Hi everyone. I really hope this isn’t a stupid question but I was wondering if pheromones can be used with a specific person. I want to use it to see if a friend of mine is attracted to me as everyone says he is but he is not open and honest at times and the way he’s been acting is really affecting the friendship. I saw a previous post mentioning that pheromones can help someone admit their true feelings for you and I was just wondering which one I would get if I were to purchase one. I would have to use it on a guy and I am a guy so is there even such a product?
Sure you can use Instant Honesty or Instant Openness. They dont have a sexual overtone to them. They just make people open up more and talk alot. Of course they can be used with other products to push it towards a more sexual vibe but If things dont “swing that way” you have nothing to worry about and can still remain friends.
Instant honesty works a little too well. I know people say set and forget when you put on pheromones. But if your using Instant Honesty always be conscious of it. You might end up blurting things out you’d rather not say.
As for using them on a specific person, anybody that can pick up on the smell it will affect one or another.
Nope no real difference in the product except that when you spray it a little less comes out because its not as big as the big bottle. So one squirt is like 3/4 of a squirt from a large bottle or something close to that.
The to-go bottle are so you can carry them in your pocket but they are also great for if you just want to try something without investing as much right away.
Case 1: A single spray of Instant Shine 1x from the 30 ml bottle delivers about 120% of the Instant Shine 1x in a single spray from a to go vial. (Or one to-go spray equals 83.33% of a regular bottle spray. The ratio is six to-go sprays equals five regular sprays.)
Case 2: A single spray of 15 mcg of phero-X from the 30 ml bottle delivers the same amount of pheros as a single spray of 15 mcg phero-X from a to go vial.
So .. if the product is rated as “single strength” or “double strength” etc., then the to-go spray delivers less phero dosage than the regular bottle. If the product is rated as “N mcg per spray” then that’s what it is, whether from the regular bottle or to-go vial.
Instant Honesty might be the route to go if you want your target guy to tell you what he is feeling verbally. That assumes that he knows what he is feeling and can articulate it. But he might also be tongue-tied.
You might want, instead, to try Androstadienone, perhaps with some Instant Shine or Ammunition … and see if he responds … eh, non-verbally.
Androstadienone has been shown to produce brain-pattern arousal responses in women and in homosexual guys – but tends to be somewhat depressing to hetero guys; so you might also benefit and enjoy the Androstadienone yourself. And Androstadienone might be more conclusive in getting a go/no-go signal from your guy.
Hmm, interesting. I just want him to verbally tell me how he’s feeling. The friendship was great and now it’s very awkward and I just want to know why he acts the way he does these days. I want to make sure I get something that is going to work because this has been going on for roughly 3 years now and it’s driving me up the wall. How is the success rate? I feel like everything I’ve tried, just in general never works and backfires. it’s like this black cloud that follows me!
On a side note, if we are drinking, how would that affect the results?
I’m not sure what you’re going for here. When you say you want to see if he’s attracted to you, do you mean in a sexual manner? If so, is this friend of yours “gay”? If you don’t know, you should ask, and do not go off of speculation of your own or others. If that is already cleared up, and you are going for a sexual attraction, then you could try Mystery Boy by Smartmones/Androtics. I have no idea how it works since I am a straight guy, and obviously have not had experience using it. You really shouldn’t go by what everybody else is telling you. Seriously, everybody doesn’t know how one particular individual feels, though, they’ll try to tell you they do, which is only their arrogance talking to them. So, if that’s the case, I think communication between you and your friend is the first priority before making any decisions about using pheromones. But, that’s just my take on it.
I know there is also a PURELY social attraction that you could have meant in your original thread. Normally when people use the word attraction, they mean in a sexual manner, but I thought I’d ask to better clarify what you’re going for. Anyways, if you meant in just a purely sociable manner, then I’d go for any of the social pheromones on Smartmones.com ala Instant Openness, Instant Honesty (this will probably be your best bet), Instant Shine, and CTTM2 (Come Talk To Me Mix 2 - haven’t tried it).
I beg your pardon, mindset, but how does Tim’s question land him in a web of “should” and “should not.” Just asking his friend was an option before Tim asked about pheromone possibilities, so, in essence, you’re telling Tim he’s stupid (or bad) for not “just asking” – and I don’t think you can back that up.
And your lack of experience with Mystery Boy qualifies you how to recommend it? I’ve used Mystery Boy, and I think that if Tim was going to a party where he wanted to meet other guys, it would be a realistic option. But – in my opinion-- it’s probably spectacularly inappropriate to the problem he indicated he wanted advice on.
