yea, it’s Saturday night, decided to just chill at home, gf at her friends IMing me up the ass. Anyway, so I broke the cardinal rule (or some important rule I assume) of not to tell anyone about having Phero’s. When my gf an i got back together, she found my phero’s in my bag. She didn’t care at all, in fact, she wanted to get some because she has a part-time job as a waitress and she read how it can help with tips.
But now, iono, it seems like the spark has lost some luster, and the phero’s aren’t working anymore. It still works in the office (story on the later), but it doesn’t seem to work on her anymore. Maybe it’s because we’re settled down again (remember, she was my ex), iono.
i do notice we kiss a lot, and she starts to want to…but if something happens (like an interruption) and we have to post-pone it, she’ll not want it anymore…like wtf just happened, you were hot a few minutes ago
sounds to me like a classic case of ‘will’ getting in the way!
If she’s a strong willed girl, demands attention and good with people (she’s a waitress) etc. she may be simply controlling what she was feeling.
i suppose the excitement of finding someone attractive ‘because they are’ is far better than finding them attractice because.. well, at the back of your mind, ‘because they are using pheromones’.
maybe stop using them for a while, rely on yourself and not the pheromones. introduce them again when she begins to realise she’s attracted to you, and not the pheromones, and it’s ok for her.
Mones make people subconsciously react, You have made her conscious of it.
It just like when you make someone aware of biting their nails. They do that without thinking but now you made them consious of it so they will make a effort to try and stop. They go about their day and that conscious thought slowly slips back into there subconscious and they are back to biting there nails again.
Give her some time, If she asks if you have them on say no. Try to use different covers so she dosnt recognize the scent. It will slowly start to work again.