I’m trying to work out why my girlfriend acts so weird when I try to have sex with her. It’s like her actions are self-contradictory. I’ve asked some friends about it and nobody really understands why either so I’m wondering if the pheromones have something to do with it. I usually wear 2 sprays of TUTH and 3 sprays of IO.
So here’s the deal. Been seeing each other for 4 months. She seems very open about sex in her talks and sounds very experienced. In gerneral, she’s almost adnormally affectionate, touchy feely, and open about most things with me.
Before I go asking her about sex in a proper talk (I don’t want to unless necessary as this kills the romance and spontaneity), I want an idea as to why she just won’t do anything when I try to have sex with her.
What I don’t get is we can be watching a movie for example, and we’ll be cuddled together, and I’ll start running my hands through her hair, stroking her arms, then kissing her neck, shoulders, running my hands around her body (I often run them around the edges of her clothes until I sense she gives no resistance and then start gently running them over her nipples, vagina etc. to see if she’s comfortable) but she’ll just sit there. I mean the one time I’m desperately trying to kiss her but her head is friken down so I gently try to pull her head up by putting my fingers under her chin but she doesn’t budge.
I don’t get it. If she’s sexually experienced she should understand what’s happening and respond at least somewhat. It’s like she acts oblivious.