I’ve been reading through a lot of posts and this site has a plethora of information. So far so good. I have a few questions though and hopefully someone can help out.
I’m married and my self confidence is low right now. My wife picks up on this and has told me that she wants a man who she can feel proud of. Because of my low self confidence I don’t get as much affection from her so it’s a dangerous cycle and I would like to get out of it. I would also like to spice up our sex life a little more, too.
After reading through many posts and reading profile descriptions I thought that I would start off buying the Instant Shine, A314 and the heat.
I figured the shine and A314 would work well together because it would give me that glowing nature and the alpha male edge. And the heat would be used for those special occasions. How much of this should I use? I was thinking one spray of the shine and A314 together would be enough.
Now, we both work a lot and we only see each other for about three hours a day during the work week. Do I have to use this stuff every day or can I just use it on the days when I know we’ll be together? When we’re done working we are both usually pretty tired.
Thanks.
Tallguy.
Edit: I forgot to mention that I already bought some pherelure (sp) and from what I’ve read on this site it seems like it’s a hit or miss with women. Should I wait to see what kind of reaction I get from this stuff before I actually buy other pheromones?
You’ve done some good research. A314 should give you that aura of respect and trustworthiness and will help you out in that department. Instant Shine is a must-have. It really makes you seem approchable and, well, a star! It has wonderful self-effects by up-lifting your mood and makes you feel more confident. I would suggest o1 or 2 sprays A314 and 3-4 sprays Instant Shine. Definitely save the Turn Up The Heat for special occassions when you want to drive your wife crazy with desire. One spray to the chest should do that just fine!
Just remember, pheros will only open the door for you, but you’ll have to step up to the plate to see any real responses.
Glad to help you here in Pherotalk so welcome on board So i see you have read a lot from here & you are keen on trying pheros here, that’s good of you there
Ok i see that you have selected a good variety of pheros, well honestly speaking i was about to recommend the same pheros but not A314 to you. Anyway yes Instant shine is great for boosting confidence & making people feel comfortable with you And Turn Up The Heat is good for intimate relationship there, so good selection on both pheros there But i would like to recommend Instant Honesty as this is also suitable used together with TUTH for better results
Ok for the dosage, 2 to 3 sprays will be sufficient for you there & i think it will be better you wear it when you & your wife are together on my opinion.
tallguy, I forgot to mention that everyone’s reaction to and with pheromones is different so when you receive them, you’ll have to experiment with dosages to see what works best for you, but you’ve been given some good suggestions to start with.
In regards to low self confidence . . . . well, I’m a sucker for affection. If I receive affection then I feel better about myself. My wife doesn’t give me much affection at all and I know it’s because of the low self confidence. Depressed . . . I would say that may be a side effect from low self confidence. I was taking some st john’s wort for a while but I’m not good at keeping a schedule with it. My response to affection comes from my upbringing. I had a lot of brothers and sisters so affection from parents was minimal. It’s part of my “baggage”.
When she and I were dating she gave me tons of affection. After marriage and a kid things started to go down hill. We had a lot of things happen in our first year of marriage that really taxed our marriage and I’m not sure if things will ever be the same.
I figured I would give this stuff a shot and see how it goes, though.
Thanks everyone for the good advice. I’m a little nervous using these because I’m not sure how people are going to react. It’s going to be very interesting.
tallguy. Hey bud. Been there on the low self-confidence issue. Physical relations on the other hand… well, I’m a member here now. 'nuff said.
But, the self-confidence thing, that’s purely a state of mind issue. I struggled with that after falling into a serious lull. Although I’m no expert on Phero’s, one thing I will suggest is a great audio book I that I listened to. It’s called “Secrets of the Alpha Male” by Carlos Xuma. I hate to sound like I’m an advert, but the thing is, the book changed my life. It gave me a whole new insight to the the thought processes of others.. men and women alike.
I have no problem picking up women now. Of course, that wasn’t my goal – I was concerned that my lack of self confidence emitted a negative image that others, in particular, my wife, would pick up on and thus be less attracted to me. Unfortunately, the changes I’ve made, albeit positive, did not influence things at home. But, they did go a long way toward boosting my internal self confidence, which is viral and has improved a lot of other aspects of my life.
Anyway, if you’re interrested in that audio book, google it. If you can’t find it, email me and i can tell you how to get it very, very cheap.
I think you made some good choices with A314, TUTH and Ishine. What is your age by the way ?
Ishine has some slight confidence boosting ability but it mainly improves mood and outlook as well as makes everyone around you feel warm happy and comfortable.
A314 is the Alpha respect mone and can give you a bigger boost in confidence as well as help you attain respect and awe from others.
TUTH is sex in a bottle LOL
I do suggest you working on your confidence in other ways as well like Alpha mentioned. Mones will enhance and influence but they wont do it all for you. They are a step in the right direction to self improvement. You will have your wife drooling before you know it
Hey there. I love affection too…and I know if it feels like you are not having your affectionate needs met that can make life more difficult.
I will say one thing as a doctor - Not that I want to interfere or that I am diagnosing you…that is one thing I would never do…
just something to think about - if you feel you may be in a bit of depression for whatever reason you may want to get checked by a physician for a chemical imbalance…they can be common…just ask you friendly physician whomever that may be.
Pheromones will not to my knowledge (as of this date anyway) repair a physical condition as a chemical imbalance.
NOW, on to the fun stuff. pheromones can definitly add some fun and zest to your life…and the intrigue and mystery can be a thrill in themselves. it is always fun to test and document changes or what some call “hits” in other people. Even the self effects - for me anyway - have been quite pronounced.
I absolutely love Instant Shine and P74 is one of my faves…both of those men and women can wear. Another pheromone that I one time saw a significant hit from is Instant Honesty.
Then the men can tell you about the specific Male Pheromones that they like ---- for the lovey dovey action.
Thanks for the great support everyone. I’ll check into that book, too. The crazy part is that I’m a small business owner and I handle my customers with great confidence. But when I go home it’s like all of that is shattered. For some reason, women have a way of destroying my self confidence. . . . . I know, it’s not them but me.
Anyway, I plan on making an order soon and I plan on getting all of the ones that I originally stated. I’ll keep everyone posted on how it goes.
So i see you have read a lot from here & you are keen on trying pheros here, that’s good of you there 
