I couldn’t really characterize the difference in effect between MX105 and MX134, but MX134 is the one designed for women, so it’s supposed to lack any male vibe at all. I wear the two interchangeably. Neither one of the two has the gravitas of M314 (which I love, but it doesn’t make me feel like talking or being social; it’s great for decision making, research, things like that). Compared to A314, MX134 and MX105 both feel less masculine, more social, more balanced; they induce a highly capable, socially smooth state. Too bad neither one of the MXs is available in full size yet!! They definitely deserve to be moved into the consumer-ready product line.
I think you’ve noted cyclic differences in how A314 feels to you but I haven’t, and I’m probably much closer to menopause than you; it’s possible our different hormonal balances account for that. Can you let her try a little vial of your A314 and see how it works for her? I do think it would be too somber for her profession without lots of nol to lighten it up, and some TAH wouldn’t hurt either.
MX135 is quite different from any of these - it’s a symphonic for women, a megadose of 8 pheros and to me it feels like a party pheromone, very high energy and social. Here’s the thread where Jas introduced it to the forum: