My name is Stormy1. I’m new here. I found the site last night and read a lot of the posts and got interested, so joined up today.
I’m from TX, and looking forward to finding a good combination of pheros here to land the love of my life that I’ve known for, well, half my life.
Our timing has been off, throughout the years, meaning that one of us was always otherwise engaged while the other one of us was single… Well, we’re both single now, and see each other as often as we can right now since we live in different cities and have work and children we are responsible for. We’ve never ‘hooked up’ or anything. We have an amazingly strong attraction to each other already, chemistry that’s unbelievable, good communication/openness, and it appears that we should be a good biological match, but I don’t know if we’re both worried that after knowing each other for so long that it would mess things up if we took things to that ‘next level’. I know we’re both a little scared and nervous about how it will turn out if we do decide to do anything. I’m SO crazy about Prince Charming, and I don’t know what else to do to get past this obstacle we’ve encountered.
I was reading a post by Ail (Bunny?) and Dolly last night about what to use to really drive your man completely wild, and I think I would like to try that to see if it will help us get started on what I already know is going to be PHENOMENAL for both of us!
From what I was reading, here is what I was thinking about trying, but I don’t know if it is too much to do since I have never done this before or ever even tried something like this, and since I have NO CLUE about how to use or how much, etc…
OK - Ail & Dolly suggested the following, and I need to know if I am on the right track or not…
Instant Sexiness (B) x5 cops mixed together with EoW, chocolate fragrance + Lust After Me x5 or 10 cops, chocolate + Instant Honesty (but not in places where it would work on me as well! - I didn’t even know this was possible… I thought whatever I put on me only works on him?) + Pink Sugar to cover smell of pheros (Do they smell bad or something? & is Chanel No5 ok to put over all these instead of the Pink Sugar?) - Prince Charming LOVES chocolate, though, so this sounds like I’m on the right track.
Is there a guide/instructions that come with all of these for us newbies to know where/when/how to apply, etc?
Hope this wasn’t too much for my very first post! I really appreciate any and all information from those of you who have more experience here, and welcome any suggestions you may have!
Thank you in advance, and look forward to hearing back.
I thought that might be the best way to go, too, but I guess I am a little impatient, or that maybe since it was building so slowly that I might need to try something like this just to help me out a little.
I mean, it’s pretty intense already, but somehow he always manages to walk away when it seems it should be virtually impossible (at least it’s that way for me!) to do so… so i thought maybe this would give me that little extra edge that might keep him from stopping himself b/c i’m getting a little more than frustrated here.
If someone is successfully resisting their already strong desires, pheromones are not likely to push them over the edge. Pheromones work on the part of the brain that creates attractions and desires, but seem to have limited to no power to overcome inhibitions. Inhibitions originate in an entirely different part of the brain.
That said, you might want to read the stickies in the women’s forum. There is a lot of information the ladies here have gathered together. You can also post a question over there and get some very valuable points of view from the ladies. They’ll be all over an interesting (and romantic) situation like yours.
Thank you. I will do that once I can open the post. Guess I don’t really know how to use the posts/threads yet b/c they won’t open after I finish them until someone replies… can you tell I’m new to the chat/post part of this, too???
Thankfully, you replied to this one or I would still be sitting here trying to figure out what I did wrong! LOL
Stormy, not sure if I’m understanding properly, but you can’t get EoW in a chocolate fragrance. Also, I’m not sure if newbies are currently allowed to get products with distinct fragrance packages–I’m not even sure if I’m allowed at the moment, since my membership is under a year. You’ll have to take that up with Jasmin.
If you do get something in chocolatini or cookie, don’t mix that with Chanel No. 5. Pink Sugar is compatible with it, though.
Sexiness, Honesty and EoW sounds like a great combination. Good luck!
Stormy, there is a LOT of information in this forum. Definitely more reading will help, as far as usage instructions, combinations, etc.
As Laurie so correctly pointed out, unless policies have changed without my knowledge, newbies are not allowed to order custom products, such as increasing the cop content. I’m not sure if that applies to scent pkgs but I would assume so.
Gone with the Wind is very correct also. If your man has something that is holding him back, and is adamant about it, pheros won’t change that. Pheromones will not make someone do something that they would normally not do.
That said, maybe you need to get some IHonesty and sit down and have a heart-to-heart conversation with this man and find out exactly what it is that is stopping him. IHonesty will open him up and help him talk about it.
Also, ISexi is a good place to start with the pheromones. It is a good basic, and many of us ladies here don’t want to be without it.
Oh, I did not know about the policy for cops and scent packages. I just read some of the forums that had that information in there, and it sounded like a good combo, but did not know it was not something that anyone could do. I believe it was a post by some more experienced members, though, so that makes sense now.
Yes, I agreed with Gone With the Wind, too, and he explained it very well about the effects of pheromones on the brain. I suspect I know what is holding Charming back, but I guess only time will take care of that, and I am just getting impatient is all.
Your suggestion about using Instant Honesty is a good one, and I think that is the direction I will go to begin with. Like I said, I feel like I already know what’s holding him back, but maybe the Instant Honesty will help both of us out to get past it… Might even be a good idea to let it work on me, too, so I won’t hold back telling him how I really feel about it, huh?
On the Instant Sexiness, is the A or B better for a newbie? or, does it just depend on what effects it has on an individual? They both inspire self-confidence, right? but, I’ve read that they have some subtle differences between the A/B, and guess I don’t really understand that part.
Thank you so much for your help! Everyone is so helpful and informative! Lots of very nice people here!
The difference between A and B is the vibe that they give off. They are both sexy and hot, but they have been described as the difference between Angelina Jolie (A), and Marilyn Monroe (B). A is more of a take charge, put your foot down type of vibe, while B is more of a fluffy, flirty vibe.
Some of us here have worn both, but we usually gravitate toward one or the other. I prefer A, because I am avery strong personality…but I wear B if I want to soften my image. The only way you will find what suits you best is to try them both.
Mix A is the default, so if you don’t specify that you want B, A is what you’ll get.
Thank you, that really helps on the Instant Sexiness for me.
My personality is already more of the B, I think, from what you described above.
I guess I do need to start experimenting to see what works best.
Question on Instant Honesty… Is it the same for men and women? I was just going to try the to go size to get started and see how it works for me. It does not specify male or female for that size… or if it is a spray like the bigger one or not?
Hi Stormy, another thing you might try is Liquid Trust. It has Oxytocin, which some studies show helps create feelings of security. It is odorless, so blends well with any fragrance. When ever I use this, people seem to always stand closer to me, give hugs and so on. I use this on top of phero’s sometimes. Just take it slow, you don’t want to overwhelm the guy. It might scare him.
There is one thing that I don’t understand. They have been friends for so long. I think that with such a long history of friendship there is nothing that any of my friends can do which will spoil the friendship. So why not make an overt gesture, although still not making a move directly but making him feel okay that his advances will be accepted and are actually expected.
Reward (by being more physical, complimentative etc.) him for sexy behavior and punish (by being cold) him for unsexy friendly behavior. That should point him in the right direction, no?
Also, it’s a fairly new policy, which is why you’ll find some of the older threads contain recommendations of custom products to brand new members. You can check out the new policy here:
So, thank you!