hey, one of my best friends that i’ve known for like 6 or so years is a lesbian. she’s a pretty girl, but i’ve never been interested in her for some reason. she feels sort of like a sister. anyways, i’ve been getting her interested in the world of pickup and she’s read a few books. for all you PUAs, i’m just wondering if there are any specific resources geared towards lesbians picking up other lesbians. I feel like most lipstick lesbians would be interested in similar qualities in a lesbian partner as straight girls are in a male, no? also, are there any pheromone products that i should recommend to her?
It is great that ur trying to help your good friend here!
I think that it is the other way around, like a guy interested in the characteristics of a girl instead, but im not sure and it depends on the people.
So what kind of personality does she have? Most likely some girly pheromone will work too, and ishine can be helpful. Try to ask some ladies here for better advices ![]()
well, my experience has been that a lot of lesbian relationships are founded on one of the two individuals demonstrating a lot of masculine/dominant characteristics in their personality, while the other is more feminine. To the degree that that’s the case, what guys use for pickup may still be useful for a lesbian for picking up more feminine lesbians.
It’s lesbian summer here on pherotalk mens forum!
A recent thread about the results and tests of a lesbian…
Lots of good recommendation on mixes and pheros to try on.
well, she’s really good at starting and holding conversation with people. she’s also relatively femine, well groomed, and attractive. she’s really easy going. i think she comes across as too nice and giving though and doesn’t display high enough value.
from my experiences, a lot of lesbians i’ve known still are attracted to complementary characteristics in their female partners. Maybe not to the same degree as in hetero relationships, but there still tends to be a dominant/more masculine partner and a more submissive/feminine partner. to the degree that that is the case, maybe dulled down standard game would help her in getting feminine lesbians.
Lesbians are attracted to the same pheromone scents men are.
so most of the womens products will work for what she is looking for.
Crossing the gender line to use male products will push her intended targets away, as the targets are not really turned on by men.
or something like that.
Using TUTH is not really a good idea, Ammo has similar results.
I tried and failed, I am now working on increasing my stockpile to add some women’s scents to wear when working with the group of Lesbians I deal with on occasion.
some reading and additional help on the subject-
Haha i personally can testify to the difficulties of finding just the right product for lesbians. Well then again both me and TG are bi, so that does maybe up the confusion factor somewhat!
i’ve had limited success with all my products so far (see my thread for details) but what i can say for sure is that the male pheros really dont seem to work. By that i mean the overtly ‘male’ stuff such as A314 and Turn Up The Heat.
MX135 seemed to cause some fooling around and play fighting with TG, although it was nothing particularly out of the ordinary, just perhaps amplified.
i’m pretty new to this so i’d still like to give the other ‘socials’ a proper try as theoretically they should work.
Bear in mind i live in a hot humid tropical country so my results may not be applicable to you. Although i do spend 80% of my day in airconditioning.
edited to add: i wonder if you would get a better diversity of responses if you put this thread in the women’s forum? This is not to diss the responses I’ve gotten here which have been nothing but helpful and encouraging, but it seems like all the answers point towards the use of the female pheros anyway ![]()
shrugs It’s funny, but I just joined the forum to find out that very thing.
Why don’t you (or other people) find her attractive? Is she more apple-shaped or more pear-shaped? Her waist-to-hip ratio could be preventing sexual attraction from taking place. Other women will pick up on that too, even if the woman they are looking at is very pretty and slim. (Waist-to-hip ratio is my major problem, and the reason why I am hoping to try the pheromones.)