Samalams Journal

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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So I’ve decided to create a journal so I could follow my experience and share with others, and hopefully continue to get great advice! I have copied a post I made following up to my original post and cut is short a bit.

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My order arrived too much excitement and I gave myself one spray of IS on one wrist and spread it to the other by pressing down

Day one IS x 1 spray

Self affects - Possibly placebo

Driving to meeting:
Felt extremely happy, thought the world looked wonderful - it did though as it is a gorgeous day here today.
Found myself smiling
Felt very optimistic (I’m pretty much optimistic anyway but lately not so much so it was nice to feel that again!)
Felt very impatient and interested to get to a meeting I never want to go to and never look forward to - it felt like it took forever to get there although it took no longer than normal. It may have been that I was just dying to see if my IS would have any affects!

Driving from meeting:
Generally I am anxious as this weekly meeting eats into other work I do and I will usually have lots of emails awaiting my return, today though I wasn’t anxious at all and generally had a “they can wait” attitude. I even went shopping on the way home rather than rush back and ate lunch without taking my sandwich up to my office so I could get to working asap.

Effects on others:
This mornings meeting what is usually chaotic was very calm and we actually got to make decisions ? he seemed more ordered. He is generally happyish around me and despite his extremely stressful state following a bad week last week was happy today as usual if not more but without the normal sinking into crisis thoughts that he usually has. Very productive meeting.

I left the office on two occasions and each time I returned I noticed the smell of the IS. It smells like the top of my children heads.

My daughter was home when I got back, being a teen her mood could be anything?. She was happy today though as she had managed to get a day off school due to a uniform mishap? however I did notice as we chatted while I made my lunch that she was slightly giggly and asked two questions which I answered and then asked them again as if she was distracted? hmmmm?. Laughed at herself a good bit, her mood did seem very up.

Later that evening
My daughter continued to be in a great mood and I even got a spontaneous hug. My son seemed unaffected, but difficult to tell with him due to his intellectual disabilities, I did notice he kindof leant back into me when I stood behind him, but it was so subtle as to not have happened unless I was looking to see a reaction, maybe he does that anyway and I don’t tend to notice.

Hubby came home and was his usual, but maybe not, I can’t say anything about his level of affection or attention as he is always very very affectionate and stares at me and touches me a lot. We sat together for a while and he who is usually untalkative to the point of mute told me about a program he watched on Netflix the night before, which isn’t unusual that he would say he watched such and such and it was good/bad etc. that would be it, the unusual part was he then proceeded to tell me in so much detail about what the program was about that there is no point in me watching it now as I know every detail… so this is just with IS, I’m dying to see how IO affects him :slight_smile:

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Day two IS x 2 spray

Showered and sprayed IS 1 to neck and 1 divided between both wrists in the morning, wasn’t going to go out anywhere today but wanted to see any self affects and affects on family.

When I came down to the hubby I got my usual hugs and kisses but he seemed to linger slightly longer and the kisses where a bit stronger. Big smiles from him, which isn’t unusual but they appeared “happier” smiles.

I was working on my own for the rest of the morning and I did feel relaxed, calm, optimistic. Could smell the IS but I like the smell so that’s good.

Daughter came home from school and was in a great mood. Son came home but as my childminder was there that day I didn’t see him except for a quick hug and kept working so didn’t notice any particular affects.

After work my mother came around, we get on great and usually have great chats - lately as with the hubby I’ve noticed irritation creeping in to our chats though, my irritation over the last few months… this evenings chat was great, we discussed loads and although disagreed on some things they remained happy disagreements. We seemed to be enjoying ourselves - I would have said that previously but I could see the subtle difference this evening.

Had dinner with daughter while son pottered around, he didn’t seem affected at all but she is I’m sure.

Had the evening to myself as hubby is working lates, felt quite calm and happy - I usually hate to be alone after a certain time and can be anxious and impatient for him to finish work, but this evening I was quite content, when he came home he was happy as usual but I think with a slightly more elevated state of happiness. He again did a good bit of chatter (for him) and was animated… it was great to see him like this, will be trying IO on him in the next few days :slight_smile:

Going to try 3 sprays tomorrow and see the affects on the household. I have a big exhibition to do on Thursday and Friday, which I am not looking forward to but will be interesting to see how IS works there, I may do a spray of IO also.

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So an update on the last few days. I don’t have much time to write so I plan on updating every few days with an overall synopsis.

I’ve used my IS, IO, IH and ISA, ISB to see the effects.

IS
I love the IS, the self effects are wonderful and make me feel so happy, optimistic and calm. I can talk to my hubby now about small things that used to irritate either one of us and now neither of us gets irritated. Our general chats are quite happy and calm, some things that used to send me in a tizzy I can now take with a “doesn’t bother me” attitude, which obviously in turn keeps him a happy man. I can let things go over my head, it doesn’t mean he gets away with something that he shouldn’t though :slight_smile:

I told hubby about IS yesterday explaining it was a spray to make him and people around him feel good and that I had been experimenting all week - pointed out to him where he was a happier / chattier person and he was cool with that - he doesn’t mind my experiments into herbs, essential oils etc. so this is just another thing to do.

I sprayed both myself and him with it yesterday, and we had such a happy day. I think though it made my son very happy too as he had some ADHD type moments, (he hasn’t got ADHD), but both myself and hubby were laughing through it. We went to visit friends (my friends) and went to dinner with them. Hubby is usually silent and doesn’t say much but as I chatted with my girlfriend I noticed that her husband didn’t have to make the usual effort it takes to chat to my hubby, hubby was interacting!!! He called me today for a postmortem and said how he had found it difficult to “get to know” my hubby when he first met him but he thinks he’s opened up now and is a really nice guy - so there’s a success.

We will be using IS as a daily spray from now in. I have only a little left so am going to test the solo effects of the other bottles for the next few days while I make a new order.

IO
Sprayed IO on in the evenings for a few nights this weeks, I had already sprayed my IS during the day. My hubby was very chatty (for him) and would waffle on about lots of stuff (mostly cars though), for example if we were watching a television program and something happened his usual response might be to give a little grunt, then I would ask “what?” and he’d give a short one liner, this week however there was no grunts nor need for me to ask for clarification of the grunt, he’d go full speel into what he though of what just happened. It was wonderful! So IO is doing really well for us and I will continue to use it, although when I need some quiet time I’ll do without the magic.

ISa / ISb
I can’t really say I’ve had any affect, but I used them together, so this week I am testing ISa for a few days and then ISb to see if there is anything that sparks him to lust - today I have sprayed 2 x to neck and 1 x to each wrist, just waiting for him to come home now and see how he reacts for the afternoon / evening. He is generally touchy feely, kissy huggy, so what I am looking for is some oomph in the bed along with the cuddles :slight_smile:

IH
Used this and sprayed my neck by accident, having fully researched and read not to spray too close to your own face to avoid self effects I completely forgot when applying it. Anyway I didn’t feel like I was going to confess some deep dark secret at any point and hubby didn’t also, however we are very honest and I don’t have any secrets and as far as I know he doesn’t either, however having said all of that I also didn’t particularly steer the conversation to deepness as it was a relaxed evening, I will keep this for when I feel we might need to discuss something important and use it with IO to see if we get to have one of those deep conversations. He did blurt out something about work which when he said it I was a bit surprised so maybe…

The combination of using all of the above did make me very frisky even if it didn’t appear to make him so, we had our usual weekly session which was better than normal so that’s a plus, so I’ll keep working on it and research other sprays for the effects I would like to get from him, I don’t particularly need any help in that department as I find him sexy enough as it is.

Any advise in that department is very welcome, I’m thinking of buying some TUTH to use a tiny amount on myself for a reaction from him? Or I have read up some journals and noted the use of P86 (I think it was) by females which seemed to get them excellent results, also TAC (or was it TAH), i’ve read so much now I will have to start again and make notes as I go.

I’m really enjoying the experimenting and in particular the affects of IS - it has already made a huge difference to our family.

