Prince Charming won't close the deal....... I need some help!!!!

Hello,

My name is Stormy1. I’m new here. I found the site last night and read a lot of the posts and got interested, so joined up today.
I’m from TX, and looking forward to finding a good combination of pheros here to land the love of my life that I’ve known for, well, half my life.
Our timing has been off, throughout the years, meaning that one of us was always otherwise engaged while the other one of us was single… Well, we’re both single now, and see each other as often as we can right now since we live in different cities and have work and children we are responsible for. We’ve never ‘hooked up’ or anything. We have an amazingly strong attraction to each other already, chemistry that’s unbelievable, good communication/openness, and it appears that we should be a good biological match, but I don’t know if we’re both worried that after knowing each other for so long that it would mess things up if we took things to that ‘next level’. I know we’re both a little scared and nervous about how it will turn out if we do decide to do anything. I’m SO crazy about this man, and I don’t know what else to do to get past this obstacle we’ve encountered.
I was reading a post by Ail (Bunny?) and Dolly last night about what to use to really drive your man completely wild, and I think I would like to try that to see if it will help us get started on what I already know is going to be PHENOMENAL for both of us!
From what I was reading, here is what I was thinking about trying, but I don’t know if it is too much to do since I have never done this before or ever even tried something like this, and since I have NO CLUE about how to use or how much, etc…
OK - Ail & Dolly suggested the following, and I need to know if I am on the right track or not…
IS (B) x5 cops mixed together with EoW, chocolate fragrance + Lust After Me x5 or 10 cops, chocolate + Instant Honesty (but not in places where it would work on me as well! - I didn’t even know this was possible… I thought whatever I put on me only works on him?) + Pink Sugar to cover smell of pheros (Do they smell bad or something? & is Chanel No5 ok to put over all these instead of the Pink Sugar?) - My man LOVES chocolate, though, so this sounds like I’m on the right track.
Is there a guide/instructions that come with all of these for us newbies to know where/when/how to apply, etc?
Hope this wasn’t too much for my very first post! I really appreciate any and all information from those of you who have more experience here, and welcome any suggestions you may have!
Thank you in advance, and look forward to hearing back.

Welcome to the forum.

If you already have such strong chemistry, I might be tempted to go without artificial pheromones and just let the natural magic evolve.

If it works out for you two there will be plenty of time later for enhancements.

Others will have some different and equally valid suggestions.

Hi! Thanks!

I thought that might be the best way to go, too, but I guess I am a little impatient, or that maybe since it was building so slowly that I might need to try something like this just to help me out a little.
I mean, it’s pretty intense already, but somehow he always manages to walk away when it seems it should be virtually impossible (at least it’s that way for me!) to do so… so i thought maybe this would give me that little extra edge that might keep him from stopping himself b/c i’m getting a little more than frustrated here. :stuck_out_tongue:

If someone is successfully resisting their already strong desires, pheromones are not likely to push them over the edge. Pheromones work on the part of the brain that creates attractions and desires, but seem to have limited to no power to overcome inhibitions. Inhibitions originate in an entirely different part of the brain.

That said, you might want to read the stickies in the women’s forum. There is a lot of information the ladies here have gathered together. You can also post a question over there and get some very valuable points of view from the ladies. They’ll be all over an interesting (and romantic) situation like yours.

Ok, thank you so much! This is VERY helpful!

Gone… I did not know how to show what we had already talked about here, so I just copied this post to the Women’s forum. Think that will work?

You could do that, or just put a link to this post in your new post in the women’s forum.

I think you can just copy this link.

Thank you. I will do that once I can open the post. Guess I don’t really know how to use the posts/threads yet b/c they won’t open after I finish them until someone replies… can you tell I’m new to the chat/post part of this, too???
Thankfully, you replied to this one or I would still be sitting here trying to figure out what I did wrong! LOL

I think Ilsa had some good pheromone “reports” as well. Check out her posts. She was using copulins a lot..