thousand kinds of enthusiasts, a million different levels of commuter, and a few pedestrians, and part of them have never learned to drive and don’t want to.

I suppose what is really important is to somehow get paired up with someone who is close to where you are on this spectrum. My heart goes out to those who are trying to make a sexually mismatched relationship work.

But the question at hand here, while it is centered around the fountain of the goddess, is really about sharing our quest for a depth, and intensity, and flow of sex that creates and holds an altered state of conciousness. And the best part is that this is within reach of the average dedicated enthusiast.

While it might be an overstatement to call it supernatural, our sexuality can clearly be profound and ecstatic. The first few times this happens to a person are a cathartic, life changing experience. This is what they mean when they say ‘the earth moved’.

Even though as enthusiasts, we are all fascinated by glands and exercises and such, our bodies are a vehicle that won’t do much more than twitch without, as Domnk suggested, our minds. What makes passion, sensuality, eroticism, and ecstascy possible are the beliefs, ideas, stories, and emotions in our minds.

Trying to keep the pump primed, I’ve gone back to reading erotic literature. i’m presently reading ‘The Story of O’. (Why did I wait so long? lol) I’m finally coming to the realization that women are emotional athletes capable of a huge cascade of interlocking emotions. It occured to me that if I could somehow feed a stream of emotions to my lover in the throes of passion we could get to even greater heighths. So I thought that I might learn something about this stream of emotion thing from romance novels. Women love 'em, right? I looked at a couple and it’s mindless trash. Like free association where you just riff on the color of a dress for half a page. I must be looking at the cheap crap. Can anbody tell me who the really good writers (not nesscarily popular, but good writers) in romance genre are? Is there any way to make sense of this emtional stream thing? Is there a regular repeatable stucture to it? Or is that a foolish question?

Or should I just go back to forbidden and exotic and intensely sensual where I am at home?

OoohYahhh