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Last week of testing:

IS x 2 sprays - is good for me, my husband and children. I feel the self effects and the family feel the effects. When myself and husband wear it we both get self effects and effects from the others use - we can become quite happy and bubbly. Used this until it ran out mid week, thankfully my order arrived this morning so I now have a large bottle of this and will decant some into a togo bottle for DH to use.

IO x 2 sprays and IH x 1 spray to back of neck - does create a more talkative DH albeit all about cars etc. Also causes me to be a bit more talkative, I found I was becoming more and more silent around him due to his own silence, although I can still talk the head of off anyone else. So this is definitely helping, I need to order more but want to test out other pheros first. When I come back to IO and IH I will up the sprays.

ISB - we got snarky with each other, well I responded to his snarkiness so I don’t think this is any good for me.
ISA - no reaction from DH, I do feel more sexy which is good, but I don’t particularly need that - I want to get him to feel more sexy :slight_smile:

So I still have some ISA, ISB, IO and IH left and my order arrived this morning for IS, MX135, LAM and A314. I am going to start carrying out proper tests on these products as I made the rookie mistake with my IFW and sprayed everything everywhere - I was literally drowning in smells including the skanky EoW, so slowing it down now and will see how it goes.

This will be the starting post for my new testing and I am going to log things that are making testing difficult also so it is clear in my head and I can go back and remind myself before I start spraying everything all over me again!

TESTING NOTES FOR TESTS BEGINNING 02/06/2017

Testing Difficulties:
I work from home and have barely any physical interaction with other humans until children come home from school and my mother will visit in the afternoon, so these are really my only test subjects.

I must live in the friendliest village in Ireland - so judging those I do meet is difficult based on their interactions but I will log reactions anyway just for historical viewing in case I can pinpoint any particular reaction.

DH work schedule can interfere greatly with our time together. Some weeks we literally don’t see each other except for very short times.

When working earlies - DH is gone from home from 5 a.m. until mid afternoon at which time I am still working. We really don’t get to see each other until around 6 p.m. and he is in bed by 9 p.m. and not up for anything other than catching up on his sleep

When working lates - DH will start work mid afternoon, awakes at around 10 a.m. at which time I am working in my office since 8.30 so we don’t get to interact bar a quick good morning kiss, he’s not home then until midnight or later so basically I don’t see him at all that week, definitely no chance of any sexy time during the lates week. If I hit on a good mix for us I must try to get to him in bed on these mornings before he gets up :slight_smile:

Days off - I don’t work at weekends, DH works every second weekend, so he could have 2 days off during the week while I am working (this is ok as at least we get the evenings together so I need to aim for upping his libido and conversation at these times). Best testing times will be when we both have a weekend off together.

His sense of smell - DH has a terrible sense of smell and as the pheromones are supposed to work on that it may prove a difficulty that can’t be surmounted - he did react to the smell of EoW when he came into the bedroom after I used it - said there was a smell of Poo - I blamed my son - though he didn’t seem to smell anything on me. Not even after 20 drops…

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Proper Testing begins…

Day 1 - Test 1 IS and MX135
11:00 a.m. DHL just arrived, was freshly showered.
IShine x 1 spray front of neck (I love the self effects of this so will probably use this with everything as the first layer)
MX135 Choclatini x 2 sprays to sides of neck 20 minutes later, dabbed wrists onto neck area also.

Results:

I began to feel happier, calmer once IS settled in - I get really good self effects from this.

I love the smell of MX135, felt like eating it - Sprayed it to see if there were any self effects but in hindsight I should have used it without IS to see this as the IS already made me quite happy.

Decided to go to the pharmacy to get prescriptions for my son. This pharmacy is the absolute friendliest place I have ever been in so didn’t particularly think there would be evident effects. Could smell myself the whole way there in the car. It’s a very windy day so parked as close as I could and then wrapped my jacket collar around me to try to stop everything being blown away (does this happen??)

