Report: First Date -- Ascend XS + AMMO

[lakerman34]

Target: 23 year old Hispanic girl
A bit about me: 25 years old, mixed

How I applied: Out of the shower (in the steam and all), I applied 2 sprays of AMMO directly to my neck, waited a bit (a few minutes) and layered the Ascend XS over it (2 sprays).

Effects: I was already nervous going into the date, so, admittedly, I took a shot of rum before I headed out. She has been texting me VERY consistently (rarely over goes a long amount of time without returning a text), so I sort of knew that interest was already relatively high coming from her.

We both park next to each other. I tell her “hey girl, huge me,” she gives me a side hug. The entire night she seemed a little…high strung.

During the dinner, I could tell that she was sort of trying to impress me, but not really doing the greatest job at it (she spoke like she was 19 years old). I feel as if I calmed her down a little bit. She spoke about her ex A LOT. I feel as if I got in 5 words the entire night.

I felt pretty confident and sexy. I was listening to myself talk, and noticed I had sex voice.

The thing that was especially weird was that her smiling/laughing was very minimal. She was talking to me about her worst exes, her worst roommates, her job and the struggles her kids (her students – not children) have, there were very few, “so…what do you do for fun?” sort of questions.

Funny blip from the night: I put condoms in my pocket as a “just in case.” I accidentally pulled them out. She definitely saw them. I must have gotten red as a cherry trying to calmly put them away.

At the end of the night, we walked back to the parking lot together, I gave her a hug goodnight, and she thanked me for dinner.

When I got home, told her that I hoped she had fun, she said, “I did! I hope you did too!” I asked her on a second date, she said “absolutely, can’t wait!”

Overall, I don’t see her as long-term potential (i.e. NOT the girl I’m going to end up marrying), but she’s EXTREMELY attractive, so that and the fact she had nerves is keeping me going.

For next date: I’m looking for something more sexual. I want her to have an internal mental battle that keeps her from jumping my bones in public. However, I also want something that will help her relax and become a bit more giddy (I don’t think she drinks).

Thoughts?

[radioheadalways]

I like one spray of Summer AMMO with one spray of P83 (40 mcg), and a spray of IS double strength. The conversation doesn’t sound very good to be honest.

[Smellymen2002]

@lakerman34

Target: 23 year old Hispanic girl
A bit about me: 25 years old, mixed

How I applied: Out of the shower (in the steam and all), I applied 2 sprays of AMMO directly to my neck, waited a bit (a few minutes) and layered the Ascend XS over it (2 sprays).

Effects: I was already nervous going into the date, so, admittedly, I took a shot of rum before I headed out. She has been texting me VERY consistently (rarely over goes a long amount of time without returning a text), so I sort of knew that interest was already relatively high coming from her.

We both park next to each other. I tell her “hey girl, huge me,” she gives me a side hug. The entire night she seemed a little…high strung.

During the dinner, I could tell that she was sort of trying to impress me, but not really doing the greatest job at it (she spoke like she was 19 years old). I feel as if I calmed her down a little bit. She spoke about her ex A LOT. I feel as if I got in 5 words the entire night.

I felt pretty confident and sexy. I was listening to myself talk, and noticed I had sex voice.

The thing that was especially weird was that her smiling/laughing was very minimal. She was talking to me about her worst exes, her worst roommates, her job and the struggles her kids (her students – not children) have, there were very few, “so…what do you do for fun?” sort of questions.

Funny blip from the night: I put condoms in my pocket as a “just in case.” I accidentally pulled them out. She definitely saw them. I must have gotten red as a cherry trying to calmly put them away.

At the end of the night, we walked back to the parking lot together, I gave her a hug goodnight, and she thanked me for dinner.

When I got home, told her that I hoped she had fun, she said, “I did! I hope you did too!” I asked her on a second date, she said “absolutely, can’t wait!”

Overall, I don’t see her as long-term potential (i.e. NOT the girl I’m going to end up marrying), but she’s EXTREMELY attractive, so that and the fact she had nerves is keeping me going.

For next date: I’m looking for something more sexual. I want her to have an internal mental battle that keeps her from jumping my bones in public. However, I also want something that will help her relax and become a bit more giddy (I don’t think she drinks).

Thoughts?

I personally would go a different route. I saw she was 23, if your interested in this girl, connect with her first. I would go with IH and AMMO, connection and a little sexy.

If that mix doesn’t work IS and AMMO have always been solid combo for me.

Suggested mixes: 1 spray of ammo + 1 spray of IHx2 or 1 spray of ammo + 2 sprays of IS

Your mixed so your sweet spots might be different. I’m a white guy and those combos have done well for me.

At 23 if you go to sexy to fast you will most likely repel them. That’s why I prefer the older women

Now after all that I notice you said she talked about her Ex’s, and other stuff. Nothing date worthy, I’m afraid you might be getting friend zoned here. Next time she mentions Ex’s or anything not date worthy say " ok now back to us"

You have to let her know your not an emotional blanket here.