Eh, fella … here you are back in the world of ‘should’ and ‘shouldn’t’ – and you might want to reflect your views back on your own advice. How is it that everyone else’s suggestions are arrogance, but your wad of “one right way of shoulds and shouldn’ts” is … what? humbly offered?
That’s an interesting moral position, but I’d like to see some justification for it.
PS: Just an observation, mindset: you’ve chimed in on forum topics touching on homosexuality before with a fairly passionate tone – even vehemently – and I’m wondering what a straight guy has going on to make him so invested …
I have tried to ask him and it’s uncomfortable. Asking a friend how they feel isn’t the easiest thing to do. I just want to know if he is or isn’t and why things are so weird. He flirts with me and then when I try to approach him about it, either I back down or he begins to avoid me for a month or 2. Then, we hang out again and he does the little flirtacious things. It’s a cycle that has been going on for years and I just haven’t had any luck getting him to talk. He has a girlfriend so it makes it easier for him to avoid but it makes things weird for me when we hang out.
Ok, he may be flirtatious in a friendly/fun manner, not in such a serious vibe, which is why he backs down when you approach him about it. My friend used to do that around his friend as well to make him more comfortable around him since they were just friends. I don’t know how else to better explain it other than it may just be playful interaction. This happens a lot of female friends that I have - we flirt, but it doesn’t mean we have anything going on an intimate level… it’s just a moment of fun.
So most agree Instant Honesty would do the trick in getting an honest answer? Like I’ve said, this has been dragging on for years. I even went to a reputable psychic who was right with everything else and with several people I know and she told me he was gay and in love with me but that I shouldn’t bring it up..to let him do so. Like i said, just a strange situation overall. But would Instant Honesty do the trick in getting him to admit if he has any feelings?
Where do you make that assessment? He said that others were telling him that he was attracted to him. Since when does anothers opinion validate individual emotion? Psychology is deeper than the surface.
In the context of his post, he sounded like he wanted to validate sexual attraction. At first, I did not know what he meant by attraction. Attraction can be in a variety of forms. I did not say Mystery Boy would work for him as I did indicate that I had no experience with it for obvious reasons. It was a wild guess, and I was unsure if Tim knew about the product as it is rarely brought up on these forums. By the way, why do you think I advised Tom to ask his friend first about the situation instead of resorting to pheromones? It sounds like you’re attacking me without a real focus here … based off of a debate 2-3 months ago?
Easy. You blatantly ask the person you ‘speculate’ may be one way or the other. If they don’t give you an answer, leave it alone - it isn’t your duty to drive it out of him/her. Your outside opinion does not validate a persons orientation - no matter how educated you think you are. That’s the only “should and shouldn’t” I recommended, by the way. To stop assuming, and start doing. Assumptions mean nothing.
What? Are you trying to say that using pheromones solely will get the response he’s searching for? LOL. Bro, what don’t you get that confession is the only way to validate orientation?
Listen, I don’t care that Tim is straight/gay/or bisexual, nor his friend for that matter. You seem to be more passionate - even vehement - on proving that I am a homophobe, rather than reading the content of my posts. Not once did I come off as condescending in Tim’s thread - the simple fact is if you don’t know, then ask, and don’t assume, because assumptions are vague, and hold no credibility. There are times when I was sitting in class looking at a shirt a female was wearing to make out what it said on the front - yet I’ve gotten dirty looks as if I was solely looking at her breasts, when I knew I was just trying to make out the inscription on her shirt. The reaction I got was that she thought I was checking her out - that’s my assumption, but it could have been a variety of things. With that said, it is relevant, because it says that ones perception is not always the case, and more than likely is not as perception is often skewed by various filters, belief systems, suggestions(!), and bias.
Also why do you wonder about my position on this debate when clearly it is a topic that the general population is familiar with? You seem to have more time invested than me. To answer your implied question, though. No, I’m not gay - and, no, I’m not a homophobe. I’m just tired of people going off of their speculation, rather than just approaching and getting a straight answer. In this case, it appears that Tim did approach his friend, yet he backed down. My speculation is his friend isn’t feeling Tim in that way, but through conversations I’ve had with other people, they’d say that he was “uncomfortable with his sexuality.” LOL. How do you make that assessment? It’s ridiculous, and completely off-base. If a female that you were not interested in approached you in that manner, you would back down just as much in that respect. The fact is, Tim will never know until his friend gives him a straight answer.
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