Thanks for providing more info. First… Mick probably just missed you on the last round. Its hard to sometimes keep track of all the new members coming in while conversations are going on. I will pop her a PM with your intro link and my posting now will bump it up so you will probably get it later today when she is doing them. She will post here when she sends it.
I am thinking IG Ishine and IH in that order.
I agree with GorMas…IG is less intimidating then something like A314. It brings out feelings of safty trust respect but its less alpha intimidating. Not to say its not masculine it is but there is just more intimidation factor with A314
Ishine has a magnetic uplifting warmth to it and works well in any environment.
IH helps open up deeper communication with people.
Can I ask what kind of physician you are ? The reason being is Dbot has a great journal in the mens journal section and he is a therapist. You may find his posts insightful for both your professions. Here is a link to his journal >>> Dbot
You will find there are quite a few NLP members here. Jasmin the Vp here took training with Richard Bandler and a lot of us study body language and Nlp. Your knowledge of it will help a lot in seeing the reactions to mones.
Tisha