Limit your texts as well. For every two she sends send one. This lets her know you are busy, and not at her beck and call. Don’t text back right away wait like ten minutes.

Last thing eliminate out of your mind how hot this girl is. This will help your confidence and help put her at ease. My friend once said women can sense nervousness a mile a way, it then makes the ladies nervous as well.

I know you know this stuff man just refreshing the memory.

[lakerman34]

@Smellymen2002

I personally would go a different route. I saw she was 23, if your interested in this girl, connect with her first. I would go with IH and AMMO, connection and a little sexy.

If that mix doesn’t work IS and AMMO have always been solid combo for me.

Suggested mixes: 1 spray of ammo + 1 spray of IHx2 or 1 spray of ammo + 2 sprays of IS

Your mixed so your sweet spots might be different. I’m a white guy and those combos have done well for me.

At 23 if you go to sexy to fast you will most likely repel them. That’s why I prefer the older women

Now after all that I notice you said she talked about her Ex’s, and other stuff. Nothing date worthy, I’m afraid you might be getting friend zoned here. Next time she mentions Ex’s or anything not date worthy say " ok now back to us"

You have to let her know your not an emotional blanket here.

Limit your texts as well. For every two she sends send one. This lets her know you are busy, and not at her beck and call. Don’t text back right away wait like ten minutes.

Last thing eliminate out of your mind how hot this girl is. This will help your confidence and help put her at ease. My friend once said women can sense nervousness a mile a way, it then makes the ladies nervous as well.

I know you know this stuff man just refreshing the memory.

Good advice, thank you.

Well, she was being threatened by her ex. She ended up having to get a military restraining order and a civil restraining order. She was so terrified, she was asking me to go to the police with her.

That was, in her head, the first thing to talk about during the date. Leading up to the date, she was telling me how she was “nervous” about first dates, sex was brought up BRIEFLY once, and she said, “lets not talk about sex yet – we haven’t even met,” and I told her that I thought she was cute and couldn’t wait for the date, where she replied, “I agree! Me neither!”

The dinner did seem a bit “friendly,” and she’s not exactly the type of girl I would date. My friends think she deserves a second date due to attractiveness alone. We’re going bowling on Thursday

I think she was more nervous than me, honestly. However, we’ve been texting rather lightly today, and she seems to be responding with very short, terse texts (which is kind of unlike her previous to the date). That makes me wonder a little bit.

My thought was if next date goes well (and there should be plenty of opportunity for physicality), invite her to my house for dinner & movie at my house and, if all goes well, sex thereafter. That’s thinking a bit ahead though.

In terms of long-term potential? As of RIGHT NOW, I can’t say she has any. Didn’t feel natural/romantic at all.

But, then again, she was looking for me to take the lead (which was nice – I made practically ALL the decisions and QUICKLY), AND I do see the benefits of the lady doing most the talking (I like relationships where I don’t have to say much).

@mobocaster, what say you in all of this?

[Smellymen2002]

@lakerman34

Good advice, thank you.

Well, she was being threatened by her ex. She ended up having to get a military restraining order and a civil restraining order. She was so terrified, she was asking me to go to the police with her.

That was, in her head, the first thing to talk about during the date. Leading up to the date, she was telling me how she was “nervous” about first dates, sex was brought up BRIEFLY once, and she said, “lets not talk about sex yet – we haven’t even met,” and I told her that I thought she was cute and couldn’t wait for the date, where she replied, “I agree! Me neither!”

The dinner did seem a bit “friendly,” and she’s not exactly the type of girl I would date. My friends think she deserves a second date due to attractiveness alone. We’re going bowling on Thursday

I think she was more nervous than me, honestly. However, we’ve been texting rather lightly today, and she seems to be responding with very short, terse texts (which is kind of unlike her previous to the date). That makes me wonder a little bit.

My thought was if next date goes well (and there should be plenty of opportunity for physicality), invite her to my house for dinner & movie at my house and, if all goes well, sex thereafter. That’s thinking a bit ahead though.

In terms of long-term potential? As of RIGHT NOW, I can’t say she has any. Didn’t feel natural/romantic at all.

But, then again, she was looking for me to take the lead (which was nice – I made practically ALL the decisions and QUICKLY), AND I do see the benefits of the lady doing most the talking (I like relationships where I don’t have to say much).

@mobocaster, what say you in all of this?

My question is do you really want to get involved with someone who has a crazy ex? If you just want sex and you don’t see any potential, I do know if it would be worth it.

[lakerman34]

@Smellymen2002

My question is do you really want to get involved with someone who has a crazy ex? If you just want sex and you don’t see any potential, I do know if it would be worth it.

She got a restraining order. I don’t see why not. She seems like she’s REALLY trying to knock him out of her life.

Annnnnnyways…ideas on pheros for 2nd date? It’s going to be a picnic at the park, possible kayaking afterwards.