Usually friendliness from the staff in the shop. Gave in my prescription and took wandered around to see if my cloud caught any of the other (2) customers there - no particular reaction. An elderly customer came in, he chatted to two children and played with them so he is obviously a friendly old soul anyway, I’ve never seen him before. I was sitting down at this point and he started talking to me from across the shop, he then came and sat down beside me and chatted away - he might have done that without mones anyway so who knows.

My prescription took a while to get sorted as the pharmacists went to extreme lengths to get it put on to my sons medical card - going to lengths again wouldn’t be unusual for the service from this shop but it was a new pharmacist so I don’t know if he would normally do what he did (multiple phones calls to the gov department that handles medical cards, discussions with other pharmacist). I spent longer than I had anticipated in the pharmacy due to the lengths they went to. So I’ll take that as a hit, even though I think they would have done the same regardless :slight_smile:

DH will be home in the mid afternoon so I will give myself another spray to the chest and hair before he arrives. Tomorrow he is off work all day so will only use MX135 on myself (and give him a blast of IS) and see how it goes. Hopefully I’ll have something to report after he comes home this afternoon - fingers crossed anyway!

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Thinking of ordering:

TAF
P81
P83
CTTM
MX274

Note results from MX135 and LAM and then maybe look for advice on above from other users.

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Previous testing note - DH no reaction to 6 x spray ISA, 2 x spray IO, 1 x spray IH, 8 drops Eow. Sigh…

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I am tuned in and nice journal! I seen you are thinking of making an order and I have to ask what would your goals be?

I have tested IS/B and IS/A and MX274 also and is in my journal if you are interested. I actually liked MX274 just it is weird for a guy to be wearing that type of scent LOL.

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Hi Justintime!! I’ve just received an order IS, LAM, MX135 and I got a togo of A314 for DH to use.

I’m thinking of orderings (after I’ve tested the above) TAF, P81, P83, CTTM (in place of IO) and MX274.

I decided on all of the above based on reading journals - your’s included!! I read your experiments with ISA and ISB - very interesting and I’m thinking of spraying the back of DH’s neck with it - what do you think??

My goals are to generate more communication with my very silent (but very nice and loving) man - and this has worked somewhat with IS and IO so I’m pleased with that and it’s proof to me that phero’s work.

and

to try to pump up his libido (excuse the pun). I’m getting to the end of my tether with the libido situation, once a week just isn’t doing it for me and I have to be the proactive one mainly - I really want to feel like I’m the woman in bed and he’s the man, (it’s the old adage, men desire women, women desire men’s desire).

I’m extremely happy to take charge and have a lot of give and take, or I was when we used to have more regular sex but now I’m feeling so bad about his lack of motivation that I find I can’t be bothered to do so much, although I still do somewhat to please him. Like all men I know he likes his woman to initiate and I’d be happy to if we were at it more than once a week - because then I have to wait a whole week to feel “wanted” by my man, I’m finding he’s gone from being a guy of great service to pretty lazy. Don’t get me wrong, he is a really loving, huggy, cuddly, kissy man, in fact lots of women would be envious, but I want the aggressive, physical thing going on too. More and more I think I can’t go for the rest of my (sex) life like this and I’d be better off alone and maybe then find someone else, and I hate thinking like this because I love him very much - it makes me very sad (thank goodness for IS which has saved me over the last week or two).

To this end none of the phero’s I have used have worked. Now I’m on to trying MX135 and LAM.

Any advice from a male’s perspective would be very welcome :slight_smile:

P.s. Not to blow my own trumpet but I have no trouble getting interest from other males, I even have them confessing love to me which is quite annoying. I only want the interest and attention of my own man.

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Thank you for sharing your story and you are certainly not alone at all and I to have similar issues and it is hard when you get hit on by others.

I would look at Brasileira’s journal and definitely P83 should be a good one to get and I have not had a chance to get yet.

The CTTM is pretty much a mix of IO/IH.

I am also thinking that maybe some TUTH for him would be a good idea. You can just tell him it is a cologne you like and want him to try it. The TUTH should help bring back the dominance for him to take charge more in the bedroom.

