Pheros and my post Menopausal Mom

So i couldn’t hold it back any longer and I told my mom my dirty little pheromone secret. I made no mention of the other nights stripclub shenanigans :stuck_out_tongue: , but i was telling her about the social stuff and how it’s been going at work and whatnot. So she surprisingly jsut comes out and says “i want that” i said - okay -i’ll get you some for you birthday and she’s like no - i’ll send you money, i can’t wait til my birthday - get me some NOW. I NEED it.

Now about my mom - she’s a real estate broker, and she wants soemthing that will boost her salesmanship. Basically she jsut needs to have people comfortable, confident and trusting in her.

So I’m thinking IO, IH and maybe IS? (or perhaps one of the liquid sunshine iterations?)

She really dug my A314 experiences, but i’m not sure how that would go over with a post-menopausal woman. I know how it works on men, i know how it works with me, don’t know how it would work for her. So i thought maybe MX134 - but then I don’t know how cops would work with her hormonal state either. She doesn’t need to be weepy, she definitely wouldn’t want guys humping her leg, and she doesn’t need women being bitchy.

So basically - what would make grandma seem serene, solid, trustworthy, warm and able to find you your dreamhouse? She says right now because the market is tough, she needs that extra edge in closing people so that even if houses aren’t selling fast, she can use volume to even that out.

That’s awesome! My mom would become a nervous wreck and be terrified for me every night if I told her. We’re a worrier family. :roll_eyes:

I think the Instant series would be great, too. Although I could be wrong. Can’t hurt to give Jasmin a call, too.

I’m sure more ladies will be answering.

im not someone who backs up every little thing i say with scientific articles. i intuite.

it is my personal theory that your mom would benifit from the instant sexiness A and/or B .

female pheromones.

not only will she emotionally feel better and more equivalent to what she was used to feeling, but i believe in a feedback loop pheromonally with myself…

i have seen a difference in my own periods lately.

yeah i’m surprised she didn’t panic myself. That’s her normal mode. I think i will be giving Jasmin a call tomorrow so we can think this one through.

haha - only if it comes in an un-labeled bottle. My mom is the anti-sex. She wouldn’t wear it even if i told her she’d win the lottery tomorrow if she did. (she’s got issues.)

Hey Lor, could you expand on that? Unless you already wrote about it.

well, even though i believe that the only thing we take with us is integrity, i also believe in show first - answer later.

mom will get benifits of wearing something laced with it.

NO, i do not mean drug your mother,hahahahaha-

i mean taking some sexiness, applying it to a cobalt spray bottle, and telling her you have perfume that is supposed to be uplifting.

phermones are classified as a cosmetic.

you will not be incorrect in that statement.

if someone had me wearing instant sexiness A and called it neroli-toli-poli-make-you-happy spray, i would been on that stuff just for the confidence boost.

even if i was embarrassed by the name! :o

oooh lor! you are devious! I totally didn’t consider the old bait and switch…

i have bad periods since having my children.

they are not to cry over, but i dont move alot if i dont have to ,lol.

this is the opposite of what alot of women here have experienced, but if i wear cops (like i said,most women hate it but i somehow dont have an effect) and instant sexiness B , i move through my day alot smoother.
maybe its the TAH, i really havent pinpointed.

the period doesnt have ME, i have IT.

they seem shorter too, but that could something different, as i have always had lengthy periods and now they seem normal-er.

i dont emotional weepy cranky with periods.
i get chocolate driven and hungry,lol.
i think my body thinks im getting pregnant before every period,lol.

the way i see it nunya,
as long as i am being accurate to the best i know,
and i believe what i am doing is in someone’s best interest (or i would wish it on myself,hee hee)
then bait and switch it IS.

then i would SHOVE that sexxay little label in her face and say

you were sexxay all along! ha!

:smiley:

I’ll have to try that, since we seem to be similar.

And Sexiness A – YES. I’ve had it for a while, and now I’m not afraid to use it. I’ve unleashed the power, and can control it. Muahaha.

hey saraunne - what do you mean control it?

