I have had 3 dates with this girl. First date I used two sprays of IS and two of Ammo, this is my standard now as I feel I get the best reactions from this combo. I’m still in the comfort stage as I know simple things like 1 on 1 arm around the waist still makes her slightly uncomfortable. HOWEVER, once we got back to my place. I put on a spray of IFM and she was much more relaxed. She did SEVERAL boob grazes which were totally unnecessary. Alot of touching and just an overall lighter mood. Same thing happened on the 2nd date. On the 3rd date, I didnt use any pheroes and felt like she did respond very well. The tension was there again.
I think I will keep using IFM and IS till I get through comfort stage, then maybe TUTH. Although I have not had any reactions from TUTH yet. Possibly because I only go for asians.
Boob grazes don’t always mean what guys think. Often she doesn’t notice it happened. Padded bra and several layers of clothing makes for zero sensation. I’ve been boobed many times by coworkers, students and strangers at the mall with zero intentions of anything sexual. It’s just another part of her body. Hell, I’ve been boobed by men in crowded bars. I figured they were just trying to squeeze by.
I’d give more credence to eye contact, posture and hand/leg touching.
Unless she throws those puppies in your face, lol…i’d leave it, er, them alone for the time being.
Well you’ve already had three dates, so she obviously likes you. As Gegogi said, I wouldn’t read too much into the ‘boob grazes’ lol.
So, let me get this straight…you’re using the Instant Female Magic when you get back to your place? Don’t wait till you get home to use it, use it straight away, at the begining of the date. If you have Come Talk To Me Mix 2 or Instant openness, use that instead of Instant shine…or use Instant Shine and Instant Openness together. It may create a liitle better, deeper rapport.
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And you’re right, lay off the AMMO and Turn Up The Heat…and when you decide the time is right…add it…sparingly…don’t want her heading for the hills. If she’s not ready for sexy feelings she can’t yet handle…she may scoot.
I dunno… I think if you’re gonna lay off on the touching and not rush her, maybe you should keep at least one spray of the ammo. I mean, you want her comfortable, but not so much that she dumps you into the friend zone, you know? You kinda wanna be a danger to her senses lol ok, that’s one that I’ve seen in the romance novels and I just couldn’t resist…
I like the idea of the shine and female magic.. making her feel ‘oh so comforted when she’s with you’ but a little ammo kinda adds that, ‘but what is that edge he’s got to him?’
You want her to **feel safe and comfortable around YOU. However you have to transfer the vibe to her THAT YOU ARE THE MAN, she is looking for and that YOU ARE NOT LOOKING TO BE HER GIRLFRIEND.
Actually, being the man–as aopposed to a sister or GF–is mainly dependent on your attitude and behavior towards her. All the Ammo in the world won’t help you grow nads if you ain’t already got 'em.
And you know this how Survey ? Personal boob experience ? snort Just teasing
I agree boobs can get in the way and bump people without intent. Oh we notice it but we just dont say anything about it and hope you didnt notice LOL. If there are other IOI along with the boob bump then she may be doing it to fire you up but you mentioned she is not comfortable with you arm around her yet so this is douptful.
Even touching a person alot can just be a normal reaction depending on a persons personality.
I would still use the ammo but like bella suggested use your IFM from the start and maybe something like IH or IO to pull her out of her shell a little and make her more comfortable.
So it was the first pub night of the term. i went in with shine and ammo. I was getting hugs left and right. Girls kept hitting me jokingly. Guys were inviting me to drink with them and w/e. Target was with some other guy. Apparently I made it a lil awkward cuz I tried to cut in a few times. Came off as the jealous type.
But… eventually she stayed over and we fclosed. Next morning was still fine. Kissed and whatever. So… no clue what that means… but nxt day she told my friend she couldnt understand why I was jealous and she wasnt sure she liked me. Girls are annoying -_- PS: it was good
from boob contacts before, and this time you did not respond as they did? 