I noticed you mentioned TAC and with this one it is more a disinhibitor and goes very well to relax someone.

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Hello Samalan!

Is your sweet spot for I.S-A really at 6 sprays? It sounds a bit too much to me… maybe that was the problem. It might have enhanced your “alpha vibe” even more.

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I think I have read a bit of Brasileira’s journal so will go back to it and read it all, thanks for the tip!

Sorry to hear about the issues you are facing also, I see in your journal that you and your wife experiment together so at least she is on board with helping you both to have a good time :slight_smile:

I thought I had ordered TUTH but it wasn’t in my order so was a bit disappointed, when I made my order something seemed to go wrong so I had to put everything back into my cart and I must have forgotten to put it back, you’ve reminded me! I’ll add it to my list for next order.

Did I say TAC - sorry meant to say TAF, I want this as I have read it is good for helping to focus on work, and I am losing a lot of focus these days as my head if filled with trying to get DH amorous again - but I’ll read up on TAC now that you’ve mentioned it might be worth looking at.

I sound like I"m obsessed - I think I am, I’ve been at it for 3 years now :slight_smile: Even Tongkat Ali doesn’t do anything much for him!! It does help though…

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HI Brasileira, do you think so - I kindof moved up from 2 sprays to 6 over a few days but quite quickly, maybe I did it all too quickly. What do you think about a spray of ISb, maybe in the hair, along with MX135 - I’m thinking ISb now as you have said the Isa maybe produced (at those quantities) an alpha vibe, is Isa more alpha than B - I’m a little confused about those two. DH hasn’t reacted to either one anyway, but perhaps mixed with MX135 he may. I’ll give it a go tomorrow as he is off work all day and will have had a chance to catch up on sleep (that’s when he usually gets frisky - actually now that I think of it I can try to go back to bed after the kids have gone to school, he’s quite good in the mornings, it’s just a shame we don’t have many of them together!), also his schedule this week is more of a normal week so he won’t be so tired, so this week is a good week for testing him.

I really haven’t found a sweet spot for any mixes that I’ve noticed, my DH is th only one I can test on as I don’t get to interact with people much, physically that is - I do get telephone/skype contact a lot, which is a shame as I love being around people and am very social.

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we all have a story and no worries, you are not alone. If you hubby is open to the idea of pheromones I find it works wonders. For me I like to spray my wife with IS/B and IShine combo and it does it for me every time.

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Well, as far as I can remember, my husband also didn’t show any reaction to I.S-A on the beginning. In general he always reacted better to the B version, but eventually the A got him (at a low dose and combined with Copulins).

Maybe you should insist on the A a bit longer. Give him time to “accept” your new signature. Also you need time to “learn” how to see the signs (hits). I would start with 2 sprays for the first 2 days. Then 3 sprays for the next two days and so on.

Watch out for compliments he might make you (your hair, your skin, your cloths…) and for skin contact (if he gets more touchy). On the middle of this testing process, go out with him for dinner or just for a drink once or twice. Put on that killer black dress that all women have on the wardrobe somewhere. Oh, and a red lipstick is a must with I.S-A. :smiley:

Good luck and please keep posting :wink:

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OK! Will stick with ISa at smaller doses now and see if I can slowly creep up on him :slight_smile:

I’ll watch for the compliments as he doesn’t do those (he’s doesn’t speak much so it’s all actions with him). He touches all the time - he’s like an anaconda in bed, I feel bad peeling him off me once he’s asleep - so if it does work on him and he touches more I might get a bit irritated - joke!

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Monday testing continued…

15:00
MX135 2 x sprays to chest

No particular reaction from DH! but he’s been up since 5 a.m. and is feeling quite tired, decided not to put to much expectation on the MX135 this evening and just enjoy his company and a glass of wine :slight_smile: No particular reaction from the children, they just seemed to be happy as usual. My mother came around for a visit and we had our usual chats, nothing out of the ordinary there.