For your mom, I’d go with one of the A314 options, for trust and leadership: either the original (just a single drop to start with), or one of the spray variations, MX134 or MX105. Then I’d have her add in a goodly amount of nol, both alpha (for comfort and warmth) and beta (for more trust and enhanced communication).

you rock, as per usual, Carrie.

What’s MX105 like, and how does it compare to MX134?

so you think she can carry off A314 huh? when i told her about it she really wanted that one. I told her to hold her horses, because I wasn’t sure how it would work for her. But then I guess, since she doesn’t have the usual female fertility stuff going on, A314 shouldn’t hamper her, right?

i do agree on the combo of androstenols too.

also what are youtr thoughts on MX135? that’s another version of A314, no?

I couldn’t really characterize the difference in effect between MX105 and MX134, but MX134 is the one designed for women, so it’s supposed to lack any male vibe at all. I wear the two interchangeably. Neither one of the two has the gravitas of M314 (which I love, but it doesn’t make me feel like talking or being social; it’s great for decision making, research, things like that). Compared to A314, MX134 and MX105 both feel less masculine, more social, more balanced; they induce a highly capable, socially smooth state. Too bad neither one of the MXs is available in full size yet!! They definitely deserve to be moved into the consumer-ready product line.

I think you’ve noted cyclic differences in how A314 feels to you but I haven’t, and I’m probably much closer to menopause than you; it’s possible our different hormonal balances account for that. Can you let her try a little vial of your A314 and see how it works for her? I do think it would be too somber for her profession without lots of nol to lighten it up, and some TAH wouldn’t hurt either.

MX135 is quite different from any of these - it’s a symphonic for women, a megadose of 8 pheros and to me it feels like a party pheromone, very high energy and social. Here’s the thread where Jas introduced it to the forum:

When I first tested out Sexiness A, I had a very foot down, I’m in charge kind of feeling that I wasn’t really sure what to do with. I felt far more… alpha female. And at the time this was the last thing I wanted to feel.

Usually when I felt like this before starting to wear pheromones, it was due to being a very tyrannical leader, and I never liked feeling that way, so I basically just suppressed that whole part of myself.

And now that I don’t mind feeling that way, I’m wearing it and feeling powerful, but at the same time… LOL for lack of a better term, using it for good, not evil.

Now, the feeling is actually quite pleasant. It’s odd. I feel like I’m sitting on a thrown, and the world is mine, but at the same time, I love it and don’t want to control it.

That makes absolutely no sense, probably. But I just put some on to remember the effects, and this is what I’m going with.

ah thanks. I thought MX135 was an A314 varietal. I’m doing some research now, on what exactly the hormonal state is post-menopause. She’s hasn’t seen aunt flo since the last millenium, but i’d hate to presume she’s in a total void, only to find out her body is full of progesterone. She’s prone to depression as it is, and i can imagine the sea-anchor feeling i experienced doing a number on her. At the same time, the tremulousness of cops when i am estrogen-dominant, also doesn’t bode well for soemone constantly on the verge of depression. So that’s my main concern.

i felt much the same way as you descrivbed when I used MX134. But as you say A314 may be too somber - do you not think either 134 or 105 would be better? or are you thinking the QE2 feeling would help her, whilst everything else lightening others up will help them?

interesting! i know what you mean tho, and i think you said it pretty well.

See, that’s the trouble I have with IS/A. That’s my basic nature, it’s who I’ve become. I probably would’ve loved Mix A in my 20s when I was much more yin and docile, but now … man, I’m tired of being in charge (and just imagine how everyone else around me feels, lol … “get that girl a tall glass of marilyn monroe, wouldya?” … and sit down!)

I think if she’s already battling some heaviness in her mood, then go with MX134 or MX105 for sure. With those, she may not even need to add any extra nol for lightening the mood, but the beta nol in IH would probably help speed up the communication/decision process for her clients. It really helps people realize and verbalize how they feel about things!

thanks Carrie. I’m sold. I think tomorrow I’ll give Jas a call and figure out which varietal would be the beter bet. I’ll also get her some Instant Honesty, and when I go visit (she’s out of state) i’ll bring my A314 with me, and she can test it out herself and see what it does for her.