On further reflection, I raised a concern with my mother regarding my son, which I had raised with her last week, she is generally my sounding board. Last week she seemed puzzled and not understanding of the dilemma I was raising, but this evening she engaged more in it and offered up sensible (as usual) solutions.

20:00
Isa 1 spray to hair
LAM 1 drop below ear lobes (spread 1 drop between both)
LAM 1 drop on cleavage

DH and I finished the evening watching the OJ Simpson series on Netflix, he was pretty quiet and I didn’t use any IO which usually sparks some conversation as I wanted to limit the pheros I was using. At one point I asked him did he like my perfume and gave him my wrist to smell, this was where I had sprayed some MX135 earlier in the day. He said he could smell something but it was very faint, I could smell it clearly so his sense of smell is definitely off or else mine is very elevated.

I went to bed at around 22:15 and he followed quite quickly, most times he can spend about 20-25 minutes pottering about feeding the dog etc. in preparation for bed. To my surprise he wanted sex :slight_smile: which I wasn’t expecting even though we were at our 1 week moment, I thought Tuesday night would be the night! So here is the interesting part (to me anyway):

Previously DH could go for ages, his stamina was tremendous, his goal is to keep going until I get an orgasm and then he lets go (in my musings I think this is part of the problem, sex has become a lot of work for him as I take a long time with just penetration) he used to be really great at doing lots of different things and switching it up but doesn’t particularly anymore, he likes that I can orgasm from intercourse with him, which I love too and it’s my favorite way. So for the last couple of years he has started to go soft to the point that it happens every time now! possibly because he is focused on keeping going which I wish he wouldn’t. Once he goes soft he switches to other things which is fine, and I can get him hard again and finish the business so we both reach the end goal, but it’s become a bit tense for me worrying about him and I think worrying for him, though he says it doesn’t bother him, that it happens to all men.

Last night however he didn’t go soft, and kept going for god knows how long and was quite hard the whole time (hope this isn’t TMI!), I was exhausted and extremely hot from it. But the very frustrating part was, no matter how much I was loving it and feeling it I just couldn’t orgasm, I asked him was he holding out for me and he said he was, I told him I’d prefer if he would just enjoy himself and not to worry so much about me all the time, I changed his position so he wasn’t so heavy on me and he said he wouldn’t be able to hold on like that so I said go for it which he duly did :slight_smile:.

This all sounds like it was very serious but we were laughing and close.

Afterwards he tried to make me orgasm with his fingers but I just couldn’t! this has never happened to me before, I was so frustrated and I eventually had to stop him. DAMN! I did express my concern that I would now have to wait for another week and I was frustrated, he laughed at this (as if I wouldn’t have to wait a week kindof laugh) so here’s hoping we can get some loving in before the next deadline.

So I’m wondering if the pheros had any impact on my own ability to orgasm? I felt a bit “in my head” - going to read up on TAC .

My LAM didn’t smell of anything - isn’t it supposed to smell weird?

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New musing from me.

I kept DH’s nose as close to my neck as I could last night so he could get some phero whiffs in, so I wonder did that help with his erection… I would love to solve the “going soft” problem as then I feel we can go back to trying different positions as we used to - right now I can’t be on top as he goes soft even quicker…

I feel his confidence is a bit bruised by his physical reaction though he says not, so I plan to try TUTH and A314 with him. Have some A314 now so have to decide how best to use it, will try a self test first…

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So here’s what I have selected in my cart for this weeks shopping:

TAF - to help me focus more on work instead of trawling through Journals all day :slight_smile:
TAC
TAH
P083
MX274
TUTH
Alpha Andrestonol
Beta Andrestonol

If anyone has any advice on other items that would be good accompaniments to these I’d love to hear, this will be my last order for a while as I need to reign in the spending.

All above will be ordered in 12.5mg spray, neroli scent @ 6%.

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Could I ask you a question Brasileira. I’ve just finished reading your entire journal and it is a great read, am hoping to follow some of your mixes when I have built up enough bottles.

I see you mix EO’s (Jasmine mainly) with your phero’s - how do you do this, do you just put a drop or two of EO directly into the phero bottle?